人到中年只做减法

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昨天看到一个兄弟的留言

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特别感慨啊

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他自己中腾的腾讯暴跌了啊

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阿里呢也暴跌了

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这还不是最关键的啊

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关键是公司呢还被查税了

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这是这叫福无双降

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祸不单行啊

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所以他就非常压抑啊

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说人生怎么那么倒霉呢

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嘿嘿嘿呃实际上吧哈就是这个人啊

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我个人感觉啊

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就到了中年或者说给企业做大的时候啊

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就十有八九都是不好的事

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我创业的时候

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有一次我实在受不了这么多坏消息啊

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我就有团队说

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我说你们能不能说点好消息啊

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啊开心一下

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他能说基本上没啥好消息

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好消息也不会找你了

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哈哈哈对

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这就是在中国做企业的一个难受之错啊

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就说一下为什么啊

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我来到美国之后

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整个人变化很大啊

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去年6月份的时候啊

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当时在那个会员群里面

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还有个四群的一个兄弟啊

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我讲过很多次啊

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诶那个事呢对我的打击很大啊

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为什么呢

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就是影响我的心情很长时间啊

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而这种感受呢好久没有了对吧

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就当时我就说小米吧

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当时大概在将近60块钱的时候

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我小米这家公司严重高估了啊

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因为它的三条战线啊

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汽车呀

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手机呀啊

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包括家电呢都是竞争非常激烈

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而且呢我当时推断25年呢

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这三个品类会存量市场之争啊

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然后没有一个老板可以同时善下作战

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那大概在群里面呢

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我说的也比较直接吧

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因为毕竟很多人会受影响对吧

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你也知道小米的粉丝当时很疯狂

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然后怕大家无脑买入嘛啊那你看从将近60块

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但是虽然跌了腰斩啊

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腰斩完之后到现在呢

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大概也只是回到三十四五吧

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也经常腰斩嘛

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那这个事当时呢我的好意提醒呢

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后来被他给举报到公安之后呢

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我就开始想啊

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就做IP这个事真正意义在哪里啊

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我从那以后

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我的直播的频率少了很多啊

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但这个事呢其实也不止一次发生了

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其实从201718年啊

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现在16年的时候

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我经历过很多这种人性的事啊

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就是你是一个很好听的提醒

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告诉他啊

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说这个事哎不太可取

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当然有时候人嘛啊你你忙起来啊

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你很可能说话很直接哈

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就是直接就说啊

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这个事不行

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你这么做会有什么后果

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但是当你在提一些建议的时候啊

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你说这个事有后果的时候呢

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他就会认为什么你是在看不起他啊

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威胁他了

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这就是人性

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所以实际上咱中国有句话叫祸从口出是吧

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就像我创业这十几年啊

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我我就看到很多啊

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农村跟我一样出来的熊孩子啊

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移步到岗位上

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然后提醒他啊

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比如说我说你现在啊你看这个客服啊

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可能赚10万块钱啊

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你可以做做运营啊

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你可以赚更多啊

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做完运营之后

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你可以做个产品啊

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你将来哪怕离开公司啊

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离开菲尔那有一个很好的前途嘛

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但当你在给他们提些建议的时候呢

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其实没有几个人会认真听的

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他为什么说老老板你看不上我了

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但我做的不好啊

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就你当你身边人这种心态的时候

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你是很难受的啊

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你就说实际上你知道它会发生什么命运变化

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你也知道这个结果会发生

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但你又无力阻止哈

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你只能看到它自然而发生

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实际上这个现象已经在你的同学

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你的亲戚啊

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你的亲人

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你的员工

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甚至你抱怨你孩子啊

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你身边啊啊都在发生

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但是你如果说你是一个思考比较深的人对吧

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你看到了这种情况之后

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你会怎么想啊

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你会觉得很痛苦

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那我来到美国唯一的一个改变什么呢

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这些事眼不见心不烦

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我远离了那个让我痛苦的环境哈

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这也是为什么来到美国之后呢

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其实整个人呢疗愈比较快啊

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这就是给家养这个环境的好处啊

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哈哈你知道为什么我特别喜欢新的城市啊

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新的地方啊

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今天我送马尔打球啊

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来了一个新的环境

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这边的环境肯定不如new port啊

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这这么豪华

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但是呢我在每一个新环境下

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我都有很多的感悟啊

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就是不同的人

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不同的房子啊

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不同的建筑啊

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甚至不同的树哈

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不同的啊

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空气啊

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水啊

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阳光啊都感觉不一样

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你知道吧

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就是这种环境会让你瞬间忘掉一些东西

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这个呢就我给创业者讲的第一个逻辑

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就是你要学会换环境啊

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然后呢到不同的环境下

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把你的内心呀给安抚过来啊

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特别是创业和投资这个事的不如意者

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十有八九啊

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就是十有九个都不是好事

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找你的绝对基本上没有好事啊

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昨天那个兄弟啊

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他被税务局给查了啊

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不是一样的

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这种事去年太多了

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你知道吗

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就我们我们经历的早

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我们从2013年啊

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因为我们当时规模啊

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做代理嘛

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规模大嘛

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2013年经历了一些被查出的事是吧

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然后一直到看2022年

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我们一年经历好多次对吧

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那个时候出现问题的时候

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北方你也知道啊

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他他上来先恐吓一下啊

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然后你吹爷爷告奶奶对吧

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然后呢就就就就就天天去找人啊

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求情啊

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到最后呢是吧啊

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补补很多税啊

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交很多钱之类的

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而这个过程呢就是喝酒啊

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被羞辱啊哈被恐吓啊

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这是家常便饭

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你知道吧

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就当我过去经历了很多这种场景之后

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我就想我操

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我说将来我能不能不啊不创业啊

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或者说啊不面对这个事情

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找个人帮我面对

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但实际上你能找到这种人吗

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不可能的对吧

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你就很难找到这种人和办公室主任

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结果你找办公主任发现你还得再多额外的多管

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多管一个人

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你自己到最后呢心里憔悴

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我大概在做IP之前有两三年的时间啊

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就是叫行尸走肉一样啊

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就魂不守舍

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就是你的你的灵魂

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你的精神和你的肉体基本上都不同步

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你知道吗

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就是感觉对吧

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就就对对

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生活很麻木啊

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就是我就想这个中国人的很多老板

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就像洗一个小姐一样对吧

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你就是哈哈是吧

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你麻木不仁了对吧

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你这个肉体精神早就分离了啊

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强颜欢笑

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然后每处都是啊

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感觉你这个很辛苦啊

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啊很多很多人还骂你啊

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你这个赚了很多钱啊

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我一直裁啊

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或者说怎么样啊

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或者怎么怎么样

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反正很多人骂你是吧

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员工觉得你这个给他们待遇不好啊

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但是呢他没有一个人承担你的责任

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当你出现问题的时候

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那大家都跑的远远的是吧

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像我们公司后来出了很多很多事啊

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但是你签完事之后

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你发现你还得一把手去承担对吧

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然后你以至于后面呢就是很多人赚了钱之后啊

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就想着去啊犒劳犒劳去发泄一下

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然后买个好车啊

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然后呢就对吧

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谢谢观众

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观众咳

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花钱去去刺激

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其实这个事我也能理解

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我说一个老板能赚点钱对吧

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你很辛苦很痛苦啊

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找一个地方去感受一下这种赚钱的快乐

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然后再重新激发赚钱的欲望

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这种事呢也无可厚非

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你知道吧

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就是我到后面呢

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因为我经历多了以后呢

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我是不太喜欢这种发泄方式

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我后面我还是喜欢安静是吧

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好好的一个人静一静

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不要被干扰

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但是好在美国呢还给了这种环境嘛

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实际上我在美国呢

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我把很多这种人和事我想明白了

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当然我在山东

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我现在还想不明白

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还有一种怨气啊

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那怨气在于说很多很多累积的那种压抑啊

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痛苦焦虑啊

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不安啊

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又有那种上进的啊

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这种公司做大的欲望

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包括这个啊这这样高不成低不就哈

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这种这种现状哈

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以及说恨铁不成钢那种难受劲呃

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以至于说你变成了怒气

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怨气啊

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稍微一点就着了

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但是呢现在肯定没有了

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我现在你说让我去啊

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去去面对一些困难的时候

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有压抑

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有痛苦绝对没有了

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我是觉得很正常对吧

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这个事情必然这样的啊

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就是包括现在很多人误会你啊

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包括啊就是我举个人例子啊

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比如说你讲投资这个事

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讲投资这个事其实个伪命题啊

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我我想了很多次

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我说讲投资呢最终一定是不不讲投资啊

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哈哈对吧

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就像我在小学写文章一样啊

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我现在很少写对吧

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我当时写文章是因为我创业遇到的困境

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我我想把我的很多痛苦写出来啊

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把我的想法写出来啊

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然后呢梳理自己的思路

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同时呢让别人也能给一些启发

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但是我做投资也是哈

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我我自己觉得做投资呢我自己是喜欢的

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但是呢在通过自己的这种书写啊

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表达呢还能找到更多高手的指点啊

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这是一个双赢的过程是吧

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给别人带来一些启发啊

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比如说给你带来一些啊指点

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那这种过程的话

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你进步更快

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实际上我这些年呢这两块都实现了

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那雪球上我写的少了啊

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毕竟来讲你有思路了嘛

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那抖音上其实还在播啊

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还在讲是吧

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为什么呢

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你觉得还有一些话可以讲是吧

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还有一些讲的动力

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但如果说这个动力呢

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最后你发现跟跟雪球一样没什么感受的时候

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也就这样了对吧

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也就没必要再去讲啊

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这个呢也是大家分享

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就是说这个人呢你去表达是吧

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你去梳理思路啊

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你去链接一些同道中人啊

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这个过程呢

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其实他一定会有一些不是同保证人的哈

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误会你的啊

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包括来讲就是啊各种各样的人性啊

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驱使你就像你做事一样啊

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你一辈子做了99件好事啊

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然后呢最后一件事搞砸了

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那你这一辈子呢

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你那别人记住的只有那一件事啊

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你仰头

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这也是刚才讲了100只股票哈

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有99个挣钱了

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有一个亏啊

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大家记住是那个亏的对吧

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就像还有一个员工一样跟着你赚钱啊

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赚了10年钱

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结果有一年了没挣到钱

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他就认为说这个啊你有问题

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现在一个乞丐都这样

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比如说你每次给他十块钱

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有一天呢你结婚了

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你没有零钱给他了

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他会说你怎么拿我的钱去结婚了

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对不对

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这就是人性

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各位

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所以实际上你做任何事呢

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你得接受

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这就是人性的现状对吧

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那你看我也是这样的啊

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比如说我自己创业这么多年啊

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我每每次想起来过往的这些啊

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十几年的创业经历

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然后我就在那些供应商啊

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不讲诚信的骗子

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我印象最深

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但是你话说回来

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供应商合作十几年

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你说没挣钱挣钱了

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那为什么还在那件事上耿耿于怀呢

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那你会认为说过去的时间都这样的

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为什么第11年不能这样了对吧

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你会认为说那第11年也应该这样才是

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才是正常的公平的

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那这个呢也是我我这我觉得人性很正常

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就他就是你很难避免

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就是你创业你很难避免各种各样的事

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但是呢你要想的是我怎么样减少对吧

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就这个事会发生

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但我怎么样少发生啊

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就像我们做投资一样

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做投资99%的人

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这都挣不到什么钱

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这百分之挣大钱

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你把99%人亏钱的原因还找出来

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然后呢把所有的亏钱的点都去掉

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那最后呢大概率挣钱的

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但是也不一定就是

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你只能说你把亏钱的原因去掉之后呢

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你挣钱的概率会比较高

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但不代表说你一定会挣到钱

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这个呢也是是吧

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就是你是芒格和巴太讲的嘛对吧

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你从别人的错误上吸取教训

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其实我我自己创业

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这是包括这个十几年走过来呢

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我还是非常感慨的啊

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就是实际上还是99%的人还是认可的

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1%的人不认可呢

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其实在中国的时候

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有的时候会变成那种垃圾啊

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在心里面发酵

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读书越来越多

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但美国其实就忘了

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很快啊

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就感觉这一眨眼啊

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一年就过去了啊

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整整一年就感觉是哈就感觉睡了一觉

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早上起来哇哈哈一年了

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这个咱就是给大家喂养啊

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包括哈移民这个事呢也是给大家分享

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就是有人想好了

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为什么要移民啊

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就昨天好几个会员兄弟问我

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强哥

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我也想移民啊

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好提出一些建议

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实际上我在工号上我早就写过啊

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工号那个北方的wolf我早就写过

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我是折腾人才移民啊

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因为我自己呢对吧

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确实是做了几个品牌嘛

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霍南亚多朗都是类目top品牌

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然后呢啊在行业都是类目第一嘛

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那第二个呢就是啊也拿了很多奖项嘛

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第三个你也知道我愿意分享啊

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我有很多这种报道哈

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包括这个转载啊

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包括刊物刊发表嘛

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那第三个收入也不用讲嘛

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那还有就是啊协会啊

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包括这些奖项啊

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啊评委之类的咱也有啊

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也有这些对应的一些资源啊

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拿到了很多

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像我也做了很多大牌的代理啊

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这个人呢比较认可

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然后给了啊很多评价啊

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包括那个啊一些互联网界的一些大佬

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也给写了一些推荐信

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实际上你你说杰出人才难吗

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其实一点都不难

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但是呢你平时要注重积累是吧

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你要学会去分享啊

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学会沉淀啊

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学会与人为善啊

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学会去毫无哈毫无毫不利己

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专门利人的去做一些这个看似很没用的事

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这些事呢就是做节省财富

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很很简单

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很容易的哈

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但是呢千万不要去找包装或造假哈

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因为那个出现一次错误啊

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你可能再也来不了美国了

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所以没有必要去冒这个险啊

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因为你创业如果成功的话

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你花钱也就花个八九十万美金吧

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所以这也是很多人问我的

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你也可以去看看

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因为这些事我都分享过

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我的我这个人的特点是什么呢

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就是比如说这个事我分享了很多次

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然后你还是要去问我的话

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我就觉得你你不认你不太认定

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不浪费我的时间吧

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我就不太愿意回哈

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这也是我这一年啊看人看他的一个习惯啊

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就是比如说他真的很很关注你的话

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实际上你经常讲东西

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他肯定是知道的啊

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如果说你要你经常讲东西

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他不知道

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那证明这个人他他没有什么

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他对你没什么兴趣吧

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他们对你没什么兴趣

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你就礼貌的回一下

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不要再产生太多的交集了哈

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这个也是给大家讲一个啊识人的技巧啊

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就像很多国内的人啊

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就给我留言

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好久不见了哈

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权哥你在哪里

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我在济南了

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能不能找你哈

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你看我都来美国一年多了

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他问我这句话意味着什么

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意味着我这这辈子不需要见他了对吧

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你想见一个人

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人家一年多在在美国你都不知道

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那那为什么你还要产生联系呢

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所以因为我这些年呢我就丢掉了一些啊

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就是把这些人啊排除嘛对吧

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我排除了99%的人烧税之后呢

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那我剩下的是专对于我自己

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所以我自己呢发来反而越来越清晰了

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那这个呢也是给大家讲哈

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你在国内啊

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你也可以像我一样那种方法哈

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那方法用好之后发现人生其实很快乐啊

462
00:12:17,419 --> 00:12:19,629
就是就是很快乐很轻松啊

463
00:12:19,629 --> 00:12:21,590
今天早晨啊我就跟我女儿分享了

464
00:12:21,590 --> 00:12:23,549
我说我在美国感觉时间过得很快啊

465
00:12:23,549 --> 00:12:24,549
我说你发现没有

466
00:12:24,549 --> 00:12:27,279
她说她也觉得时间过得很快呃他说什么原因呢

467
00:12:27,279 --> 00:12:28,679
她说你要活得轻松了

468
00:12:28,679 --> 00:12:29,480
觉得过得快啊

469
00:12:29,480 --> 00:12:31,529
我女儿用一句很有哲理的话啊

470
00:12:31,529 --> 00:12:32,710
分享了为什么时间快

471
00:12:32,710 --> 00:12:34,509
就只要你觉得轻松快乐的时候

472
00:12:34,509 --> 00:12:36,360
那时间真的会飞逝的啊

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