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如果我教给孩子一个必备的成功技能
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那就是一定要对不合理的规则说不一定要学会防水
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我们在成长的路上呢
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其实大部分都是障碍
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因为这个世界资源有限
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每个人呢都有所得既得利益
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如果你不会反抗意味着什么呢
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你的资源都被别人拿走了
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还有一点
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你比如说啊这个社会的不公平性在什么地方呢
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就是很多东西它不流通对吧
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他给你讲的所有东西呢都是你认为的东西
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但实际上这个世界并不是这样
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咱举个简单例子啊
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就拿最近美国和伊朗战争一样
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川普一个人犯的错误
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全球人给他买单啊
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最近股民都跌惨了啊
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特别是A股股民去年的时候赚的所有钱
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今年估计得几个月都退回去了
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而且第二个呢各位大家在这种公司也好
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平台也好做生意呀
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然后呢呵在公司当员工啊
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你发现一个问题啊
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就是每个人都有一种力气使不上来的感觉
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就使不上劲
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他为什么使不上劲儿呢
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就是你的能力和这个体系呢
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他不一定是完全匹配的啊
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咱举个简例子啊
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比如我以前在步步高到幼儿园装修完的时候
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就发现个问题啊
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就是我做业绩做的是非常非常好
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但是呢我总是在最烂的市场
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我的我的职责
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老板给我的任务就是不断的去开发那些更差的更烂的市场
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要不断的去挑战更难的业务
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实际上我也没有在意过啊
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就是但是呢你这个人如果你是一把好刀
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你老是切一块烂肉
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它很浪费
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你知道吗
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其实这个事情就是当我出来步步高的时候
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我才发现哇
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我在步步高
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我一年啊负责的一个市场
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一个市场100多万
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我负责三个市场才500万
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但是我出来做生意
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我一天的利润可能都不止50万对
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这就是一个人和人的差距
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怎么就是并不是因为你有能力
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那别人就给你对应能力的机会
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很多时候机会呢需要你自己去发掘
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自己去整理
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那再比如说啊
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我现在做生意
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我做生意这个过程呢其实就是反抗的过程
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那举个例子啊
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我原来都是串货
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我穿到什么程度呢
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穿到黄镇干不下去
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那黄忠肯定弄我嘛
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黄忠这个人呢是非常非常极端
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非常非常狠
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那为什么他做了拼多多呢
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让很多人骂他啊
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我当时做串货的时候
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就一个简单例子啊
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我是串货
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不是假货
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比如说步步高正常卖1500啊
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我卖1450
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便宜50块钱吧
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但是黄忠为了干事
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我直接举报我卖假货
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而且他还找布布给我盖了个章
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各位你大概想一条啊
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串货和假货是两个不同的性质呀
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你串货说白了你就是违规不违法呀
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假货是什么呢
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那直接就判刑了呀
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所以说公安厅直接把我们公司门给封了
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对这就是黄忠干出来的
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所以说你说拼多多
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他后面怎么干都不为过
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就是这家公司是为了赢
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绝对没有底线的
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但是问题来了
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他这种方式非常厉害
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他真的能赢呀
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他真的赚钱呀
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他真的把同行把供应商很多人都干死了呀
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那你作为一个个体
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你就发现问题了
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你你这台平台做生意赚不到钱
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但是你知道他股东赚钱了呀
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所以我在拼多多赚了很多钱
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赚了钱还在new泡上买了套房
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各位你说有意思不
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所以很多时候你没办法
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就是你知道这家公司
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你你你做他的合作伙伴不行
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那你做他股东也行
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所以说各位
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这是我教给孩子一条
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就是你永远要反过来想
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你永远要学会
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不是说抗争
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而是说站到有利的一方
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这个世界真的是啊
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我我我越来我感受到这个世界呢真的是很奇怪
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你懂吗
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就是他非常的对这种听话的人不友好
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对你越听话越安分守己啊
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要老老实实按部就班
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你发现这个世界对你越不友好
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你反而呢你有逆向思维啊
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你会反过来想啊
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你会反抗啊
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你会找到自己的自己的舒适的点
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反而会好
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你看今天厨子也是
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你看我在会员群里面给很多兄弟讲
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我说2020年一定要做整体配置
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那怎么配置呢
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无非就是你要有科技
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也就AI
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但是呢你也有防守
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防守是什么呢
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有高股息啊
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比如公共事业啊
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比如说这个啊高高收益的能源
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好像中海油这种啊高分红的公司
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还有一部分呢就是消费类的残野牛熊啊
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他一直拿着对吧
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就是你做好这个配置之后
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你发现你不但大盘跌
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你不影响
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反而你还会赚钱
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我到现在我的A股还是盈利的
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到现在呢哎赚的钱还不少
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这就是你的整体配置带来的好处
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就不管他怎么弄
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你都会很好
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这也是我给大家讲的
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就是为什么我来到美国之后呢
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整个人的状态更好
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就是我在国内的时候呢
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说真的啊
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就是你身边的那些环境让你对你好了
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但是呢你是心惊胆战的
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为啥呢
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你不可能大家都还饿
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你一个人吃的满嘴流油吧
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那也不可能说每个人都愁眉苦脸
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你在那喜喜笑颜开吧
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我在美国可以洗烟台
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我可以哈哈大笑
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我在中国就不行
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为啥别人都是伤事
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你不可能天天喜事呀
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那别人受不了呀
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对不对
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你天天啊这个日入斗金啊
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人家天天啊艰难过日子
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那政府也看看不下去啊
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所以就是为什么今年今年这个啊很多上市公司的老板进去了啊
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很多人这个啊被这个留字了
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原因就是因为你太好了
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对
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所以你现在的问题是你好了
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你也不能说你好是吧
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那你差了
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那你也不能说你差
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你唱了
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你说你唱
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你这就是伤风败俗啊
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影响这个啊
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就是骨骨髓躺平
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那你好了
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你说你好的
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你就是卖富哈
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嫌你这嫌贫爱富啊
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然后炫耀各位
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所以说你怎么做人都是个问题
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但是问题来了
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如果说你一个人是吧
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你把你的精力都用在做人上
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你还要拿着时间做事啊
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所以为什么我在美国能向内放着看呢
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因为在美国是很多人呢
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他对这种贫富啊
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对这种有钱没钱生活质量差不多
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你看我今天在这个水泥湾公园啊
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你看大家你不管有钱没钱
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大家该散步散步啊
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该躺平躺平
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该思考思考
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很多时候就每个人活着都一样
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就是你其实在你就是亏了钱
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你也无所谓
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你的心态也很好
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你赚了钱呢
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你也没什么可骄傲的对吧
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那那那买不起游艇的
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人家划个单买是吧
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一样人家划的很开心
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你看这海上划来划去的
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是不是它不存在说你这一定要怎么样
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所以我就跟他讲一是什么
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就是你一定要让自己呢锤这种进可攻退可守
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而且呢永远不要让自己处于被动的位置啊
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比如说很被动啊
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你你只能估值一顾啊
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或者说怎么样
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你在中国我告诉你啊
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你你再好的公司
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你都可能有极端的事情发生
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就你永远没有办法说啊
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你是一定是是吧
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你你哪怕你对了
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这时间能不能占到你这一边
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也不好说是吧
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刚才我们群里有个兄弟啊
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他光固定资产一个多亿啊
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每年厂子收股息啊
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就是收租金嘛
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收五六百万
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然后呢他就问我强哥
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你看这个怎么配置
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我说你既然每年轮着分红了
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你可以有一些冒险仓位哈
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就是博高收益的
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但是呢你的大仓位一定要是躺平
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两位进口工特别少
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还可以躺平
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你不管市场怎么活动
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你不管这个市场啊怎么样千变万化
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你没有问题的
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各位各位一定要想到这点
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就是市场变
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你不能不影响啊
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你只要做到这一点
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我跟你讲啊
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你在哪里都很舒服
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所以这个也是我来到美国之后呢
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我天天思考嘛
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所以越思考越发现
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到了中年之后
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各位千万不要天天想着20岁那样进攻了
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真的也不要天天有激情了
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也不要天像张晓峰一样玩着命的
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对图啥呢对吧
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你要做的是活得久
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要的是健康
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持续想明白
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然后呢让自己呢处于能活到90岁
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你不要一年赚一个亿啊
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你要一年赚1000万
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能赚50年对吧
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你一年1000万50年什么概念呀
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那五个亿啊
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你一年赚一个亿
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明年没了
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那你最后你也享受不到
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所以实际上这个世界奖励的是那些能够在这种乱世危机啊
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以及各种各样的风险面前能够想明白的人
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而不是那些急于决策
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急于判断
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然后呢大刀阔斧
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这个世界到目前为止没有一个方案能解决所有问题
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就像川普一样
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他发动了美伊战争
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到今天他收不了场了
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他怎么办呀
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以他的性格只能认怂
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各位
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所以这就是我告诉你一个花花公子
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一个大夹子就把全球拉下泥潭的案例
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所以说你在这种世道里面
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你要做的是什么呢
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不要从众对吧
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然后呢躲着对吧
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就这个时间点的话
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躺平躲着玩儿对吧
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你把人减90%
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业务看90%亏损的全部砍掉
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然后呢玩就行了
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等到这个世界进入这种盛世的时候
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你再出山
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厚积薄发
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各位这才是王道呀