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向下兼容
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但是不要上下链接
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向上链接
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但是不要向上索取
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我觉得如果能想明白这句话呢
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最起码的对人性的理解已经上过台阶了
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这个人和人的财富差距啊
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很多时候他来自于认知的差距
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就他的观点不一样
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很多人说哎呀怎么有钱的运气
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各位运气好的人
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他有这个前提是什么啊
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你好好观察一下啊
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巴菲特给你好不好
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巴菲特投资70年年年化6万倍啊
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虽然现在退休了
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还是董事长
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他为什么他为什么运气这么好啊
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因为他很清楚价值观
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你看巴菲特时时刻刻都在强调价值观
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他选公司的这个接班人的时候
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格雷格的时候
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他第一因素就是他的价值观
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格雷格也说
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我们恪守诚信
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坚守诚信对吧
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价值观永远是最重要的
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能力
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放第二
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第三位
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能力没有那么重要
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你就看一下中国的有钱人
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能力真的比没有强人能力强吧
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反正至少我经历过来
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我是步步高里面底层业务员出身
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我的能力学历各方面他步步高绝对是垫底的
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他和这没关系
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知道吗
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但价值观有关系
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为啥嘞
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价值观可以让你知道哪些事是错的
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哪些是不一致的人
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各位价值观不一致
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不要多交流
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他除了浪费你的时间
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恶心你
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影响你的心情以外
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还让你认为这个世界呢比较昏暗
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就物以类聚
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人以群分是吧
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不是人对人错不一样
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不聊这个世界这么大
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这么美好
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干嘛要看那些丑陋的事啊
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这个也是我来美国之后
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我每次我都想哈
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幸亏出来了
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出来的还是太晚是吧
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早点出来心情更好
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白头发更少
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所以这个就是这个世界
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你知道吗
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这个人和人差距太大了
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你不要去解释任何东西
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那是他应该的
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所以你也不要同情任何人
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但他活该
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每个人的命啊
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他都是自己在一次次的决策过程里面得到的
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最终结果
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这个人有多少是选择啊
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我原来算过一次
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比如说我们从小学初中高中大学毕业哈
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成家啊
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然后慢慢到了终点了
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很快一眨眼233间过去了
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但是是什么导致了我们的今天呢
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就是我们每一次关键决策的时候选对了
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上个台阶
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选错了
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后退两步
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如果你每个路口有两个选择
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那么你六个路口
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12个选择
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12个选择
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再往后面就是1000次选择
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你的1000的选择里面
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你能选对70%到80非常成功了
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但绝大数人50%都不到
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各位50%都不到
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你我每次看那些发完视频哈
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看那个认知的时候
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你只能讲他的认知配得上他的苦难
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他的苦难是他认知造成的
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因为他既没有价值观
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他又没有逻辑能力
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他也没有分析能力
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他只有一个能力
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就是证明自己是对的能力
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他一切是为了证明自己对的
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我之前讲了个案例
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我说我兄弟五个啊
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我老婆呢家里人准备四个
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然后我父母呢对我们的婚姻要求啊
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完全没有
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他说一条
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他说你看你们最好找那些兄弟怎么交多的啊
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他没讲任何东西
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他没有说你要找这个条件好的啊
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哈有钱的背景好的啊
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哈起点高的没有没有没有
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就一条兄弟姊妹多的
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然后这句话原因他说了
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他说你你想过没有
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当你们老了
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当我们老的时候
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兄弟们多啊
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大家轮流看一下
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还能照顾过来啊
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当你们老了呢
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你们的孩子压力会小
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各位这是我父母
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我父母看的真的很远
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我父母虽然是农民
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虽然没钱哈
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虽然从小就是吃不饱啊
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交不起学费
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我们就这么长大的环境
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但是我父母真的很伟大
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所以你看我们兄弟们找了老婆呢
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家里面没有一个独生子的
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兄弟们都很多
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导致什么结果呢
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我们都很轻松啊
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我们在外面赚钱的时候
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奋斗的时候没有一个影响我们经历的
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因为能忙得过来
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各位
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但是很多人呢不理解哈
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小时候呢初中呢
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高中呢一个人哈独享
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但是到老了
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到了中年
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各位到了中年会变成什么呢
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父母天天得病
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天天请假
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你就想我自己做企业
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我太清楚了
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哪个老板喜欢天天请假的
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你不你不光说这个不好管
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各位
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你这个工作干不完呀
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你老是断层呀
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今天所有独生子痛苦都来了
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那这句话怎么讲呢
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你过去你有多快乐
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你今天你有多痛苦
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你过去你有多享受
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你今天你有多郁闷
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你过去你多么以以独生子为荣
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你今天就以独生子为痛
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各位这是现实呀
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为啥
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因为大部分父母他既没有长远思维
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他又没有分析能力
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他甚至连我父母那最基本的呵呵
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基本的这些逻辑都不懂
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我父母虽然没文化
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我母亲都不识字
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但他懂呀
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他能他能他自己亲身经历啊
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他知道的呀
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他不会说
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因为被这些市面上歪理邪说
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然后呢啊现在变成了养老
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不能靠政府哈
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现在变成了哈
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原来是啊这个少生孩子
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多多种树哈
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这个什么这个乱七八糟的这些
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他从来没有被洗脑过
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他一直坚持说
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那那兄弟们多了
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那最起码的团结就是力量哈
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人多人多
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力量大
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所以你看我们小时候非常非常穷
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我记得我从小到大
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我们就没有一天休息过
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问下兄弟们多多要上学啊
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父母呢是砸锅卖铁供你上学
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总体上学的代价是什么呢
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就是完全是靠种粮食
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卖完粮食没吃的没吃的怎么办
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填坑找地
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那那就一亩三分地
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一压就一亩三分地
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那后来都都都没有地了
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怎么办呢
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就就填坑
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哪个坑是没人要的
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废坑拉土填
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高中到初高中的天天放羊
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就我高中我一个月回家一次
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第一件事先放羊
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各位一直放到高中
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一直上到大学
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这就是我们的人生呀
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你说这个经历证明什么呢
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我父母真的很有远见啊
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我每次想起来我说哇父母太太伟大了
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太牛逼了
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太长远了
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要不然的话
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别说我们的视野
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就我们这些资历在起点不分担经理
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一个60分的人
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你百不百投入
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你才60分
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你要60%的投入呢
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这不是36分吗
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各位90%的人还不如我呢
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虽然我60分呀
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90%人60分都不到呀
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他还不是百分百投入呀
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你看我创业
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我就给你讲嘛
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我为什么我对招普通人是一点兴趣没有
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包括今天做事业还不错
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我也不去招
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我说各位你记住啊
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一个60岁的人
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他只有百分百投入的时候
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他最多上限也就60分
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他的能力可以提升
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可以到六十五七十
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但是90%的人最后到不了65分
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只能倒退50分
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师傅你们记住啊
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这个你们招员工也是能招兄弟怎么做的
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你不要招独生子
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因为你这个经历根本就顾不过来
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而且呢这种越是独生子呢
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它越有一个特点
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那就是什么都是自私的
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独享的
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它没有共享意识
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还不考虑别人的感受
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所以这个就是这个时代最大的悲哀
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而且8085后
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九零左右的人承担了这个最大的后果
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就是你红利没赶上
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嘿压力都赶上了对吧
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你接下来的几十年
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各位那是真的痛苦了
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所以兄弟们多想一想
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自己少抱怨环境啊
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什么原因也好好分析一下哪些路走错了
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好好梳理一下哪些东西还能还有机会哈
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再降低损失降到最低对吧
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你就好好想一想
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还告诉他一句话啊
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就是认知不一样
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千万别聊
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不要改变这份认知
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对我给他
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我给和他讲说美股A股港股A股多少赚钱
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统一好收割嘛
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所以说A股最好赚钱
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但是呢那个钱呢你你要是对吧
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有的时候昧了良心呀对吧
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你纯赚大钱呀
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但是各位我们不是那种人
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所以我们就喜欢价值投资
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跟巴菲特一样对吧
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巴菲特为什么最后就买过石油
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买过比亚迪
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后来再也不碰了
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就是我们的良心过不去对吧
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我们当然知道趋势投机
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我们做股票分析的
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我们出手率肯定比人高多了
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但有些钱我们真的跳不下去
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因为你赚那个钱
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别人可能跳楼是吧
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你这样的钱别人可能就家破人亡
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所以这种钱其实来讲是零和博弈
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谈不上对吧
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我们更喜欢买入伟大的公司
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长期持有是吧
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低估买入就算了
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拿着这是我们的价值观
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不是说不行
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是懒得搞啊
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因为有钱了就没必要干那种啊
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伤天害理
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然后这个零和博弈的事了
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所以呢各位一定不要拿自己那点小九九哈
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偷着偷人家东西
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然后炫耀自己的偷技
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那是啊
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各位一定要记住啊
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