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把你那张显示着余额的银行卡收起来
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把你那辆还在还贷的汽车钥匙扔到一边
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今天我要和你谈谈什么是真正的阶层
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我知道在你们的教科书和社会常识里
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阶层是按钱划分的
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年入3万是穷人
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年入30万是中产
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年入3000万是富人
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这是我听过的最愚蠢的分类
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如果阶层仅仅是由金钱决定的
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那怎么解释那些中了彩票头奖的幸运儿
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根据统计
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这些一夜之间拥有几千万现金的人
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有90%只会在3年到5年内彻底破产
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甚至比中奖前更穷
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他们有钱吗
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有但他们是富人吗
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绝不他们只是手里拿着巨款的穷人
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他们的思维操作系统依然是穷人的版本
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根本无法兼容这笔巨大的财富
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结果是系统崩溃
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财富归零
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反过来你再看看那些破产的企业家
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比如早年的史蒂夫乔布斯
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或者是某些负债累累的地产大亨
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他们在某个时刻
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资产负债表是红色的
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口袋里的现金可能比你还少
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但你会指着他们说
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他们是个穷人吗
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不会你知道
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只要给他们一点时间
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3年或者5年
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他们就会重新站回巅峰
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因为他们的大脑里运行着富人的操作系统
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对他们来说没钱只是暂时的
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现金流问题
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而不是阶层问题
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所以记住了金钱只是你思维的投影
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阶层不是你口袋里的数字
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而是你脑子里的程序
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这就是为什么我总是说想通过赚钱来改变阶层
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是本末倒置
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你必须先升级你的大脑
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金钱才会作为副产品随之而来
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但我遗憾的发现
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这个社会里绝大多数人的大脑都被锁
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你们被三种不同的病毒感染
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困在三个无法逃脱的笼子里
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穷人被困在稀缺的笼子里
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他们这辈子都在用时间换钱
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以为只要够快就能赢
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富人被困在傲慢的笼子里
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他们以为运气是能力
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结果往往死于自负
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而最可悲的是数量最庞大的中产阶级
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也就是坐在屏幕前的你们
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你们被困在一个精心设计的认知闭环里
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你们以为自己看懂了世界
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其实你们看到的只是媒体和商家
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想让你们看到的幻象
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你们是被饲养的最好的一群人
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你们努力工作
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背负房贷
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购买基金
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把孩子送进补习班
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以为这就叫向上流动
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其实你们只是在不知疲倦地推着磨盘的驴子
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在原地打转
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今天我要做一件很残忍的事
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我要把这三个笼子一个个拆开给你看
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我要告诉你到底是什么样的思维病灶
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导致了穷人的永恒贫困
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富人的一夜崩塌
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以及中产阶级的终身焦虑
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如果你想打破这个诅咒
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你就必须先看清这个诅咒
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但别指望我会说好听的话
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真话通常都很难听
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但只有听得进难听真话的人才配拥有自由
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准备好了吗
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让我们先从最底层那个笼子开始猜
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我们先来谈谈所谓的穷人阶层
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请注意我定义的穷人
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不仅是那些没钱的人
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那些月入5万月光的人
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那些手里有点积蓄
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就总想着搏一把的人
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在我眼里都是穷人
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穷人死于什么
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死于多巴胺渴望
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你们有没有观察过是谁在买彩票
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是谁在赌场里通宵达旦
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是谁
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在那些承诺一个月翻倍的资金盘里倾家荡产
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绝大多数都是穷人
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很多人认为穷人是因为蠢才去赌错了
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穷人之所以去赌
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是因为他们太想赢了
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而且是想立刻赢
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这就是稀缺心态带来的致命诅咒
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当一个人长期处于缺钱的状态时
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他的大脑带宽会被生存焦虑完全占据
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他看不见长期的未来
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只能看见眼前的诱惑
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对于穷人来说
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等待是痛苦的
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复利那种需要10年20年才能看到效果的东西
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对他们来说太慢了
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他们需要的是及时满足和多巴胺的瞬间爆发
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这种渴望让他们成为了骗子眼里最完美的猎物
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我年轻的时候看过无数这样的人
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他们哪怕只有几百块钱
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也要去买一张彩票
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他们相信那是改变命运的机会
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但我告诉你
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那不是机会
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那是智商税
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彩票是政府向那些数学不好的人征收的特别税
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更可怕的是
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这种赌徒思维会渗透到他们生活的方方面面
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在职业选择上
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穷人倾向于选择那些看起来赚钱快的工作
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比如送外卖
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跑网约车
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他们出卖时间换取立刻到账的陷阱
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他们拒绝去学习一门
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需要两三年才能掌握的复杂技能
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因为那意味着在学习期间没有收入
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结果10年过去
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他们的体能下降了
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但技能并没有积累
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他们依然在原地踏步
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甚至因为身体垮了而变得更穷
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如果你想摆脱穷人阶层
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你必须做的第一件事就是戒掉对快钱的渴望
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你要明白
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在这个宇宙中
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所有有价值的东西
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无论是财富
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智慧还是技能
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都是时间的函数
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如果你试图跳过时间去获取结果
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你最终会被时间惩罚
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你要学会做一个反本能的人
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当你的大脑尖叫着
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要买那个看起来能赚大钱的山寨币
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你要给自己一巴掌
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然后把钱存进那个每年只有4%回报的
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指数基金里
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这很无聊
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很慢很痛苦
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但这是唯一的解药
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记住富有的前提是拥有耐心的特权
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如果你连等到明天的耐心都没有
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那你注定今晚就会输
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现在让我们把目光投向金字塔的顶端
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如果说穷人是被欲望烧死的
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那么富人通常是被傲慢淹死的
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我这辈子见过太多曾经不可一世的富豪
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最后落得身败名裂
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他们不缺钱
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不缺资源
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也不缺智商
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那他们缺什么
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缺敬畏
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当一个人赚到了大钱
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尤其是在风口上赚到了快钱之后
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他的大脑会产生一种可怕的幻觉
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他会误以为这些钱是靠他的本事赚来的
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他会忽略运气的成分
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忽略时代的红利
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他开始觉得自己无所不能
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觉得自己有上帝视角
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这种傲慢是致命的
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首先它会让你听不进真话
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当你是大老板的时候
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周围的人都在巴结你
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都在说你英明神武
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慢慢的你在这个回音室里迷失了
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你开始做一些荒唐的决定
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比如盲目扩张
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跨界去搞自己根本不懂的行业
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赚了几10亿之后
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觉得自己是商业天才
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跑去搞高科技
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搞互联网
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结果呢几年时间几10亿亏的干干净净
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因为他不懂那个行业
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但他傲慢到不屑于去学习
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其次傲慢会让你失去对风险的感知
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富人最容易犯的错误就是幸存者偏差
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你赢了一把俄罗斯轮盘赌
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赚了100万
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你以为是因为你枪法好
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或者是你运气好
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其实你只是这一次没死而已
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但傲慢的富人会继续玩下去
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而且下注越来越大
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他们会加杠杆
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会借贷
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赌上全部身家
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他们心里想
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我以前都赢了
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这次肯定也没问题
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直到那一刻弹射出来
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在我和巴菲特看来
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保持富有比变富更难
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变富可能只需要一次好运气
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但保持富有需要你一辈子不犯大错
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我们之所以能活到现在还坐在牌桌上
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不是因为我们比别人聪明
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而是因为我们要比别人更胆小
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我们知道自己的能力圈收钱
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我们死都不出去
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我们知道市场是不可预测的
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所以我们要留安全边界
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如果你现在已经有点钱了
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是个小妇人了
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我要提醒你
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别把自己当神
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别以为你过去的成功预示着你未来的成功
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每天早上照镜子的时候
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提醒自己
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你只是一个幸运的凡人
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别太把自己当回事儿
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只有时刻保持这种谦卑
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你才能守住你的果实
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否则上帝给你的礼物迟早会连本带利的收回去
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现在让我们来谈谈中产阶级对
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说的就是你一个受过良好教育
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有一份体面工作
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背着几百万房贷
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开着一辆不错的车
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每年带全家去旅行一次的中产阶级
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你觉得自己过得还不错对吧
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甚至比上不足比下有余
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但我告诉你
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你是这个社会上最可悲的一个阶层
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为什么
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因为穷人是被暴力的生活压榨
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而你们是被观念压榨
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而且这种压榨是你们心甘情愿的
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甚至引以为豪的
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你们死于一个精心设计的认知闭环
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回想一下你的人生轨迹
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是不是像有人给你写好了剧本一样
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七岁你被告诉要努力读书
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考个好大学
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22岁你被告诉要进大厂或者考公务员
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因为那样稳定
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28岁你被告诉必须买房
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否则就是没出息
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还要背上30年的贷款
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35岁你被告诉要理财
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要给孩子报昂贵的补习班
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不能输在起跑线上
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你以为这些都是你自己的选择吗
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错这是社会为了维持运转
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专门给中产阶级设计的一套饲养程序
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这个程序的消费目的只有一个
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让你成为一颗高效率
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高产出
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不敢停下来的电池
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首先系统教育告诉你
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成为一颗螺丝钉是光荣的
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他教你如何解答复杂的数学题
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教你如何编写代码
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但他唯独不教你这一课
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金钱是如何运作的
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因为如果每个零件都懂得了资本的秘密
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谁还来拉磨呢
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接着房地产和消费主义给你套上沉重的枷锁
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当你背上那30年的房贷时
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恭喜你
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你就成了最听话的员工
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你不敢辞职
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不敢反抗
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老板不敢去冒险创业
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你哪怕有惊世的才华
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也只能老老实实的在格子间里干到退休
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因为你只要停下来
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一个月你的生活就会崩塌
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这就是所谓的稳定
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这种稳定本质上是一种奴隶制的辩题
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其实也是假的
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你们的认知是被主流媒体和商业营销
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严丝合缝地包裹起来的
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早晨起来
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你看财经信息
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听着专家分析股市
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你以为你在获取信息
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其实你在吞噬噪音
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那些专家是华尔街养的
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他们说话的目的不是让你赚钱
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而是让你频繁交易
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好让他们赚手续费
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周末你去商场看着广告牌上写着精致生活
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中产标配
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你以为你在追求品质
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其实你在缴纳智商税
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商家发明了无数个概念
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比如青史
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比如抗糖
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比如早教
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专门用来收割你们口袋里的余钱
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你们就生活在电影楚门的世界里
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周围的一切
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你的邻居
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你的同事
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你的手机推送都在合力维持一个巨大的谎言
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这个谎言告诉你
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只要你足够努力
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只要你遵循这条既定的轨道
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你就能通向幸福
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但我看到的事实是
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你们越努力陷得越深
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你们跑得越快
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那个磨盘转的越快
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但你们依然还在原地
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这就叫认知闭环
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你们在这个闭环里自我感动
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以为看懂了世界
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其实你们只是被驯化的最完美的绵羊
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如果你想突围
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你首先要意识到这个笼子不是铁做的
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是观念做的
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只要你不接受那些观念
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笼子就不存在
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既然你要打破笼子
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你就得看清楚笼子是用什么材料做的
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在现代社会有三把隐形的镰刀
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专门悬在中产阶级的头顶
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这三把镰刀刀刀致命
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每挥舞一次就要收割掉你们未来10年的财富
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第一把镰刀叫做精致消费
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中产阶级最大的死穴就是太在乎身份感
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你们急于证明自己脱离了底层
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于是疯狂地购买那些象征身份的符号
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看看你们手腕上的名表
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看看你们衣柜里的奢侈品包
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看看你们为了所谓的面子而购买的豪宅
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这些东西在你们刷卡的那一瞬间
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价值就跌了一半
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我在很多年前就说过
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如果我要做生意
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我一定赚中产阶级的钱
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因为富人太精明
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不好骗
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穷人没钱骗不到
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只有中产阶级既有钱又虚荣
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还好骗你们
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用透支未来的钱去买一堆并不需要的垃圾
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只是为了让那些你们根本不喜欢的人
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羡慕你一秒钟
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这就是为什么你们收入越来越高
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却存不下钱的原因
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你们把资产变成了负债
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第二把镰刀叫做学历军备竞赛
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这是一场残酷的内卷游戏
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你们自己吃过学历的苦
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或者尝过学历的甜
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于是把所有的赌注都压在下一代身上
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私立学校国际游学
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天价补习班
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你们为此掏空了积蓄
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牺牲了生活质量
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但你们忘了反过来想一想
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在这个人工智能
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即将取代大多数白领工作的时代
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你让孩子花20年去学那些死记硬背的知识
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真的有用吗
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你们在用19世纪的思维
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教21世纪的孩子去应对22世纪的竞争
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这不仅是浪费费钱
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这是在毁掉孩子的创造力
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真正的精英教育是教孩子如何思考
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如何决策
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而不是如何做题
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第三把镰刀也是最锋利的一把
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叫做理财焦虑
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这是华尔街最喜欢的游戏
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你们手里有点积蓄
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但这笔钱又不够
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让你们躺平
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你们看着通货膨胀感到恐慌
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于是迫切的想要钱生钱
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这时候金融机构来了
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他们给你们推销各种复杂的理财产品
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基金信托p two p结构化票据
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他们用一大堆你们听不懂的专业术语
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什么夏普比率
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什么阿尔法策略把你们绕晕
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你们不敢承认自己听不懂
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因为那样显得不专业
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于是你们点点头签字
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把钱交给了那些穿西装的年轻人
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但我告诉你们
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那些帮你们理财的人
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大部分连自己的信用卡账单都搞不明白
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他们唯一关心的是
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如何把你的钱变成他们的佣金
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中产阶级在股市里是被收割的最惨的
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因为你们懂一点
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但又不懂核心
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你们有欲望
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但有没有耐心
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你们高位站岗
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低位割肉
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以此循环生生不息
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这三把镰刀为消费
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为教育
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为教育
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只要你还在这三个陷阱里打转
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你每天996赚来的辛苦钱
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就像倒进了一个漏底的桶
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永远也填不满
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醒醒吧
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停止那些无意义的魔方
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停止那些为了面子的消费
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把你的钱留下来
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去买真正的资产
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去买那些能产生现金流的生意
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去投资你自己的大脑
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而不是投资你身上的logo
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如何打破这个认知闭环
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很多人以为只要我赚够了钱
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我就能跳出这个圈子错
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如果你带着中产阶级的思维去赚钱
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你赚的越多
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你的枷锁就越重
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你会买更大的房子
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背背更重的贷款
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送孩子去更贵的学校
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你只是从一个小的仓鼠轮子
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换到了一个镀金的大仓鼠轮子
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真正的突围不是靠前
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而是靠反常识
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你要做一个社会的异类
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第一步
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学会对标配说不
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社会告诉你
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30岁必须结婚
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结婚必须买房
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买房必须买车
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你要学会说去你的
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如果现在的房价租售比不合理
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我就租房
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把首付的钱拿去投资
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那些真正能产生现金流的资产
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你可能会被亲戚嘲笑
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被丈母娘嫌弃
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但你要问自己
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我是为了他们的面子活着
455
00:12:20,820 --> 00:12:22,580
还是为了我的财务自由活着
456
00:12:22,580 --> 00:12:24,419
当别人都在追求体面的时候
457
00:12:24,419 --> 00:12:25,539
你要追求实惠
458
00:12:25,539 --> 00:12:27,320
当别人都在追求稳定的时候
459
00:12:27,320 --> 00:12:28,480
要追求反脆弱
460
00:12:28,480 --> 00:12:31,059
你要敢于做一个在别人眼里混的不咋样
461
00:12:31,059 --> 00:12:33,879
但实际上手里握着大量生息资产的隐形人
462
00:12:33,879 --> 00:12:34,440
第二部
463
00:12:34,440 --> 00:12:36,379
从消费升级转向生产升级
464
00:12:36,379 --> 00:12:39,440
中产阶级最大的病就是太爱消费而不爱生产
465
00:12:39,440 --> 00:12:41,039
你们下班回家时刷抖音
466
00:12:41,039 --> 00:12:41,679
看网剧
467
00:12:41,679 --> 00:12:43,100
还是在打磨一项技能
468
00:12:43,100 --> 00:12:44,139
经营一个副业
469
00:12:44,139 --> 00:12:45,440
或者研究一家公司
470
00:12:45,440 --> 00:12:48,399
如果你每天的时间都花在消费别人制造的内容
471
00:12:48,399 --> 00:12:49,440
产品和焦虑上
472
00:12:49,440 --> 00:12:50,559
那你永远是猎物
473
00:12:50,559 --> 00:12:53,379
你要把你的身份从消费者切换成生产者
474
00:12:53,379 --> 00:12:55,220
别去买那些教你致富的课程
475
00:12:55,220 --> 00:12:57,639
去研究那些卖课程的人是怎么赚钱的
476
00:12:57,639 --> 00:12:59,740
别去买那些所谓的高端理财产品
477
00:12:59,740 --> 00:13:02,580
去研究那些设计产品的人是怎么收割你的
478
00:13:02,580 --> 00:13:04,620
当你开始用收割者的视角看世界
479
00:13:04,620 --> 00:13:05,899
你就不会再被收割
480
00:13:05,899 --> 00:13:07,899
第三步建立FUMI的底气
481
00:13:07,899 --> 00:13:10,679
我在年轻的时候就发誓要争取财务独立
482
00:13:10,679 --> 00:13:11,759
不是因为我爱钱
483
00:13:11,759 --> 00:13:13,980
而是因为我不想听任何傻瓜的智慧
484
00:13:13,980 --> 00:13:14,980
你需要一笔钱
485
00:13:14,980 --> 00:13:16,960
这笔钱不需要多到让你买游艇
486
00:13:16,960 --> 00:13:19,639
但必须足够让你在老板让你做蠢事的时候
487
00:13:19,639 --> 00:13:21,899
或者让你牺牲健康去换业绩的时候
488
00:13:21,899 --> 00:13:23,700
能把辞职信甩在他桌子上
489
00:13:23,700 --> 00:13:24,759
然后转身就走
490
00:13:24,759 --> 00:13:25,690
这就叫负美女
491
00:13:25,690 --> 00:13:27,330
他是你人格独立的基石
492
00:13:27,330 --> 00:13:28,669
对于中产阶级来说
493
00:13:28,669 --> 00:13:31,679
存下这笔钱的唯一方法就是极度的延迟满足
494
00:13:31,679 --> 00:13:33,519
你要像修道士一样生活几年
495
00:13:33,519 --> 00:13:35,000
砍掉所有不必要的开支
496
00:13:35,000 --> 00:13:35,639
不换车
497
00:13:35,639 --> 00:13:36,399
不买名牌
498
00:13:36,399 --> 00:13:37,000
不旅游
499
00:13:37,000 --> 00:13:38,879
把每一分钱都变成你的士兵
500
00:13:38,879 --> 00:13:39,740
这很痛苦
501
00:13:39,740 --> 00:13:41,220
但这种痛苦是暂时的
502
00:13:41,220 --> 00:13:42,500
而那种被债务绑架
503
00:13:42,500 --> 00:13:44,980
不得不向生活低头的痛苦是永久的
504
00:13:44,980 --> 00:13:46,600
好了朋友手术结束了
505
00:13:46,600 --> 00:13:48,480
我在这个视频里说了很多狠话
506
00:13:48,480 --> 00:13:49,820
可能让你感到不舒服
507
00:13:49,820 --> 00:13:51,240
但我不是来讨好你的
508
00:13:51,240 --> 00:13:52,320
我是来唤醒你的
509
00:13:52,320 --> 00:13:55,240
古希腊哲学家柏拉图有一个著名的洞穴寓言
510
00:13:55,240 --> 00:13:57,059
一群人从小被锁在洞穴里
511
00:13:57,059 --> 00:13:57,899
背对着洞口
512
00:13:57,899 --> 00:14:00,679
他们只能看到墙壁上火光投射出的影子
513
00:14:00,679 --> 00:14:02,879
他们以为那些影子就是世界的真相
514
00:14:02,879 --> 00:14:03,720
直到有一天
515
00:14:03,720 --> 00:14:05,120
有一个人挣脱了锁链
516
00:14:05,120 --> 00:14:06,000
爬出了洞穴
517
00:14:06,000 --> 00:14:07,399
看到了真正的真相
518
00:14:07,399 --> 00:14:09,240
哪怕阳光刺痛了她的眼睛
519
00:14:09,240 --> 00:14:11,059
哪怕外面的风让他感到寒冷
520
00:14:11,059 --> 00:14:12,820
但她终于看到了真实的世界
521
00:14:12,820 --> 00:14:13,879
当他回到洞穴
522
00:14:13,879 --> 00:14:14,779
告诉同伴们
523
00:14:14,779 --> 00:14:16,059
墙上的影子是假的
524
00:14:16,059 --> 00:14:17,019
外面才有真理
525
00:14:17,019 --> 00:14:18,440
你猜同伴们会怎么做
526
00:14:18,440 --> 00:14:19,460
他们会嘲笑他
527
00:14:19,460 --> 00:14:20,480
甚至想杀了他
528
00:14:20,480 --> 00:14:22,240
因为他破坏了大家的安全感
529
00:14:22,240 --> 00:14:25,320
今天我就是那个试图把你拽出洞穴的老头子
530
00:14:25,320 --> 00:14:26,220
穷人的欲望
531
00:14:26,220 --> 00:14:27,139
富人的傲慢
532
00:14:27,139 --> 00:14:28,340
中产的认知闭环
533
00:14:28,340 --> 00:14:29,820
这些都是墙上的影子
534
00:14:29,820 --> 00:14:30,559
他们是社会
535
00:14:30,559 --> 00:14:33,120
为了让你乖乖听话而投射出来的幻想
536
00:14:33,120 --> 00:14:34,960
你可以选择继续盯着墙壁看
537
00:14:34,960 --> 00:14:37,100
继续在焦虑和虚荣中度过余生
538
00:14:37,100 --> 00:14:38,480
这是大多数人的选择
539
00:14:38,480 --> 00:14:39,259
这很安全
540
00:14:39,259 --> 00:14:39,980
很合群
541
00:14:39,980 --> 00:14:41,480
你也可以选择挣脱锁链
542
00:14:41,480 --> 00:14:42,600
转身爬出洞穴
543
00:14:42,600 --> 00:14:43,700
这条路很难走
544
00:14:43,700 --> 00:14:44,559
你会被误解
545
00:14:44,559 --> 00:14:45,179
被孤立
546
00:14:45,179 --> 00:14:45,940
被嘲笑
547
00:14:45,940 --> 00:14:46,960
但我向你保证
548
00:14:46,960 --> 00:14:48,620
当你站在阳光下的那一刻
549
00:14:48,620 --> 00:14:51,600
你会发现你以前在笼子里争抢的那些东西
550
00:14:51,600 --> 00:14:52,440
那些职位
551
00:14:52,440 --> 00:14:53,320
那些名牌
552
00:14:53,320 --> 00:14:55,259
那些虚荣是多么的可笑
553
00:14:55,259 --> 00:14:56,580
你不仅会变得富有
554
00:14:56,580 --> 00:14:57,580
你会变得自由
555
00:14:57,580 --> 00:14:58,600
祝你好运