坚持自己的价值观

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今天儿子要去水上乐园玩

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我送完他们呢

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我就带着我家的毛毛爬了一次山

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然后呢找了一个对宠物友好的一个餐厅

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一边看他们观赏世界杯

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一边呢自己呢喝杯啤酒啊

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然后给他聊一聊我最近的一些想法啊

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你昨天不是来两个会员群兄弟吗

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中午呢一块喝了点酒

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下午呢也给他们分享了一下关于对投资

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对人生自己的一些感悟啊

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啊包括对创业啊

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实际上是这样的哈

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就是每一个人最终的追求是什么呢

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如果从我的理解一定是自由

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不一定财务自由啊

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他不是每个人都能够实现财务自由

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因为你也知道

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1万个人里面也只有1万一个亿万富豪

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斯坦福也只有百千万分之四的UFO的比例啊

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但实际上我身边的亿万富豪的比例肯定很高嘛

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这也是因为我做了IP之后

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讲了投资之后

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那身边人肯定大部分都有钱

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没钱怎么投资嘛

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特别玩美股

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那正金量肯定比大A股的增量大一些

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但是实际上我见到这么多投资人

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我给他分享

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就是创业者呢更容易成功啊

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就是像巴菲特一样

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你是个好的创业者

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所以你是个好的投资者

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你是个好的投资人

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所以你是个好的创业者

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创业和投资呢他是没法分开的

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这是为什么很多人说贤哥啊

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你这么有钱了

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为什么你还要卖东西啊

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还要做做品牌

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那实际上我真的没有刻意的销售啊

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我昨天也是给一个老乡啊

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也是我们欢迎兄弟嘛

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他也是呃亿万身家

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只有讲啊

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你说我们这这些人靠什么财务丢的

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不就靠时代的运气吗

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红利嘛对吧

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我抓住了淘宝的红利

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天猫的红利

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京东的红利

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唯品会唯品会的红利啊

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然后呢从一块二白

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然后现在财务自由

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那如果没有淘宝

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没有京东

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没有唯品会

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我怎么可能呢

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不可能的

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我最终拿在步步高做个业务员

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顶尖业务员一年10万块不得了了

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那就是我的最高身价

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一年10万块

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不可能像今天一样

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然后在尔湾一个餐厅里面

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一边喝着啤酒

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一边享受生活

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绝对不可能

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其实就是今天的这种状态

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我在2015年2019年之前没想过啊

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我只是说我有一天我不希望像过去那么累了

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也没想过有一天啊在投资上啊赚那么多钱

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然后呢哎生活中还那么悠闲

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包括昨天我给两个兄弟聊

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我说实际上呢每一个人你最终你想要什么

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你想要什么

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这是你最终的归宿

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而不是说你今天你只能做什么

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做什么一点都不重要

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你想要什么

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你是不是真的想要

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这个很关键

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因为我是这样啊

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就是我说我这个人的性格呢

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第一不服输

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第二比较硬

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又臭又硬吧

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还有一点呢就是我是对自由的热爱

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比一般人想象大的多

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你知道吗

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我我这个人从小就不喜欢被管束

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就我的骨子里面啊

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我就是这样的人

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呵呵我就喜欢自由啊

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我就喜欢这种状态啊

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然后到一个陌生城市两杯啤酒啊

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我是2018年

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当时在美国生活老三的时候呢

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我就这样找一个路边摊啊

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也不叫路边店

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休闲餐厅吧

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点杯啤酒

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看着车来车往

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跟今天这个状态一样

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看着老美啊

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他们都在看电视啊

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看足球赛

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而我呢就喝点酒呢去思考我的一些想法

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实际上我是喜欢这种状态的那种自由的

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没有约束

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然后呢想怎么样怎么样是吧

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这个呢也不谈不上这种奢侈啊

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这纯粹是自由

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纯是开心

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全是我没有约束啊

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程序是想怎么样

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天马行空

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你看我有几次这种感觉

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一次是在2005年啊

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04年零五年的时候在酒店当保安

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那时候是寒假嘛

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当保安2004年寒假没回家

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一个当保安的时候也是这样的啊

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就是看着车来车往

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然后那个时候也没有这么强的赚钱的欲望啊

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没有就觉得这人生未来那就是未知的啊

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但是这未知呢又又充满了那种期待

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我记得那时候跟我跟我兄弟还讲过

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我说哎我说钱有什么意义吗

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那我哥他们已经是毕业了嘛

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我说你们真的是为钱活着吗

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哎人生不就自由了吗

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我们没4年

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那会不是为了钱

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但是身无分文啊

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那还是对对人生抱有幻想

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但是总是觉得自己不会肯定不会差

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你知道吗

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我当时当保安

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我就看着车来特网

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每天写点东西啊

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每天醒看观察这些人

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他在看他们在从头交错啊

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那个时候呢我们去的那些酒店能下酒馆的人

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一喝酒一晚上花好几千

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那时候是属于城市里面的高级阶层了

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我们那一个月才400多块钱

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我没有羡慕过任何人

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像今天一样

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我没有羡慕过任何人

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我今天还找自己最快乐的那种感觉

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然后刚毕了业俱乐

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步步高才发现哇现实不是想的样子

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现实很残酷

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现实是没有钱绝对不行

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我就是2018年做宣传营销

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谢谢他

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这一年我老婆怀孕

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我忽然发现我就不能像以前那样了

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到处出差

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哎哟天马行空

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我那时候出差不带个相机啊

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一个月600块钱

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我带个相机

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我总是一边徒步

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一边拍摄

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一边思考未来

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大量的时间还在看书啊

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其实我是一个很文艺的人啊

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文艺青年哎

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有点文学文学的那种想法都对

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钱的你觉得自己会很有钱

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但也没有想的这么强烈

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也没有太多的消费欲望嘛

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那今天你看我的我最喜欢的一个青菜

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一个taco

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我挺喜欢吃包一个taco

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然后呢摆了吃个鸡汤

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喝杯啤酒

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很开心

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到我老婆快快生的时候

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09年的时候

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我那时候意识到我说钱很重要

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那你首先我女儿是在一个诊所出生的

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花多少钱

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400多块钱诊所啊

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那个诊所是给高中生备胎的

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各位相当于说那个接接生婆接生医生

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他可能上一个工作还在给那个学生在对胎

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带着我女儿出生了

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那有时候我觉得我女儿我我也很亏欠她啊

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就是毕竟在创业期啊

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还有时候她的脾气和我一样

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很有个性

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很倔强

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有时候我觉得哇他他很难理解我当时的感触

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胖龙太牛的

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我很难理解他吧

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但是呢我很清楚他的性格和我一样

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他没有我这种

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没有我那么洒脱

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我是男男人嘛

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我是想的很明白的

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就是我不在意说所有的受了这种所谓的痛苦啊

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悲伤啊

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然后呢贫穷啊我是一点都不在乎的

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我只是觉得我的想法一定要实现

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所以我2019年我创业的时候

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我也这种

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找一条出路猛干

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所以呢你看我的人生是这样的哈

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就是刚开始串货吗

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串货的时候是因为确实没钱

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也没有资源

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但是一旦串货赚了钱

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立马转型做正规代理

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做正管理之后受到了约束

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立马转行做品牌

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做了品牌之后受到了约束

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供应链立马开工它然后做了工厂之后

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收到了渠道约束

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天台约束立马到海外

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做到海外之后太客气

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真的一天开始玩股票了

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实际上2018年对我改变很大

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因为我我辛苦辛苦让狗一样啊

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奔波劳斯一年打工创业

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2018年的时候

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我第一次停下来

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各位第一次我停下来之后

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我第一想法是哇

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我怎么可能停下来呢

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真的很困惑

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因为我一直在狂狂焖

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每天睡三个小时

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四个小时

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一直在狂奔

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你知道一个狂奔的人忽然停下来什么感受吗

239
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恐慌但是又很享受

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其实2018年对我影响很大

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对我停了几个月

242
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我公司人摆脱老板的巨大压力

243
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他们也停下来了

244
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我也停下来了

245
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我停下来

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我是思考人生

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我看了段永平

248
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我这是我要的人生活

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真的其实我过去的我的所有人生是主动选择

250
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也是被动选择

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因为我没得选

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2018年那一次我挺吓人

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我这是我要的人生

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我看老段我连夜看完的

255
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我要学一个投资

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我要做跨境

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包括昨天我给会员兄弟

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我也讲

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我说跨境

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这是我很重要的美股的第一步

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因为有了跨境

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我都我都投资很简单了

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然后因为跨境呢我开始研究美国市场

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00:10:05,350 --> 00:10:08,500
实际上2019年开始

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当我做投资第一天

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改变我命运的第一天

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因为我之前我不知道我适合做投资

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所以兄弟们一定要尝试

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知道吗

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一定要尝试

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因为你也不知道你会成为什么样的人

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你不尝试

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你永远不知道隐藏似的

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你有可能碰到自己擅长的

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所以2019年度的投资鸡腿就翻倍了

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我运气很好啊

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一直翻倍或者互联网消费哇

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两家很猛

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然后到了2022年23年开始萎缩

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实际上我的生意和头子都是同频的

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东盖打一字的时候

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生意也是江河日下

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所以我我和一般人不一样

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一般人会陷入这种怪圈循环

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我不会

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我很爱跳出来的

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我这不是我的问题

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所以各位创业者最难的是什么

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就你要学会分析归因

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这是谁的问题

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不是你的问题

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你不要买这个单子

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而且你要急着调头

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所以我这个年最重要的是过去的创业10年

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00:11:31,080 --> 00:11:32,340
我不知道是谁的问题

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00:11:33,340 --> 00:11:36,159
后面我很清楚谁的问题

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现在有问题我不碰

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我们看这保证真是没有问题

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随着人生的三个变化

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那为什么人的智慧呢总是随着年龄增加

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一点点在增强

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其实我也是这样的

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就是我越来越会思考了

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从22年开始又来回思考

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当我真正开始思考的时候

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我的命运发生了改变

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各位干呢能解决温饱思考

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能解决命运问题

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真的各位你们要好好想

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特别是北方的兄弟啊

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一定要好好想

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不会输的吧

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你解决了命问题

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那你不知道怎么解决的

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你想不透对外投资

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昨天来两个会员

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有一个财务自由了

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但是财务自由不见得你会思考

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因为财务自由的人很多

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会思考的人很少

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你尊重内心

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尊重价值观

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尊重你的下意识的人很少

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很少

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最终因为你不尊重你内心

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即使你财务自由

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你也不快乐

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我谁真的很快乐

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很多人理解不了我的快乐啊

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00:13:01,919 --> 00:13:05,139
我的快乐就是这样的一个人

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00:13:05,139 --> 00:13:08,769
老婆的饭菜看得出来

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00:13:08,769 --> 00:13:10,649
超喝杯酒

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00:13:11,769 --> 00:13:12,489
我真的很漂亮

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00:13:13,969 --> 00:13:17,289
可能给人对着这种性格有关系

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00:13:21,289 --> 00:13:25,049
我记得很小的时候就很喜欢放羊吧

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00:13:25,049 --> 00:13:28,070
我兄弟们在带你们看电视

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然后我就放羊

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00:13:30,929 --> 00:13:32,230
一个人带本书

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00:13:32,230 --> 00:13:34,049
那时候还吹笛子

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就是就去感悟

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但那个时候我就和一般人不一样

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可能跟性格有关系啊

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但这个性格的养成呢

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更多的还是思考的结果

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我不太对那些没有意义的东西太会沉迷

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就我这个人性格很有意思啊

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就我不太会沉迷那些没有意义的事

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就首先这个事有意义没有意义

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我就不想浪费时间

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我爸又不在意看

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00:14:03,720 --> 00:14:07,299
不会像一般人一样越陷越深

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我不会的

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我总是试图回到原点

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00:14:10,639 --> 00:14:13,539
就想说究其原因在什么地方

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00:14:13,539 --> 00:14:15,328
这是不是我的问题

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是我的

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我改不是我的

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00:14:17,688 --> 00:14:18,208
我不买单

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00:14:19,448 --> 00:14:21,379
也许这些年真正的命运的改变

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就因为你的人生与价值观在做

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00:14:23,700 --> 00:14:24,860
在做需求

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00:14:24,860 --> 00:14:29,000
这是为什么很多人能像我一样转型的原因啊

363
00:14:29,000 --> 00:14:30,799
就是他没有一个很明确的价值观

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00:14:32,200 --> 00:14:34,399
他真的没有像我一样

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00:14:34,500 --> 00:14:37,960
我是嫉恶如仇的

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00:14:37,960 --> 00:14:41,708
独一无二的恩断义绝的

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我不认同

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00:14:43,428 --> 00:14:44,668
那我始终不认同

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00:14:44,668 --> 00:14:45,668
哪怕我吃不饱饭

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00:14:45,668 --> 00:14:46,679
我也不认同

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00:14:46,679 --> 00:14:48,399
像我过去那些人那些事一样

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00:14:48,399 --> 00:14:50,080
我不认同我没钱

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00:14:50,080 --> 00:14:50,720
我不认同我有钱

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00:14:50,720 --> 00:14:51,919
我也不认同我有钱

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00:14:51,919 --> 00:14:53,039
更不认同

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00:14:54,200 --> 00:14:55,519
所以因为我这种性格

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00:14:56,639 --> 00:15:02,179
我才能在每一次即将坠入深渊的时候

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00:15:03,500 --> 00:15:04,820
很快逃离深渊

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00:15:04,820 --> 00:15:06,990
这也许是我的幸运

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00:15:07,590 --> 00:15:09,929
但是以我的经历

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00:15:09,929 --> 00:15:12,429
以我的人生的起点

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00:15:12,919 --> 00:15:14,240
没有哪一条

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00:15:14,240 --> 00:15:15,879
自从我走到现在

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00:15:15,879 --> 00:15:19,679
没有一条包括到现在为止

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00:15:22,159 --> 00:15:24,440
因为我看人还是准的啊

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00:15:26,620 --> 00:15:27,899
所以我给他提个建议是什么

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00:15:27,899 --> 00:15:31,610
就是就你要保护好你的内心

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00:15:31,610 --> 00:15:32,470
你知道吗

389
00:15:32,470 --> 00:15:34,070
保护好你的价值观

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00:15:34,070 --> 00:15:38,120
保护好你内心的那纯真和善良

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00:15:38,120 --> 00:15:39,220
那个时候会救你的命

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00:15:39,220 --> 00:15:42,690
因为在你徘徊迷茫

393
00:15:42,690 --> 00:15:46,339
没有没有角色原点的时候

394
00:15:46,339 --> 00:15:50,769
恰恰是那下意识能够拯救你

395
00:15:52,210 --> 00:15:53,250
为什么呢

396
00:15:53,250 --> 00:15:54,980
应该是对的

397
00:15:54,980 --> 00:16:00,039
真的我们的每一次选择成就了我们的现在

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00:16:00,039 --> 00:16:03,190
但是那个选择非常艰难

399
00:16:03,190 --> 00:16:04,730
非常非常艰难

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00:16:04,730 --> 00:16:07,740
你的现实生活会把你的所有的选择

401
00:16:07,740 --> 00:16:09,679
所有的想法压抑下去

402
00:16:09,679 --> 00:16:10,919
然后你给自己说

403
00:16:11,399 --> 00:16:12,480
我只能这样子

404
00:16:12,480 --> 00:16:14,919
但是不是这样的

405
00:16:14,919 --> 00:16:17,919
我不知道有多少人能够看到现在

406
00:16:17,919 --> 00:16:19,399
能够理解这种感受啊

407
00:16:20,399 --> 00:16:23,039
真的人生可以努力

408
00:16:23,039 --> 00:16:24,799
也没必要太过于努力

409
00:16:24,799 --> 00:16:28,059
人生可以承受一段时间的痛苦

410
00:16:28,059 --> 00:16:29,600
但不要一直承受痛苦

411
00:16:29,600 --> 00:16:31,328
人生可以委曲求全

412
00:16:31,328 --> 00:16:33,609
可以有偶尔懦弱

413
00:16:33,609 --> 00:16:35,089
但是不要一直这样子

414
00:16:35,089 --> 00:16:38,129
人生可以暂停

415
00:16:38,409 --> 00:16:40,629
但是总是要重新开始

416
00:16:40,629 --> 00:16:43,789
这是我的一个这一直以来啊

417
00:16:43,789 --> 00:16:48,000
我愿意分享的原因在于说我能看到很多人性

418
00:16:48,000 --> 00:16:50,659
实际上不是因为财富地位啊

419
00:16:50,659 --> 00:16:52,600
我是因为人的内心的真诚

420
00:16:52,600 --> 00:16:54,919
我觉得真诚战胜一切

421
00:16:54,919 --> 00:16:57,409
而且真诚的人最终呢一定会选对

422
00:16:57,409 --> 00:16:58,370
真正的人

423
00:16:58,370 --> 00:17:00,049
一定是在正确的路上越走越远

424
00:17:01,250 --> 00:17:07,079
这是从小到大一直以来的一个性格吧

425
00:17:07,079 --> 00:17:08,920
但是我不认为有对错啊

426
00:17:08,920 --> 00:17:10,339
不真诚不是错了

427
00:17:10,339 --> 00:17:12,099
是他更擅长自我保护

428
00:17:12,099 --> 00:17:17,329
更擅长孙校长给自己呢找到安全边际

429
00:17:17,329 --> 00:17:21,089
但是呢我们不见得能够坐下一块来聊天

430
00:17:21,089 --> 00:17:22,789
不见得大家交朋友

431
00:17:22,789 --> 00:17:27,109
所以呢我我是一直会保持这种真实的状态

432
00:17:27,109 --> 00:17:30,589
但是呢我也会选真诚的人交流啊

433
00:17:30,589 --> 00:17:31,250
做做朋友

434
00:17:31,250 --> 00:17:34,079
但是我绝对不会和任何不尊的人

435
00:17:34,079 --> 00:17:36,759
产生任何的深度的交往

436
00:17:36,759 --> 00:17:39,240
因为我现在有选择的自由呵

437
00:17:39,240 --> 00:17:41,259
而且我也有拒绝的自由

438
00:17:41,259 --> 00:17:46,799
所以呢这个呢哼今天呢就来到了一个小镇啊

439
00:17:46,799 --> 00:17:48,539
啊想到了2018年

440
00:17:48,539 --> 00:17:51,630
想当时看到了这么多的老美

441
00:17:51,630 --> 00:17:52,470
他们的欢呼雀跃

442
00:17:53,509 --> 00:17:57,720
然后我希望每个真诚的人坚持自信的内心梦想

443
00:17:58,799 --> 00:17:59,859
不要妥协

444
00:17:59,859 --> 00:18:01,079
勇往直前

445
00:18:01,079 --> 00:18:02,279
加油啊

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