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昨天分享了一个创业的故事啊
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就是创业了十几年啊
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经历了一些大的困难啊
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一些生死攸关的决策
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就那都是一些显性的啊
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那隐性的小故事更是数不胜数啊
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因为毕竟来讲你做企业更多的还是管理啊
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日常琐事啊啊包括那些鸡毛蒜皮啊
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那个事减的太多了
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所以呢实际上你一旦啊创业创了很多年啊
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你到最后的结果是什么啊
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就是你不太愿意做管理
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到了40岁这个人呢就再也不想管人了啊
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其实呢包括我从来了美国的一年多呢
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我越来越喜欢我家这个狗啊
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也是个原因
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就之前的时候你的心静不下来嘛
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是你一直围绕人
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然后做琐事管理来经营的细节是吧
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你脑袋天天都是啊高度旋转
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那忽然有一天你闲下来诶
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然后呢你再体验在生命的美好的时候
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你才发现哇哦原来是原来是体验生活哈
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体验人生才是最重要的
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实际上如果啊我要提一个建议的话呢
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就是就你怎么样在你年轻的时候低成本试错
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我认为这是最中肯的一句话啊
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就是啊当你很年轻啊
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还没有真正意义上陷入那种像35岁以后
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40岁以后啊那种躺平状态的时候
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低成本试错呢是我认为大家都要想明白的
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因为这个事呢就是他会牵扯到什么点啊
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比如说我们教育孩子啊
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所以教育孩子的时候
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你一旦那个小孩儿你的教育失败了啊
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你是终身的遗憾
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对不对
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那你怎么样从这个20岁到30岁之间
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积累教育孩子的经验
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其实我觉得做企业管理是非常有作用的
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就是你通过看很多人
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很多员工啊
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很多人的这种成长经历
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你很清楚一个人是怎么样成功的
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怎么样失败的啊
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怎么样啊
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越来越好
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怎么越来越差啊
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怎么样状态哈
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越来越激昂啊
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怎么样状态越来越落寞
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实际上你从那个人性里面都能看到啊
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他是什么原因导致的呢
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其实我不认为是能力问题
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也不是因为聪明的问题
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就绝大多数穷人的孩子是因为没有想象力
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而且呢他太固执
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这个没有想象力的原因呢
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就你也知道我们是从小到大
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那父母给我们提的这个啊
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最中肯的建议就是砸锅卖铁供你上学啊
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能吃饱饭就是最大的这个啊幸运
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那不要谈其他的这种精神啊
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诗和远方啊
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这都没有
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实际上到今天为止哈
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我有我们的教育
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还是说还不如自主的
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就就就用了
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以前的功能性化的教育啊
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要考好大学
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找个好工作啊
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然后刻苦学习
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然勤于训练
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实际上这些都是公众化教育
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让孩子在啊真正去面对这种未来选择的时候
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他其实是个静态的
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还是个标准化的
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其实来讲这个人生没有标准答案
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那举个例子啊
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比如说啊今天啊面临的这个大裁员啊
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你看甲骨文大裁员啊
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谷歌微软和亚马逊都是大裁员
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如果他是个品学兼优的孩子啊
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他是非常的勤奋啊
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非常上进
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也非常高标准
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但是毫无理由的被裁掉了
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大家想
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那对他来讲
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他的人生是不是极大的挫折
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所以说你会发现一个问题啊
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在中国很多时候能学习中游的啊
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就像我从老大啊中等偏上
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但是呢也没有过度的执迷于学习成绩的你
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反而出来社会呢很多时候很容易转换
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就是遇到困难
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哎我换个方法
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我从来不去找这种标准答案啊
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找教科书啊
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甚至来讲去寻求这个那过去的哈
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谁谁谁怎么解决的
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我没有
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我脑海里没有标准答案
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因为我知道那标准答案不适合我
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它也不适合我的成长经历
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但是呢如果说你是一个标准化出来的人
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你很容易陷入误区
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所以实际上我想讲的是什么呢
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就是当你在这个啊成长过程里面
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你怎么样积累对未来有用的东西
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就是比如说一个高手给你讲一句话
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能不能听得懂
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这个是我创业这十几年来最最深的啊
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就是比如说我的那些员工啊
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最早时候都是从这个仓库啊开始锻炼
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基本的这种啊流程
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后来做客服啊
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推广运营啊
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项目负责人啊
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然然后到了这个运营负责人之后呢
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他们再也没有上去
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那年薪呢可能就定位在20到50万年薪
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再也没有上去过了
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他为什么呢
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其实来讲真正赚钱的值钱的是什么呢
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是产品经理啊
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是全球的啊
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渠道推广是吧
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是这种真正意义上这种标准化代替不了的啊
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运营地特别替代不了的
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就是一些创造利润的东西
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但是呢普通人的孩子是怎么想的呢
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就是哎我年薪还能有个20到50万
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那这辈子已经很好了
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我要守住他
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对我不想着去啊
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做更高深的东西
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我只看当下
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我就守住这些收入
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其实这个才是普通人
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普通孩子为什么到了一定阶段还有停滞的原因
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就是你没有掌握最核心的技能
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你也没想掌握哈
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你也不知道这个技能对你将来有什么作用
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其实越是底层人越现实
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大家可以注意观察一下
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比如说像我们山东啊
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鲁西南的彩礼文化
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他为什么会有彩礼文化呢
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那为什么到了江浙对吧
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到了福建
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到了广东啊
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嫁女儿都是这个女方的父母陪陪嫁的啊
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陪很多啊
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然后呢都是啊现金嗯
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房子车子几百万上千万的赔
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为什么呢
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因为他很清楚啊
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就是当那个女方的父母呢给了女孩子这么多
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带到男方的时候
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大家想这个男方会不会有敬畏心啊
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会不会觉得亏欠
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会不会对女方好
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那肯定的嘛
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因为这是人家给你的呀
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所以呢实际上但凡想要女儿幸福的呢
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肯定是多给
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而不是说索取
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但是呢为什么到了济宁菏泽啊
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甚至包括江西这些穷地方
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那大家都想着卖女儿呢
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大家想想是不是这个逻辑
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大家想着这是一存买卖啊
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女儿是泼出去的水对吧
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哪怕说你得给要了这些钱再带回去
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实际上那对方可能会负债是吧
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他压力很大
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一个压力很大的家庭里面
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他的动作会变形
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他家庭不可能幸福的
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但是呢你觉得济宁的这些啊这么多惨案
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这么多悲剧出现
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这些父母们
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女孩的父母们需有要求吗
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没有在底层人的思维里面
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就是我只看当下
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我只看短期
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我只看借贷利益
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我绝对不会看长远
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这就是核心问题
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就是我自己带团队哈
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带了这么多年
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实际上我很多时候发现的问题
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就是底层人实际上最功利
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而且呢最现实最计较
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这也是我做IP分享投入
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我也发现了问题
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就是最容易亏钱的啊
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就是几10万或者百万的啊
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基本上在200万以下啊
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三五十万这些人呢
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他实际上第一个呢就是想赚快钱对吧
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我也出过这个逻辑嘛
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比如说你要是股息啊
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400%分之五
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你有个100万
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45万不够花的对吧
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然后第二个呢就是想翻倍
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你其实你看一下这些真的几千万的
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很少有人亏对吧
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我们会员群几个亿
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几10亿的很少有人亏
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因为他很懂
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比如说你有一个亿啊
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你想5%的年化五五百万
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你家钱也花不完
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你只要不乱花
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不买飞机啊
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500万你在美国也够荒了
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但是呢你要是50到100万呢
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你想哇我我我必须要翻倍啊
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我要一年赚50万
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我家庭可以去玩
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可以买车哈
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可以改善生活
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所以你越是这么想
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越想翻倍
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你越会风险很大
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而且呢最关键是什么呢
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听说2026年这种行情呢
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它实际上就是一个非常极端的行情
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因为你也知道川普这个总统非常不靠谱嘛
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那这种形式呢每天都在变啊
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根据人的意志在转移
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这个时候这个人呢很容易陷入一个哈高抛
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本来想高抛低吸
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变成了这个哈低抛高吸了
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所以这个反而亏得越来越厉害
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昨天昨天有一个人他就给我留言说
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权哥哈
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我本来有130万
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现在亏了只能30万了
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实际上我希望他看到这个视频之后
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他好好反思一下啊
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他就是属于我说的这种啊
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有个50到150万之间啊
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一两百万这种最容易亏钱
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因为他想翻倍
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如果你想到年化5%到十
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你反而亏不了钱
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因为你找不到高股息的嘛对吧
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你只是股价不涨
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但是你的分红还能到账
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但是你越想翻倍呢
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你越亏越多
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这就是越是底层的人
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越是底层的人
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越是现实的原因
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他越是急功近利
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他越是无法理解
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越是静不下心来
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这是我创业那些年
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你说哈
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我我曾经遇到了很多外部的困难
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那些外部困难都是一些显性的哈
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可以解决
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但是真正的内部困难就是管理
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改变一个人的观点
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改变人的观念和价值观
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这是隐性的
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他是用了二三十年
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形成了固化的思维而形成的认知
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你真的要改变它
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可能也需要二三十年
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二三十年是什么呢
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当他遇到挫折啊
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他的孩子他在他他在他孩子身上
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看到了他曾经经的自己啊
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到了看到到他这种啊
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或者说其他的同学身上发生的灾难啊
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或者说这个很多身边的人发生了灾难
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比如说我看到张雪峰这个啊
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这种悲惨的案例之后呢
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啊over了
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完了之后呢
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我第一件是买了个苹果的
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苹果的最新款的手表啊
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主要是测测高血压啊
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这种这种这种万一有什么风险的事件
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所以你看当我看到同龄人刷水坑的时候
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我第一眼意思是一定要保重生命对吧
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但是呢你说我到了40岁的时候
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哼
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我现在做了价值投资
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我就不像以前拼命的熬夜
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一天睡两小时三小时对吧
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也不再是像以前似的玩命的啊
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为了这个啊做做企业
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做公司增长哈
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把这个家庭放一边
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我是真的是来到美国之后心静下来了
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但是有多少人心能静下来呢
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大家每天处于这种啊业绩压力咳
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市场竞争是吧
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35岁效应啊
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各种各样的这种现实中
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你的心其实很难静下来的
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但这时候你每天都在重复
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昨天的这种重复的那种错误
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所以这个呢也是我给大家讲
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就是在底层呢最关键的两个要素
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第一个就是当有人跟你说真话
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提建议的时候
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你要听懂啊
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你听不懂你就多想
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那第二个呢就是你真的要看人对吧
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这个人他很正
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价值观很正
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你虽然看不懂
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你是不是可以按照他的方法论
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去往前走一走对吧
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我经常原来跟我团队讲
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我说你往前走一下啊
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今天你看不见没关系
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你可以不相信
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但是呢你坚持这么做是吧
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你做到了你再去相信也可以
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但是实际上呢越是底层的人呢
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他根本他就不相信
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他也不做
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越是底层人自信越差
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因为他看不见他迷茫
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他反而执行力更差了
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所以这就是一个核心问题
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就当我发现这个事之后呢
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其实我在2019年之后啊
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我是没有怎么做过团队管理的
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我在2010~2015年
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非常努力的做管理
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然后呢我培养了些人才去做老板了啊
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当然我也替他们高兴啊
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因为那时候就完全按照老板的方式
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到了2015年到2019年呢
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希望管理层的方式啊
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管按照培养度管理层嘛
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那那些人也只能做管理
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那到了2019年之后呢
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我基本上我就不管了是吧
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我觉得人是不可改变的
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然后我对人性我是没有什么信心啊
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但到了22年之后呢
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啊我做了一批
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然后呢我又重新对人呢就重新竖起了这种信心
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因为什么
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因为人和人不一样对吧
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我发现人和人的区别呢是非常非常大的
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所以呢我又重新去审视啊
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我过去的这种管理啊
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包括今天我做IP
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实际上我还有很多的啊优秀的助理嘛
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他们啊一方面是啊送我会员
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然后跟我投资啊
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跟我学投资
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第二个呢就是帮我去打理一下啊
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我现在的这种业务实际上嘛还是蛮好的
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实际上我今天状态
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比2015年之前的状态还要好
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原因就是因为很省心嘛
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实际上这个过程呢我想给大家讲
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就是你怎么样用最低的成本和代价
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然后让你呢掌握住人生的决策密码
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就是代价
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我们普通人承受不起
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无论是时间成本啊
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无论是资金成本是吧
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还是说这种啊这种时间岁月啊
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我们的青春不在啊
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还是在这种啊
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青春不在
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最好管的时候
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你没在
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所以你要想一个逻辑
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就是我怎么样最低成本去试错
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就像我讲股票一样的对吧
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很多兄弟看我投资对吧
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觉得强哥
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你这个每天都分析不同的公司啊
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你为什么呢
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我说很简单
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我说你如果不看100家
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你是选不出来一家的
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各位巴菲特一辈子投资了200多家公司
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真正重仓了就那么十家不到
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但是呢没有那200家
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他分钱不到四家
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因为你投资也是需要大量的对比筛选
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然后呢长时间跟踪你才能看懂
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但如果说你的心静不下来
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你是很难看懂的
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这次这个核心的问题是什么呢
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就是这个所有的投资决策
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他是需要时间沉淀的
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就是你要在一个行业里面看5年十年
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然后你还要对比其他行业
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因为你不可能获得一个平稳的收益嘛
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比如我做家电对吧
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好多家店
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那家店里面最好的美帝
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那如果说我只是看了美帝的话
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那我跟AI没有关系了
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所以说我要通过多家店
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然后去看更多的行业和美的去对比
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然后第二个呢就是你真正意义上要懂投资的话
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你发现你要做一个重大决策
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就像索罗斯一样
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他做了70%的失误率
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就是他的决策里面十个有七个是错的
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但是不影响赚几百亿美金
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原因为什么呢
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因为他的30%是正确的
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观念里面都下了重注
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70%的错误里面下了清仓
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这个呢也是我们普通孩子出生要想明白的
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就是你不要追求完美
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你要追求的是错了
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损失很小
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对了
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赚了很多就是大赚小亏
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如果你能明白这两个逻辑呢
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实际来讲
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大概率能
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你会在年轻的时候
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不太在意一些不该在意的事情
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从而避免内耗
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再是我想给北方的兄弟去讲的
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就是嗯北方的兄弟们呢
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因为你想的面面俱到
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然后呢把精力的过度用在小事上
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小情绪上
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但是真的大的智慧
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大的方向你是没有精力关注的人
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精力是有限的
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所以呢我是一个不在乎
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或者说啊从小到大比较偏激或者说专注的人
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所以呢忽略了很多因素啊
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等你成功以后呢
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你再来回想
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你发现哇当时专注是对的
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所以这个也是想提醒所有的啊
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北方的兄弟们
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就很多时候呢你怎么用最小的成本去试错
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最小的代价来去尝试
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去体验
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怎么样去看的稍微长远一点
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不要太过功利对吧
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最关键的是你要知道谁的价值观是正确的
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是长远的
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你只要能分辨这三点
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我觉得大概率的你可以走出泥潭