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美国很像我们八零后小时候的农村啊
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你看那小孩放了学啊
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基本上都在练球
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美国人呢他们比较喜欢棒球
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那我们中国人呢比较喜欢羽毛球啊
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乒乓球啊啊当然打篮球的越来越多了啊
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这激烈的运动呢其实老美都喜欢的比较多
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激烈团体运动在美国呢
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如果说你没有这种题外号
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其实非常可惜的啊
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那为什么呢
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因为你的地税非常高啊
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比如说你像我们那个房子
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一年地税的话就5万多刀啊
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它是根据你买入价格啊
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再按照你的这个比例啊
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比如我们那小区均价600多万美金啊
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然后呢你的这个买的时候
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比如你花600万啊
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然后呢地税啊一个点
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那一年就要交6万美金
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那你买的时候要是100万呢
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那只需交1万美金
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所以在美国为什么它的老钱啊越来越舒服啊
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原因就是因为他买的便宜
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他持有成本很低
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如果你后面的人来了之后
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我告诉你啊
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那简直不要太惨
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就是这个呢就是给大家讲啊
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就是在美国呢一定要是早干什么东西都要早
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然后一旦晚了
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哎你这个成本高
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体验差
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你比如你现在要来美国
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你花六七百万1000万美金还买一套房
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那如果说你的资产啊不在2000万美金以上
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那你的压力很大的啊
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你想想吧
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你一套房600万
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一年6万多
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将近7万刀
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不算其他的
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然后你要交个50年的话
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那光着房子的成本啊
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就在这得多少
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就在350万美金以上
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然后呢你还得想办法去维持各种保险哈
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每年保险开的也很大对吧
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然后这样的话你就非常辛苦了
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你看美国还有个什么特点呢
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你看他们的这个所有的这种开支呢
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更多的用在户外上是吧
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你看这老百姓基本上一到了放学全是开着车啊
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开始弄大车来请教练
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各位美国的教练很贵啊
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中国的补课
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比如说你一堂课一年啊
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比如说一个一个年收入10万的
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可能在孩子补课上花个35万
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美国那是教练啊
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一个教练的话一一小时是120
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然后在教练在这个练习这种球上
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一年可能花几万美金啊
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当然我的小孩也是我小孩基本上啊打网球
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打篮球哈啊
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学美术之类的也是每天花很多钱对吧
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你看我自己学高尔夫
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我就自己学的
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当然了
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美国讲教练呢
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他们确实是专业
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你看我游泳的时候
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晚上游泳的时候发现我们的小区只要老外啊
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他动作都很标准
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只要中国人都是狗刨啊仰泳
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那只要老外啊标准的那种动作
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真的真的真的不一样
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花钱是有用的
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对还有一条呢就是你比如说你老美呢
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他们的想法想的很明白哈
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就昨天还有很多兄弟说啊
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那美国的小孩和父母之间的关系怎么样
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美国的父母呢对孩子是没有期望值啊
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比如说就是就是啊无条件养育吧
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我养你就得养大了是吧
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18岁呢你就自力更生气了
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你包括阿巴马说
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他说他都毕业
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大学毕业十几20年啊
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才还上这个注册贷款啊啊这这这这这是真的啊
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美国真的美国的大学费很高啊
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比如说你像哈佛
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耶鲁啊这种呃
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这种私立的可能一年就要五到8万对吧
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那本州的便宜啊
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你公立的
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比如说你要是有绿卡啊
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你在加州读的大学
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一年的话就1万多美金还可以啊
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申请各种助学金基本上花不了什么钱
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但你要考私立的就很贵
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各位私立学校很贵啊
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基本上我们旁边有个city ho啊
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一年的话也是五到8万对吧
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大学五到8万
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那如果呢你要培养他都全身实力的话
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你算吧
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呃他大概就是高中啊
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高中的话到大学啊
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到研究生
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你算下来
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整个比如说你442十十年下来的话
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你大概最少要花个80到100万美金了
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所以这就是核心问题啊
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就在美国啊
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培养A精英也是巨额投入的啊
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当然了
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其实我来了之后呢
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为什么我觉得他们赌的公益啊
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因为这边的啊就是new port的公寓其实很好
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对这边的公立学校也是来自石碑桥学校区哈
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然后环境也很好
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这边人的素质也很高啊
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所以说呢你要来美国最好的方式就是啊
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就租在这种豪华社区啊
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这种富人社区和白人社区
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你这租啊环境又好啊
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人文又好
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学校又好啊
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因为他这个地税高嘛
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它地税高
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它支持都绿化啊
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你你不信你在洛杉矶看看啊
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就是我也去了很多地方啊
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从黑尔从从那个神农黑欧啊到这个啊安大略啊
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到很多地方我去过啊
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基本上呢这个new port的这种人文环境是最好的啊
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无论绿化
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无论温度
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你包括我们很多会员呢
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他住这个啊华人的老社区啊
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比如说这个阿卡地亚
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阿卡地亚的房子很大很老
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但最近56年都没有增值
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有的还还跌了是吧
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房子最起码这很贵啊
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可能四五百美金
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但是呢你要是在啊
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比如说20年前在NEWPORT买个soy了
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你现在都过1000万美金了
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所以你的资产呢可能躺着啊
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就额外赚了大几千万
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但是你要是在啊阿卡地亚的话
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基本上没有任何争执的啊
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所以这个呢也是反映了第二点啊
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就是呃
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美国呢他们比较喜欢那种环境好的地方啊
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比较喜欢海边
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所以呢你在美国如果说像要刺激啊之类的啊
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最好是选择有海的地方啊
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那第二个呢选择温度C的地方呃
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我我觉得我来到美国之后
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为什么高血压好呢
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其实就是因为这种环境啊
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太舒服了
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各位就是我我跟他讲什么感觉啊
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因为我做这个投资这个活呢
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实际上他是一个出力不讨好的活
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因为你分析的个股很多啊
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其实而且股票95%的显都跌的
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实际上你在跌的时候呢
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它非常考验你的这个呃这个心态对吧
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你想想吧
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比如我每天分析两家公司吧
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那一年就700家公司对吧
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那700家公司同时啊基本上90%现跌
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那你想想吧
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每天都在啊这些700家公司里面哈
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大部分都跌的
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所以说啊当那个股价暴跌的时候呢
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啊这些额粉丝都会问你啊
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你看你分析一家公司跌了
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我分析下公司跌了
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我没让你买
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但是跌了的话
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他还会问你啊
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他因为这是你分析的嘛
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所以这种呢这种投资呢如果是在国内的话
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可能人呢早就崩了哈
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所以说你看我特别理解啊
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张雪峰啊
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他们为什么这个压力这么大啊
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其实就是因为你你这种一旦成了公共人物啊
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网红啊
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你讲的任何一句话
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实际上都会带来这种第二种想法对吧
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那你无论是表达的语气啊
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啊有这种轻重啊
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他都会误认为说那这个东西是你推荐的
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实际上我们的持仓啊
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实盘啊
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我们就买了一只股票
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基本上没怎么变过对吧
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我在我们会园区里面所有的共享的磁盘呢
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大仓位我是不变的哈
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至于那种空气环暖啊啊烟蒂啊啊
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包括一些这个小盘股啊
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成长股啊
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我们主要还是为了搏高收益来的哈
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那现在仓位不大
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主要是呢去验证一下自己的思考能力哈
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也找到一些信息不对称的点
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所以这个本质上大家的这种想法就不一样啊
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所以呢我做这个工作呢
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如果是在啊国内啊
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比如说不是在洛杉矶啊
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或者在一个很寒冷的地方啊
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比如在西雅图吧
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那我告诉你的心态受不了的啊
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真的受不了
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因为因为你在这个地方呢阳光很好
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比如说我今天我很累是吧
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然后我就去啊
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换一个换一个这种户外
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然后呢我就感觉哇这他妈的太美好了
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我靠是吧
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然后看看这这这小孩们
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小朋友们在那里欢呼雀跃是吧
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还有一个呢就是中国人呢
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实际上像我这么干的很少啊
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就是中国人喜欢扎堆啊
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你看我是什么呢
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我是个冒险主义者啊
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只要是有机会我就出去哎徒步去啊
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但小孩呢大部分他们不太喜欢啊
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其实我就发现你要是想来美国
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一定要早就是小孩
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比如我老大老二啊
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他们来的时候呢
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就基本上就在国内形成思维固化了
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就是我大北方的人
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你们一定要注意啊
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北方的那种环境
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还有这种文化呢
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他给孩子在不由自主的影响
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比如我在你
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你虽然说你没有影响他
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但他身边的环境影响他了
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哎你除非中国的孩子啊
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就内向啊
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然后就是内敛是吧
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然不爱张扬啊
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胆小
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然后呢这个还缺乏这种团队精神哈
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比较冷漠
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差点上都写着了哈
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其实不是说我是我见了我很多中欧同学
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见了很多的
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而我身边的这些啊
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呃朋友的孩子们
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他们小孩都这样的
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各位身材都很差
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说真的啊
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你不信你观察观察
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我家小孩身材算是好的了啊
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因为天天打球嘛
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中欧的同学
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我跟你讲那个小孩的身材啊
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我说心里话
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如果他上大学
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上高中找不到女朋友
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毕了业基本上没戏
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因为因为老美
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他很注重身材
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你知道吧
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因为中国小孩普遍的他不喜欢运动
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他融入不了这个白人的这种团体
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运动的话
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这小孩的身材不好的话
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我告诉你啊
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他们将来你别说就位了
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结婚都很难
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老外对形象的看重啊
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比内在的东西大的多
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因为老外他首先觉得啊
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你身材很好对吧
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你是一个某某某某某校队的啊
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某某一个呃某某一个教练啊
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某某一个体育特长生
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他就会默认为说你有领导力哈
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你有领导力
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然后呢你很能很快融入组织
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所以你会发现一个问题是什么呢
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就是中国的孩子呢更多的还是学术
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更多的还是钻研哈
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做冷板凳
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所以你在美国做到最后
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为什么华人呢
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大部分这种啊
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这种这种这种
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说难听点
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就是就是基本上到了职业生涯
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35~40岁之后就就被裁员了
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因为他的沟通能力问题
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你反而印度阿三
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包括一些其他的国家的呢啊
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其实包括伊朗的
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他们融入都很快
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因为他们的基因啊
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包括他们文化理念
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他都有海洋式的思考方式
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所以山东的北方的人来到美国
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其实一定要改掉那些问题
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其实我老大
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老二身上已经已经有很多这种现象了
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所以来了之后呢好多了
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但是还是还是这个呃能看出来吧
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一放假就想回国啊
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然后一一干完就想去对吧
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就就就想着缩在屋里面
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然后啊找熟悉的机固定那几个中国的朋友
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基本上他和白人交流的时候呢
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他又很难说呃
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心与村的沟通
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其实这个事的点在哪呢
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就是他阅读的少对
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就是就实际上我是特别喜欢看这些
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国外数据的哈
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其实我也给他们讲
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我说你比如说啊光荣与梦想啊
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阿尔滨的种子啊
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哈把这个美国的所有的名人传记看一遍啊
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其实呢把美国历史要多读几遍啊
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了解了他这个文化的形成啊
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啊包括美国的教会
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你要多去看呀
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各位实际上你看我是因为做投资
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我是每天调研
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所以我已经习惯了
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就每天高强度的去思考啊
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去训练啊
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去琢磨
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去融入这个地方
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我是很能理解他老美的这种想法的
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但是不是每个人都愿意知道吗
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因为他很需要脑力
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就是如果说你的年龄大了
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那你要来美国
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你一定要看看美国历史对吧
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就像我推荐了一些美国的那些啊书
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你你目的是什么来
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就你要理解他为什么这么思考
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因为老美的脑葫芦和我们中国人不一样
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知道吗
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所以这个呢也是也是提醒啊
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很多很多人给我咨询移民的事啊
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其实呃没那么容易
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各位真的啊就真的没那么容易
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除非说你财务自由
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你来就是享受生活
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那个没有问题
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但是呢如果说你是一个啊打工啊
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工薪阶层啊啊就几百万啊
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我可以坦诚告诉家
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非常非常累
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生活的远不如中国舒服
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他这个问题不光是钱的问题
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而是说你的小孩融不进去
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你花了很多钱
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你很难回头
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你会发现哇
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那这个事情对吧
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你你怎么想的不一样呀对吧
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然后呢你就产生那种抱怨呀
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或者你夫妻之间产生矛盾呀
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啊或者说呢这个对吧
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这个孩子和父母之间产生矛盾啊
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其实在美国孩子和父母之间的矛盾
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他比中国严重多了啊
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因为我知道的是啊
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我女儿包括我儿子给我讲
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他们那个班里有的小孩
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中国小孩给父母矛盾很大
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然后呢晚上直接出走了是吧
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晚上出走什么感觉多危险呀
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所以说我告诉大家是在中国的话
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比小孩出土啊
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你也不用担心啊
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交通便利啊
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警察摄像头遍地都是
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你在美国
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我告诉你没有摄像头啊
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你去你去看看这么大停车场
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一个摄像头没有
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所以呢就是就是就这是一个中美
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中美双方的一个很大的区别
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就是你没有钱的时候呢
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也可以来
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就是你要通读美国历史
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让小孩老婆全家人都要读
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我家里呢是我非常懂美国
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但是呢我的小孩呢他能适应美国
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但是呢他目前融入上实际上还是欠缺的
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但是我也知道原因
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但这个事呢他需要自己去体验对吧
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他其他不用那么快
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比如来了
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我们来了一年都是很难的啊
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像我说的
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因为我是长时间努力思考
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我是把这些事呢其实已经是
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虽然你也就在中国的时候
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我已经读了美国的很多很多书
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我也知道美国的钱怎么赚啊
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包括在美国呢比中国赚的多的多
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这些都是因为我过去好多年沉淀的结果哈
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因为这是哈哈
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这是10年如一日磨出来的
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但是呢如果说你没有这个沉淀
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你来美国之前一定要做好功课