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小博啊
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刚才啊你教给我中国的家长怎么给孩子沟通
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我觉得你教的很好
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但是呢我也想给你讲一讲哈
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就中国的父母为什么跟孩子啊不够密切
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不会表达爱
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你看啊
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中国是什么时候开始吃饱饭的
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中国人
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你知道哪一年吗
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哪一年我们是山东济宁的啊
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大概在2003年我们还吃不饱呢
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那你能饿了几年呀
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你想吧
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我是85年的
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到2003年
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你算什么
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饿了20多年
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那你说那多少年十十几年啊
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18年嘛
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对不对
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那估计很难受吧
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嗯对啊
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就是中国人为什么苦大仇深啊
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就是压力大啊
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啊比如说你看我们还好
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我们在美国一年消费的话
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起码就50万美金嘛
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我知道为啥压力大
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你知道谁的压力大吗
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那是中国老板
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你知道为啥吗
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为啥见客户喝酒搞到一点多
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然后搞得自己压力很大
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那那还不是压大的
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你的经验怎么喊评的啊
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第一个电商没利润了啊
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他不光没利润
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销量都没了
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你知道今年618
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他们的生意都腰斩了
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生意都腰斩了
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生意腰斩
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销售额下滑一半都多啊
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第二个补税
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你知道今年补税多厉害吧
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100万吗
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补税把这几年的利润都补没了
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他不是100万
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我爸爸的很多那些朋友做电商的都补税
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就是比如说去年前年的钱赚完
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今年都不够补的啊
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第三个中国的这些员工
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你看爸爸公司员工还房贷
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还车贷啊
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还要给孩子上补习班
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你车贷房贷房贷一个月3000
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房贷一个月
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车贷一个月1000
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补习班加吧加吧
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一个月挣个8000
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一块钱到1万块钱根本就不够
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花的越越不还要吃饭
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还要啊上有老下有小
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所以你知道中国的那些老人啊
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农村老人得了病很多都自杀了
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为啥自杀
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看不起呀
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怕给孩子增加负担呀
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以前的时候中国老人你知道吗
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就是基本上啊别说得病了
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六分之后给活埋
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60岁之后直接活埋了
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什么六岁就直接活埋
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60岁之后就是觉得老人没用了
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干不动活了
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直接活埋了
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你没有病都活埋啊
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这是很久很久以前了
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现在已经早就不是那个时代了
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但是到现在为止
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还有很多人呢都看得了病之后只能回家等死
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知道吧
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哎那那他们那那些老人他们都这么老
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他们还能拿拿着这东西来自杀
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他们是怎么自杀
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喝农药呀
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农药嗯
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喝农药很多
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就是爸爸那个小时候那个农村里面哈
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那个老人得了病
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得了癌症
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很多喝农药自杀的
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他不想给孩子增加负担
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而且你知道我们那小说穷到什么程度啊
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啊那个可能为了那么一点点的
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这个这么宽的一块地啊
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都能打得头破血流
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就是你爷
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那你爷爷那一代的时候
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他那个兄弟之间非常不和睦啊
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非常不和睦
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他为什么不和睦呢
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就是小时候太穷对吧
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每个人都是把那个很小的东西看的很重
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就很小的东西看的很重
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因为他没有
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所以说现在大家都有了呢
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没那么计较了
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但没有的时候大家非常非常计较
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但是问题是这种习惯已经影响了很多年
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比如说你看我现在还有很多习惯
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你比如我现在财务自由吧
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但是呢还是还是下意识的就会有那种哎
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就那就那种怕失去的那种心态哦
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我知道为什么你老是说
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就是你知道你最常说啥借口不给我买东西吗
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就说快没钱了
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不能买
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然后然后我看见你的账户你还剩600
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你说你要没钱了
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你在这装什么
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不是没钱啊
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是这样
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是很多时候呢你觉得没有必要买的话
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就不用浪费了
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那那个十块东西都都不想买吗
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不是不想买
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可以买啊
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就是比如说我觉得这个是有点浪费
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比如一次性玩完就扔了
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我只觉得没必要浪费
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因为你比如说你花十块很容易
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你赚十块不容易啊
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对所以我讲的是说我们那个受的那些经历
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你爷爷奶奶姥姥爷啊
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他那个经历
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然后他现在不舍得吃
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不舍得喝
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你包括我们给了他钱都不舍得吃
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不舍得喝哦
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我知道为啥了
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为啥
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因为把那些打到了什么什么
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那些想画的东西都刻在骨子里了
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就是他那个穷的记忆太深了
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对挨过饿
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比如说你知道你知道我们那时候挨饿
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挨到什么程度啊
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来没有吃的
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没有吃的
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懂吗
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我们我们8月15的时候
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那个月饼啊发霉了发霉了
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因为啥那个月饼都是在超市放了都一年多了
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他不是超市的小商店
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去年的月饼啊对呀
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但是我们不敢不舍得当天买
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比如8月15吧
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不买
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8月16买对呀
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那就是因为过期了
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但卖不掉了嘛
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卖菜料很便宜啊
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都是都吃过期的食品
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然后呢这个你上学的时候啊
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交不起书费
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你知道那个我们上初中的时候
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我知道怎么搞嗯
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就是被老师轰出来
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然后把那个嗯对啊消消气
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然后再把课桌搬回来来上课
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对呀
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你知道那个我你知道你那些叔叔们啊
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上砖机
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你知道什么叫砖机吧
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你比如老家盖房子
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那不是烧砖吗啊哎烧砖机那时候没有口罩
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你知道吗
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在那个窑洞里面拉砖一个月啊
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挣几百块钱啊
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都是都变成尘肺了啊
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你知道什么叫尘肺吗
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哦是不是就也很脏气的
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直接引到肺里没错
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然后肺里面就跟抽烟一样
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你们抽黑了对
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就是尘肺
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就是在窑里面烧砖
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就是你知道那个农村那些人哈啊
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就是很多人啊就英年早逝了
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然后因为肺
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然后就直接噶了
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对的
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很多人就是生命对他们来讲一点都不值钱
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其实我在我在创业之前
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我对生命的重视程度远远不如现在啊
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对生命重视成就是在那个地方呢
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这个人啊对命啊没有那么值钱
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你知道吧
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美国人很值钱啊
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比如说你你像美国人那一个人
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要是要让国外人给绑架了
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那是贵了中国人的人命啊
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我跟你讲到现在都不值钱了
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就大家对这个生命都没有那么重视
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啥啥不值钱
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因为你看他们上战场至少十几千万人
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就是因为大家穷啊
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就是穷在骨子里面习惯了
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你知道吗
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嗯所以呢你看这现在的父母呢
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慢慢的像你刚才讲的那个视频一样
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就是要学会爱自己
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就是因为不会爱自己
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导致不会爱别人
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你觉得你爸爸妈妈会爱自己吗
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肯定不会呀
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没错
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我也不会爱自己
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你妈妈也不会爱自己
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所以呢他不是说不会说爱别人啊
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包括你姐姐
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你哥哥是在他们很小的时候
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你知道那时候我们怎么创业吗
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创业我们你你老哥出生的时候
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我们还住在荣泰小区啊
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一个顶楼
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两室一厅
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他妈搞顶楼便宜啊
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顶楼你知道当时我们最早创业的时候
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我们是吃仓库住
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住在一块儿
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我们是在这样哈
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就在一个屋里面
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办公仓库发货都在一块儿
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你知道后来我们退房的时候
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你都把人家地干了多高吗
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嗯就那个五楼那个地板啊
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高了20cm
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那房东来收房的时候说
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哎我这个屋子怎么变矮了
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是因为我们吃住发货的一个楼啊
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长时间那个泥巴把那个地啊都已经抬高了
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就因为你吃饭都掉东西出门儿啊
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那快递员来下了雨啊
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踩地上有泥巴
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那个地直接踩高了20cm啊
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然后那屋里面黑乎乎的
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一年四季没有阳光
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那时候我们都这么过来的
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而且每天晚上工作凌晨两点
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那会儿我们是一班倒
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我们早上六点开始起床嘛
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一会就干到凌晨三点
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我们不舍得雇人啊
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不自己干
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没日没夜的干啊
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所以你看你看在仓库里吃
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在仓库里住
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然后呢冬天零下十度
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夏天零上40度
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就那种高温高热
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然后呢长时间的在那种吃苦
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吃的太多了
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导致呢因为你吃苦太多
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你就不会享受呀
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你懂吗
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就是你像比如说我给你讲个案例啊
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那时候我在天桥区的时候啊
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我都不开空调
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夏天40度我都不开空调啊
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因为你下意识就节省嘛
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这种习惯其实不好
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到后面现在改多了
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现在就是现在现在现在就爱自己了
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现在就慢慢的开始
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有意识的就是让自己软下来嘛
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我以前都很生硬
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你知道吗
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对你到那时候我带你姐姐带你妈妈去玩儿
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你姐姐为什么不愿意跟她一起玩儿哈
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我把他们扔到高速上了
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对呀
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就是他们那时候
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就那时候我每天我每天大量的要去处理工作啊
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14年的时候啊
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比如说我要处理啊啊
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你看我比如我我我我做代理吧
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我要给工厂打交道
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我们30多个品牌代理
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比如说我做这个自主品牌
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我要开发产品
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我们开发了几百个产品
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然后呢我下面还有几百个员工
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然后呢我要处理所有的事情
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就我是产品经理
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品牌经理
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管理供应链渠道
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我都是我一个人干
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然后嘞就是出出门的时候呢
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你你你妈妈和你姐姐坐在车上等着我
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安排等着我去给他们找好玩的好吃的
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我说你们去找
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他们不知道哪里好玩嘛
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然后我要去找
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然后我这边还要回客户电话
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然后后来我急了
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你知道吗
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我说我说你们自己去找
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你不找的话
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我不带你们玩了
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后来他们不会长
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然后把它扔高速上了啊
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就那个时候就这样
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就是啊你很黑耶
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他不是黑的问题
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就是你知道你哎
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我给你举
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我给你举个例子
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比如说你你那个时候你要承担所有的责任
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你根本就忙不过来啊
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然后那时候怎么办
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你是干还是不干
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比如你不干的话
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那时候不干
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今天我们就来不了美国了啊
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因为来美国需要很多钱对吧
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需要你有钱在美国
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你想想我们一套房子多少钱
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好几千万
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对不对
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那我问你
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如果说你要没这么多钱
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你能来美国吗
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肯定不能啊
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比如说你要来美国的话
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你住在这个贫民窟就是downtown
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那那那那我很便宜的
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你今天去大龙家里面
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你看到他们的房子没有
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你愿意租房子吗
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那房子还也挺好的
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不是特别破
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你愿意租那个房子吗
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你愿意吗
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咱一家人五个人住的房子
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你觉得挤不挤嗯
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你应该挺挤的
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对呀
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就是你你你比如说今天
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你今天你得到的所有东西
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是不是因为我们过去非常玩命才得到的对
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如果我们不玩命呢
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如果我们是上个班
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上个班
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一个月拿个5000块钱工资
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你能得到今天的生活状态吗
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肯定不能
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你知道你来美国
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你来美国花了多少钱吗
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多少钱50万啊
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你光升级花了50万啊
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这这就是为什么我们今天这么严肃的原因
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你懂了吗