教育孩子成为自己

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今天有个会员兄弟咨询小孩留学的事啊

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说自己小孩上初二非常厌学

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然后呢学校把他的这个体育课啊

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都给文化课霸占了

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问要不要去东南亚留留学

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我给大家讲一个逻辑啊

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就是永远不要去改变任何的环境

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而是要找到适合的环境

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就这句话理解是什么呢

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就是我们儒家文化的逻辑是什么呢

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就是委曲求全啊

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削减脑筋

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然后呢让自己的很压抑啊

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像我们父辈似的

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在一个群伤片啊

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一待一辈子

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那叫忍啊

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咱中国人文化就是忍道德经也好

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然后呢各种书籍也好

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都是讲究这个问题

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但是呢他就没讲过一句话

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这个人性啊

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他不是天生要忍的

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他是要去叫人挪活

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树挪死

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你要找到适合你的地方

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就像我似的哈

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我来到美国之后呢对吧

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首先各种毛病都没了

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那第二个呢钱赚多了啊

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第三个开心了

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还有最重要一点就是小孩愿意跟我打交道了

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你看我今天晚上光女儿刚刚去吃完这个韩国

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韩国的这个这个这个石锅饭回来

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那小孩愿意跟你在一块聊天

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实际上我没有什么变化哈

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我在国内的时候

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我天天很忙

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没时间管孩子

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我来到美国之后

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其实我也没管过

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因为小孩已经大了不我没这么管过

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我还是那样的

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天天就忙我的事

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但小孩自然而变了

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但我所以我给他讲

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就是你不要去改变任何人

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你不要去改变孩子

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更不要说拿这些世俗的礼仪道德去约束孩子

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约束他没有用懂吗

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因为他不是他的问题

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就是他每一个人都有适合的环境

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比如说哈马牛羊

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尤其草原上最适合它

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比鱼啊

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在水里面最适合它

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鸟在天上最适合它

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你非得把它们关进笼子

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那个笼子不是它应该要的

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你进了笼子

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你再安慰她

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你再给它吵

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它也不开心

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因为他喜欢的是大草原

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所以你要明白啊

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小孩在他小的时候

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他就要狂放狂奔跑是吧

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然后用这种就锻就坚强其体魄啊

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坚强的意志锻炼其体魄

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就让他有一个充分快乐的童年

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少年时期

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实际上我还告大一点啊

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就是学习成绩

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说未来哈这个学历是非常没有用

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标准化考试一点用都没有

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你就我就经常讲一句话

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我说从小到大

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我们小学初中高中大学到现在

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我我们所有同学里面没有一个哈比我更有钱啊

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比我更能嘿目前状态更好

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或者说那比我呢更更更能够

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适应这个当下的环境的一个都没有

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为什么呢

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因为我的学习一般啊

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就我考试成绩很一般

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但是我学习自用能力绝对是最强的

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就是我在每次学习时

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我都要想一句话

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就是我学了之后做什么

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如果学了之后没有什么用

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我学它干嘛对吧

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那如果说我有更好的方法

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为什么不用更好的方法呢

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实际上这是所有家长应该考虑的

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所以说你这个东西你不要因为身边的人啊

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这是我们山东人的特点啊

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就是你身边的人影响他

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就是你学习

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为什么我要让身边的人证明我是最厉害的

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我要让身边人证明我的孩子最厉害的啊

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我要让让孩子给我争光

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我让孩子给我争脸

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各位早就过那个时代了

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因为我们小时候

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那那那就讲什么了

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就讲哎

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你要讲志气啊

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别让人家瞧不起啊

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各位长志气

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别让人瞧不起

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那做给谁看的

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做给别人看的

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在AI时代

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你做给别人看干嘛呀

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你有能力赚钱去对吧

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你又能赚钱去

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你你就一个亿厉害

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还是北大清华厉害

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北大清华的人1%的人能赚一个亿

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但是能赚一个人

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那比上北大清华强100倍

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那为啥呢

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因为你赚一个亿

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你可以赚十个亿

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赚十个亿赚100个亿

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你像我似的

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我虽然没有考上正规的本科

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正规研究生

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我不一样

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考了三大的自考

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拿下了这个中欧的em mba啊

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甚至来讲在美国还有几个高校想让我去读博士

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还让我去做课桌教授很多

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这说明什么呢

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说明学历没有什么价值的

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各位你在刚开始毕业的时候就找工作有点用

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但如果说你不需要找工作

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学历一点用都没有

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像我似的

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我到最后我也没什么学历

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我给大家讲我是怎么做的啊

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我上路院的时候我也没交学费

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在学校呢也不给我毕业证

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那我就让我当时就问我老婆嘛

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当时女朋友嘛

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就是你

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你这个帮我去把那个毕业证编号查一查啊

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一个班里面100个人

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有一个没有的

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他那个编号肯定是我的

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我就从那个电线杆子上啊

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办证200块

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我花了200块办了个假证

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那个证的编号是真的

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从学校网能查到

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但是证是假的

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我没有从学校交那么几万块钱

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就这么简单

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各位我

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我比我同学提前毕业了哈

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我找了个工作去步步高干了几年

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出来创业了是吧

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那那是3年四年就财务自由了

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所以各位

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这就是这个时代很搞笑

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你知道吗

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这是循规蹈矩

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这个东西呢没什么好处

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标准化没有什么好处

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这个是一个差异化时代

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就每一个人你要他都是独一无二的

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你要注重他的个性

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你都要尊重他的意愿

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你就要让他按照自己的意愿往前走

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小孩很干净

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你看我儿子啊

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我儿子我女儿

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那那那实际上我不挑我

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我不改变他的观点啊

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我说这是你的选择

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你为你的选择买单啊

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你为你选择哎

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这是你自己的争取的啊

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跟我没有关系啊

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你就这样很牛逼

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我不是我的能力

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是你的个人能力对吧

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这是你个人牛逼

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不是我牛逼

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我只能说我给你提供好环境对吧

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那那这个这个好的环境里面

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你做成什么样

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那是你不是我

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各位说真的啊

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这就是我我就是来到美国之后

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我一直这种状态

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但是我在国内就不行

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在国内为啥呢

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我在国内我我也这种心态

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我说怎么那对吧

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我只能改变我自己啊

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我改变不了你啊

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但但是各位你这句话说出来之后呢

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那你你老婆肯定不愿意

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你身边人肯定不愿意对吧

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那那大家会说哎呀谁谁谁谁谁对

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你找那种不用攀比的地方对吧

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但凡攀比的地方都有问题

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那人为什么要比呢

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我非常不喜欢啊

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就是你买个股票你可以比对吧

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那那因为你你你你不能让自己的钱亏钱对吧

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你你这个人咋比呀对吧

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我我跟姚明比身高

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我不傻嘛对吧

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我我跟潘长江比身高可以

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那那那那我给我给我给那个对吧

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对徐翔比跨栏

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那不扯吗对吧

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我我我我给别人干事

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那啊巴菲特

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然后段永平比有比谁有钱呢

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那也胡扯对吧

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我们只需要干一件事

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就是我们我们真的要在意的是自己的内心

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而不是说哎虚无缥缈

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还都是别人看那个是最蠢的行为

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各位所以呢这位兄弟呢

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他要不要孩子出国留学之类的

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就是你要带孩子出去看看哪个是他真正喜欢的

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还有关键就是你要观察孩子

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他真正擅长什么

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对他每个人都有自己的擅长点

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你让他琢磨到自己的擅长

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所以这就是中国现在目前最缺的叫思考能力

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思考能力才是一个人最重要的能力

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对真是大部分人不会思考

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各位你看我在国内的时候

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我就很痛苦

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真的啊

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我很痛苦

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就是我经常给啊我团队讲

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我说大家学会思考对吧

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跟我老婆跟我身边的人都讲

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我学会思考

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那这句话呢他有问题

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他什么呢

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就是他没有思考能力

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各位他不会思考

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他为什么不会思考呢

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因为它长时间单一标准

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长时间标准只有一个啊

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就像我讲股票一样的

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哎呀我一讲存储啊

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你看你错过这首了吗

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他胡扯

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我都翻好多倍了好不好

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所以你看我做IP的时候

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我感触最深

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就是这些人他没有脑子

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你知道吗

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就是脑子去哪了

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脑子不知道去哪了对吧

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你看在一个月前讲高通

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高通到一百二一百三

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我说一个全球最牛逼的基带芯片企业呵

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12倍估值12倍股

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股价123

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一百三十四八个点回购九个点的回购

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我说你去哪里找对吧

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他又不是没有技术含量

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我这种公司去哪里找呢

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你看短短的一个月不到翻倍了

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哈哈现在240了

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关键是还有一群举报我

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这搞笑吧啊我讲了高速杨家古文

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还有人举报

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我都没听我

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我跟你说

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我这些年我分享了很多很多翻倍股啊

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又讲了很多

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我讲小米肯定会腰斩啊

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50多块钱我让大家卖

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最后还是20多万腰斩了一样

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所以说你每一次我跟老师讲

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就是就是这个人没有脑子的人啊

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还自我阉割型的

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就自我阉割对吧

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所以说你看你要在国内呢

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你要独善其身

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这个办法就是你别受身边人的影响

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怎么不受影响呢

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就是你但凡发现这个人价值观和你不一致啊

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大家没有共同话语

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赶快拜拜对吧

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一定要赶快拜拜啊

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这个白白的速度越快越好

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就是你要变成一种独行侠

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就像我似的啊

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我就独行侠

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你看我每天干啥

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我就是带着狗出来遛啊

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每天啊一边遛弯哈

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一边思考哈

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一边思考一边这个分享是吧

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然后琢磨

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然后把我群里面所有的兄弟问的那些公司

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哎我就一个一个的去思考

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然后思考清楚之后呢

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哎我再继续给大家分享

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所以你看我就这种思考方式

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这就是我的财富

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这简直就是又不可以职业的数量增加

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就是你最后你会发现一个问题

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什么就是这钱怎么来的呢

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就是思考来的

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那你就是下注对吧

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你就是哎这个这是一个前男友是吧

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十个标的哈哈哈是吧

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十个标的我就是说OK

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然后我对比完之后就选那一个对啊

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选那一个你就啥也不用干了

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等着我天天就在躺着

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一边走路

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一边思考一边散步

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然后呢钱又呼呼的来了

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那你说世界上还有比这更好的游戏吗

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一个都没有

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所以你现在你让我去创业啊

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去找一帮人开会啊啊天天站在讲台上打手

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我都不干

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你倒贴我我都不干

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真的我什么聚会我都不去对吧

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你谁喊我我都不去

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然后你就有很多对吧

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那这不这两天很多人找我说行吧

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那你练吧

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你来旁边这个咖啡店喝喝喝个咖啡吧对吧

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我说我不去

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你请你请我吃饭

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我也不去

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我中午同学说啊

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权哥请你吃饭

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我也不去

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我吃什么饭呀

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哈哈我最喜欢的就是呵

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就是自己在思考问题

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随便吃啥

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我吃啥都不重要

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我就从那边买个汉堡

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然后撒完拉倒了

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我就根本就不看这个事情

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为啥

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因为没有意义

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知道吗

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就是你思考很快乐

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所以呢你教育孩子的时候

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你让小孩学会思考是吧

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但他那用这种个人的价值主张来去突破未来

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而不是说你强行给他一个东西

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那不就是我们这个社会老是赋予孩子一种啊

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你要考上什么大学啊

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你要找到什么工作呀

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怎么的

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那都是扯

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那别人想要的

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知道吗

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你可以多看看哲学啊

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冯友兰的这个中国哲学简史

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他讲的是什么

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就是每一个人要成为自己

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而不是成为想成为的自己

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你知道吗

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就你要学会做个人啊

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人是什么呢

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人是有思想的人

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有独立判断的人

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是有独立决策的

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要成为自己

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这是我们每个成年人一辈子最需要解决的问题

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