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昨天拍视频讲了中国的家庭婚姻的问题
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很多人留言评论说
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权哥
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你过年了
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你不想家吗
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美国是你的家吗
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你为什么不考虑叶落归根啊
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当然留言大部分都是山河市场
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北方的兄弟啊
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实际上你的家也不是你的家
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在中国是这样的
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在中国那叫大河不满小和干啊
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在美国呢是以小河不满大和干
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他是两个截然相反的逻辑啊
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你看我现在在尼伯特beach海边来观察他们
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美国人的家哈
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美国人家呢他是一个独立的个体
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就是国家的法律啊
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法治啊
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它是保护个体的
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像神圣不可侵犯嘛
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他更注重契约精神
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那中国人的家呢他是讲究对吧
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服从集体啊
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举个例子啊
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我小时候呢是父母种地嘛
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那非常辛苦
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很多时候没日没夜
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用我父亲的话来说
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砸锅卖铁供我们上学
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那真的太辛苦了
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所以你看我们小时候都很懂事嘛
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我记得这样的
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我上初中的时候是一个星期回家一次
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上高中呢是一个月回家一次
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上大学呢是一年回家一次
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工作以后呢
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哼也是一两块钱一串
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来到美国之后呢
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也是一年回家一次
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有人说
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其实呢我的回家的频率啊
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我在美国还在国内的时候
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从大学开始是基本上一模一样的
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基本上一年回家一次
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那父母呢其实来讲
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他们对孩子觉得一年回家一次也正常
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因为那父母你看我们小时候
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那那父母为了生计啊
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都没洗走
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很长时间不回家也正常
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没日没夜的在外面干活对吧
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你到今天为止也是这样的
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你可以想象一下啊
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就是大家在工作过程里面很多人出差啊
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你像这个8000万华人在海外哈
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然后全球各地啊
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你想想很多时候过年都回不了家
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但那个他对家的概念本身就不一样了对吧
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你看我
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我本来我是跟我父母讲
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我说哎可以来美国哈
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我父母
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他们现在一个呢可能不太愿意去坐飞机啊
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或者太累了嘛
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第二个呢嘿嘿嘿
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身体可能受不了对吧
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因为我们在济南的时候也让父母呢去体验一下
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受不了受不了城市的喧哗
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那来美国呢面对第二个问题就是语言的问题哈
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当然了
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你的父母他们的老家他可能自由也自由自在
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他们也不一定永远跟儿子在一块
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所以你说这个家的理解是什么样子的啊
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就是我那时候我离开我们那个哈济宁的时候
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我跟我父母亲说过一句话
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我说我今天离开了啊
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我以后再也不回来了
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就我说的不回来是什么意思
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就是不会把这个家门安在那个地方
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因为我觉得那个地方没有什么好玩的
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真的各位啊
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我来美国之后
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我我可以来体验一下
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这是美国的一个普通的社区啊
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这还不是这个啊宝安社区啊
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它只是一个开放社区
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你可以看一下感受一下啊
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你看下美国人对家的理解
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他们真的很注重家
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但每一家每一户呢这个在家里面花的时间精力
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那细节你可以看他的细节啊
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你不要看大面
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因为在北方呢
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很多时候你这个房子呢装修的很好
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面很好哈
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但是呢你要是真的看细节
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你发现都是这个外面很哈很华丽
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那内部呢其实来讲就是比较空洞
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但是美国不一样哈
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美国是外面很普通
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里面很华丽
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嘿嘿所以他有两种不同的不同的思考啊
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啊当然了
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我讲的意思不是说谁贫谁富的问题
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就是他对家的理解不一样
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美国人18岁以后呢
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你就独立个体是吧
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然后呢你呢就和父母没有什么关系了啊
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你就和智力生存啊
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你和奥巴马啊
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他这个哈大学贷款工作10年以后才还清
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什么意思呢
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就是那是你是你的对吧
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你挣的钱是你的
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但是父母呢有义务哈
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你没有义务去去给你解决学费问题啊
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我给你贷款
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你自己慢慢还就行了
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国外人他觉得这很正常
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你知道吗
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所以国外呢他们也不太存钱啊
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他们也不太说哇
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那这些啊这个呵呵是一定要养老啊
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养老的话都是那个美国它都是养老金嘛
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他说养老金啊就是股票账户啊
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退休之后呢就是401K啊
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然后呢用这个股票来养老
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而不是用国家来养老
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所以呢这就对应了我们小时候我们父母啊
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跟我们说的原话啊
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说哎呀你们兄弟们一定要多啊
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然后呢养老啊
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我记得第一次我父亲生病的时候啊
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当时因为我们兄弟五个嘛
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然后我出钱啊
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兄弟们出力
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然后大家分头哈
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有人出钱出力的父母唉
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照顾的很好
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康复了啊
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在后面呢因为兄弟们多嘛
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有人在老家啊
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我呢就是天天在外面嘛
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然后呢到现在还是这样嘛
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我说我出钱
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那出力呢
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那兄弟们出力就行了
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实际上大家发现这个事也可以
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为什么我说现在过年啊
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实际上我也不太愿意回啊
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主要原因是什么呢
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因为第一个呢你你比如说我的生意做得很好
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但是呢不是每个人现在都做的很好
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特别是在最近这两年呢
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大家可以看一下啊
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我就问你
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如果你做的很好是吧
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那这个事怎么办
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这第一个啊
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第二个
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那你想想吧
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你要是生意人
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你知道哈
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如果今年生意不好
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你的心情会开心吗
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不可能的
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但是呢你生意很好
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哎你装的不开心
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你装的不开心
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人家也知道
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对不对
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那最好办法是给钱呗是吧
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那第三个呢就是各位这个人一旦年龄大了哈
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所以讲你真的是心在哪里安放的地方
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就是你的家
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然后呢你在哪里开心
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你的家
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比如说哎在美国哎我高血压好了
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我现在血压完全正常了啊
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现在高压的话就120多
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低压的话就80左右哎
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心率还六七十
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很开心很舒服
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我感觉我的这个状态比他妈的
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十几年前还舒服是吧
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我的这个工作量比他妈十几年前还要大
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我现在一个人赚的钱比他妈十几年前
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几百个人赚的还要多
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那为啥呢
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因为因为这是你自己能心能放下的地方对吧
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我每天我就走个五六个小时哈
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观察这个美国的这些人的生活哈
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然后嘞是吧
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赚更多的钱
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赚更多钱我就花呗
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你看今年我们公司传统联商生意不好
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石三星造发对吧
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那那给那个10年以上老员工
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我说你们要是愿意来美国
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那我就啊具体来玩一下
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给10年的老员工都美国旅游的旅游的名额嘛
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然后你们签证过不了呢
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那就发钱呗
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反正呢啊你给钱也行啊
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来玩我招待你们
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所以说你看我们现在逻辑是什么
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就是如果我有能力哈
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我能照顾更多的人
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还能让大家赚钱
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那我觉得这就是我的家的一个本分对吧
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那我心在哪里
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我能卖家创造价值
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没有必要哈
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我因为我过去从大学毕业
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这20年每年回家一次
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那我在美国每年也回家一次
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你说有什么差异吗
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一点都没有
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那父母呢是吧
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平时的话多寄东西去多给钱啊
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他也开心
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唉
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他也发现咦这个什么也没缺哈
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我直播的时候
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父母呢还可以在线的嘛
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看嘛是吧
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如果我不做直播的话
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他父母可能看不到我了对吧
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然后现在的话你父母没事做直播啊
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父母都嘿嘿嘿都很开心的在看我直播啊
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可能听不懂
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但很开心啊
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所以你发现问题没有
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就是我们这一代人呢
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八零后一代人呢
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实际上你也不用说用文化来去束缚自己是吧
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你像我经常讲
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我说老家的话
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他们父母在不愿意不不愿意游
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必有因
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这种东西都是废话
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我告诉你啊
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如果你今天在一个特别好的地方啊
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父母愿意跟着你来呗
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你比如说我在美国
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父母愿意来
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我分分钟把他们接过来了对吧
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他只要是有一点想法
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哎说行
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我不怕折腾
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我也不怕语言不通是吧
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我也觉得对吧
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我这个老二在哪里都行
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那父母肯定不这么想
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因为儒家文化的思想
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觉得那叶落归给对吧
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那父母到现在还想着给儿子盖房子呢
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那我说我都不回去了
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还要盖是吧
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还要保证的
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要把那个房子给你搞得大大的
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然后我说你让那钱干嘛呢
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我说你有那个钱
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你还不如哈
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你还不如那个自己吃点喝点是吧
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让自己来高兴一点对吧
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你何必来呢
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你要我在美国这个舒适程度
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那那比中国那舒服的太多了对吧
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你这美国的这些房子啊
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这些质量
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那你说你在老家
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你你怎么可能租这种房子
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对不对
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你这个虽然现在你在美国那晚上睡觉了
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睡得真香啊
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我觉得我的高血压就是晚上睡觉睡的不好
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导致的哈
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因为在国内真的是每天晚上凌晨一点回家呀
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真的是每天喝酒喝到11点啊
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每天两三场酒啊
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那真的是每天处于这种精神高度压力
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然后压抑之中啊
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你现在有钱
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但是说白了隔不开
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知道吗
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那离得太近了
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你在中国说难听点
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你有钱你敢干啥对吧
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你最多买个稍微好点的房子
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买个稍微好点的车
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你你你你敢
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你敢有任何张扬吗对吧
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你敢表露出来任何东西吗
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但是你有钱
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你能你能盖住吗
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你能隔离吗
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不可能的
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所以实际上呢我就讲嘛
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我说哎呀
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真的哼哪里舒服是吧
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哪里健康
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哪里能创造价值
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哪里有你的家
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而且呢你的思想价值观哎得哪里一致
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哪来有你的家
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至于说啊
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每个人的传统观念
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但凡让你不舒服的啊
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让你不健康的
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反正你不持续的都应该远离
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所以兄弟们
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小河不满大和干和
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大和不满小河干这两个观点不一样
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造就几种不同的人生啊