多教育自己少恐吓孩子

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我父母最忌讳的是什么呢

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就是恐吓孩子

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实际上我们90%的中国人呢

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都是在恐吓的环境下长大的啊

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你比如说他给你二选一

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这就是恐吓啊

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给你一个很无奈的

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比如说砸锅卖铁

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砸锅卖铁也要供你上学

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这也是恐吓

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这也是压迫啊

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再比如说给你灌输各种思想压力和道德感啊

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什么三从四德之类的是吧

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回家之后哈

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就是啊各种各样的礼仪啊

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就是磕头啊

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但凡这种小孩不喜欢的

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其实都是一种压迫啊

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再比如说让小孩礼貌啊

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见了一个陌生人喊叔叔

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我觉得这个事呢都是恐吓和压迫你

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比如说你都不认识一个人

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你都能喊啊

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你说这是礼貌什么

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真正的礼貌是你要让他知道认识对吧

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你再去喊

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就像我似的

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但我经常讲

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我说没有必要让孩子做他不喜欢的事

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没有必要让孩子呢是吧

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做他不愿意干的活

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你没有必要对吧

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而且呢还有一条啊

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做父母一定要记得

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就千万不要打断孩子哈

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这是中国的父母最忌讳的啊

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你中国父母干啥嘞

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分分钟的在点就跟他妈炒股一样

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每分钟都在随着孩子的这种情绪的波动

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实际上这种父母呢

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他一种没非常没有安全感的表现啊

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你比如说什么的父母喜欢呢

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就北方的父母

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山东的父母啊

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特别是像我们济宁的那边的父母

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没事呢就打断孩子啊

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恐吓他啊

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要求他啊

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必须让孩子啊成为自己想认为的样子

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我见到很多的孩子都被父母搞废了对吧

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管的很多婚姻也搞配了

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然后家庭也搞废了

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然后呢一家里面弄得鸡犬不宁啊

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而且呢那些人呢倚老卖老啊

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每次都是啊自己多么不容易啊

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你们不孝敬啊

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不关心呐

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实际上我觉得我父母是最伟大的

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什么也不管

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什么也不问啊

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从小告诉我们说

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那我没有能力帮你们啊

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但是呢你们当保安我也很开心对吧

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你们做什么事好都很支持你

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看我来到美国

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我没有给家里打过电话啊

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但是呢我父母呢对吧

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然后看我直播

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有时候我看到我父母在看我直播

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然后我说我给你发个红包啊

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啊你上次发你没收

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赶快收一下啊

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实际上我呢就是很少

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我这个人也不善于交流啊

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给父母呢也从来没有说过那些啊

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那种那种非常亲密的话

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我父母呢也从来没有主动给我打过电话

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但是呢大家认可要只要你健康啊

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然后父母需要什么

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比如说我我是给我老婆说嘛

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我定期啊

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父母喜欢喝酒

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拿最好的酒给他们发对吧

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永远不要喝差的酒

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那第二个呢啊这个年龄呢想干啥干就行了对吧

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支持他们啊

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什么坏习惯啊

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什么好习惯无所谓对吧

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你活的开心就是最好的习惯啊

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还有一种呢就是啊你不要去有什么道德约束啊

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有这个那个我从来不说对吧

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你这个人这个人是没法改变的哈

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到30岁之后啊

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40岁之后不可能改变

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除非你想反

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就像我一样

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我的习惯也没有改变过

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我的性格也没有改变过哈

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我的脾气很急很暴

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只不过呢我这个脾气集合不好

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到现在还得养

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只不过我的精力呢没有用到管理上了

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比如我在国内啊

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脾气很急很暴

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那个时候你员工他可不吃你套呀

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那那他可能害怕你

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他他不说

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他心里面他可他可不服呀

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我来到美国之后呢

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我还是很急很暴

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但是呢我是精力用在给给兄弟们分析公司啊

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发酵翻倍果呀啊爬山呐啊

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带着狗啊

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甚至来讲拍视频呀

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我的目标感代替了集合报

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而且呢这种集合报呢带来的结果就是

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不断的翻下翻倍股啊

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比如说前两天德哥是户外暴涨

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对吧

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那我从70多80多一直在讲

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还有个兄弟说你全哥

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那你这120有没有推荐

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我说你看我所有的成交记录对吧

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我可以嘿嘿在评论区里发他

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你看我买了多少

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我是去年7月份在国内万象城啊

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你可以看看我之前的视频

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在万象城拍视频的时候

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德州州户外是103

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然后嘞我推荐的时候也是100左右啊

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中间到了120多

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我还推荐了一部分减仓

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然后从90块钱我又开始推荐

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对不对

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一直加到70多

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实际上我从来不会高点推荐啊

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我总是在下跌过程里面

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然后低估的时候大家不看好的时候

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然后化解翻倍股

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但真正大家都看好的时候

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我反而会降低风险

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这就是我在美国呢

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把我原来的那种坏的脾气急爆

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然后呢是吧这种这种给自己的压力

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强迫这种压力慢慢的转化成是吧

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变成了这个拍视频啊

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研究翻倍股啊

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研究公司

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然后呢给更多的兄弟们交流

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这个呢也是我的真正把缺点变成优点的原因啊

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所以中国的家长们一定不要轻易的说啊

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嗨你有这个缺点

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你要改

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我告诉你啊

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没有缺点

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只有用在什么地方

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对不对

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我的脾气很暴

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我用在目标上

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他觉得目标感很强对吧

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这个人他性格很慢

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懒洋洋的啊

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如果让他做一个长期的事

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他就很适合啊

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这个人呢他性格很外向啊

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你让他去交往

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去做管理啊

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他也很适合

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如果他很内向的做研究哈

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做这种啊

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1111做十个老师的

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他就很适合

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实际上每一个人的缺点用对位置都是优点

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但是每个人的优点用错位置呢都变成了缺点

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所以呢北方的父母一定要记住

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不要轻易的给孩子说啊

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你要改这个改那个哈

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不要动不动哎呀

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小孩玩会游戏玩呗

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对不对

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在我看来

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小孩喜欢玩游戏

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让他玩就行了

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他不玩去干嘛去啊对吧

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如果说你不能提供一个好的环境

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比如说小孩在屋里面待着

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他只有玩游戏

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他没法干别的

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你让他在外面

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比如说带小孩去公园

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他还玩什么游戏呀

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对不对

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他的经历不在这种局限的放空间里面对吧

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你这又是核心的

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你父母一定要想着怎么样塑造一个好的环境

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而不是在一个很差的环境里面让他改变

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那父母能改吗

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各位大家刷抖音的习惯能改吗

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对不对

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看这个小文章的视频能改吗

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对不对

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那那那那做投机玩股票炒来炒去的习惯能改吗

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那抽烟喝酒的习惯能改吗

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改不了

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你别说小孩

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你大人都改不了

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各位我是戒烟了的

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我戒烟还不是因为环境压

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如果23年我不来美国对吧

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我不待上一个月

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待在这看房是吧

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参观学校

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我那一个月美国他就没有地方抽烟

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如果没有那个环境

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我能戒烟吗

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我也不好戒烟啊

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你想想我在国内

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那每天要接待好几波客户供应商

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对不对啊

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那那你说做线下聚会的时候

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那喝大酒喝多了之后

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大家烟一点起来

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那肯定不如主动来一颗嘛

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是因为来到美国没有那种场合了

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没法没法抽烟

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所以就把烟给戒掉了

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那还不是优化环境啊

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你再比如说我来美国之后

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我这几个月涨了多少粉丝啊

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那小号大号加起来涨的就八九十万

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那为什么我在美国能涨粉呀

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那不就是因为新境吗

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研究的多嘛

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可能翻倍股多吗

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还价值多嘛

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在国内那个超大的环境下

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我靠那个心神不宁

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整天尔虞我诈对吧

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看书都看不进去

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你说怎么搞呀

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我如果22年开始不是爬山

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还在办公室待着

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我告诉你

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我公司现在也倒闭了

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你自己想嘛

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公司业绩下滑

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打员工的这感觉收入低没前途

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那优秀了叫离职对吧

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然后供应商呢又没啥能力是吧

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研发个东西啊

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几个月干不出来对吧

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成本居高不下

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那再说呢这个你你做电商你也知道

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那销售额全部透明

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你你你你的税只多不减是吧

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费用只多不少

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你就想一想

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在那种环境下

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你的心情

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像我这种暴躁的脾气怎么可能好呢

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对不对

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那那个时候我自己都不喜欢自己

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那两天的都是肿的

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那为什么20年之后一爬山人就变了呢

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我天天在山里待着

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我不见人

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各位天天在山里待着呀

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真的是一天十稿

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老实呆着

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我想喝酒

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我在山里喝对吧

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我想爬啤酒

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我在山里面对吧

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爬山爬悬崖对吧

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你说这个人你脾气再大

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你到了悬崖边上

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那那那那你的精力都用在怎么样

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别摔史上

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你还会想那些乱七八糟的事吗

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不会了

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主要是因为环境改变了

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这个人呢慢慢的都变了

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所以说你要是真的想改变孩子呢

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你就想办法给他搞一个特别喜欢的

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让他兴奋的啊

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能够集中精力的环境就行了

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而且不是盯着他

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你看那些子天天不看自己

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就是如果你自己都无法做成一件事

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你也你也认得吗

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你说你自己

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你是个垃圾

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你得接受孩子不上进对吧

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你自己从来没有做成功过

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你得接受孩子不成功是吧

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你自己从来没有这个真正意义上

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用实践如意去打磨一个打磨一个点

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你得接受孩子不集中精力对吧

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如果你自己没有任何的特长爱好

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你得接触孩子

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没有特长啊

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如果你自己没有啊

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什么艺术细胞啊

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没有这个哈这种顶尖的思维

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你得接受孩子的平庸网

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当然了

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你如果你没有钱

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你也得接受孩子和你一样穷

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就像很多这个视频里看到的哈

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那父母呢很辛苦啊

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就是卖油条当农民工哈

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送外卖

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然后让孩子考上大学了

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结果呢这个下次卖油条的时候变成了父父

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父父母早班

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孩子夜班了

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所以说这个原因是什么呢

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就是你得接受平庸

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知道吧

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这平庸是正常的

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90%的人一辈子只能做平庸的事对吧

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只能干这些重复的活

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这种也正常的

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那如果你父母不一般

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那你可以让孩子提高要求

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对不对

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所以这个事的核心在于说你不能哈你不行

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然后让孩子一定行

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更不能把你的希望寄托到孩子身上

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那给孩子无形压力太大了

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所以这个呢也是哈哈给大家分享个人的心得啊

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实际上你每个人呢你集中精力站立于自己

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让自己变牛逼一点啊

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然后反过来你把你牛逼的思路

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牛逼的经验啊给别人分享

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让别人呢能够学到的

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哎那就学到了

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学不到的你也得接受啊

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就像我干的这活一样

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那我过去十几年啊

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我试图培养人

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我不也失败了吗

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啊我试图这个对吧

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培养员工不也失败了吗

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但是呢我试图培养我们的粉丝兄弟

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会员经济呢反而成功了

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为什么

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因为他是那块料

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所以各位一定要选对环境

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选对人

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选对正确方法

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然后再提要求

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