人到中年回归本我

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今年是在美国过的第一个年啊

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实际上我来美国之后呢

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我最喜欢的事是什么呢

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就是爬山啊

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一个人有时候带个狗啊

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到处溜达

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那过年呢实际上他没什么感觉

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因为那美国他这个圣诞节是年

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这个春节呢就别人不过啊

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特别是白人区大家都不过

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所以呢就是喊了一些会员兄弟来我家

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大家一起热闹热闹过一下啊

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其实感觉也不错

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这年的回忆呢就小时候一年呢吃一次肉啊

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穿一次新衣服啊

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家人聚一块儿

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后来呢真的长大了

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发现实际上对年的理解啊越来越淡了

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为什么小时候喜欢过呢

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因为那物质贫乏嘛

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是确确实实能穿那些衣服的物质满足感嘛

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后来我记得上大学的时候啊

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有几年我也没回去嘛

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大一大二寒假打工吧

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大家知道那个时候流行吃年夜饭啊

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那时候0304年

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那那有钱人家都是出去吃年夜饭啊

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然后呢我们就是酒店打工啊

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过年期间呢一个月600块钱

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哎那个时候是什么感觉呢

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就是你看有钱人啊

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一一晚上菜花个四五百

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那酒呢喝个好几千

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那时候030事件

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我记得那酒鬼啊比这个茅台贵啊

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我记得那时候我在济南的一个喜来登大酒店啊

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跟我同学一块打工

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就那个酒鬼当时卖多少钱呢

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啊我好几百

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我就那时候得两三百三四百吧

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但是茅台那个时候好像也不到两三百

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反正我记得那时候大家都是喝酒鬼

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因为那个地方很多部队的人啊来吃饭嘛

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啊那一桌饭呢可能就四五百块钱就就很丰盛了

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但是呢酒钱花多少钱呢

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我估计他们十来个人能喝好多瓶

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那时候我们做传菜嘛

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然后还经常偷吃人家的菜啊

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然后呢那时候不懂酒嘛

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然后给我这个同学晚上回去啊

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他们那些白酒啊

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剩下的我们拿回路上尝了尝

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哇

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好辣呀

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真的喝不下去

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那后来呢还给家里面啊

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把那些剩的酒给家里面带回去啊

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家里说真好喝

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父母嘛那时候没喝过好酒嘛

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那时候父母都喝一块五两块的兰陵大曲啊

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这是小时候的印象

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你知道吧

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就是穷

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后边呢其实真的创业之后呢

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实际上对年的感觉也不好

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也也就无所谓了吧

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因为大家心嘛创业之后呢

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过年时候最忙的时候啊

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每年哈只要是啊那时候就是年货节嘛啊

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销售额最大啊

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很忙一忙忙到最后一天

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然后回家回家之后呢

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带上就待一两天吧

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就初一基本初二就走了

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待一两天

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然后喝几瓶大酒

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那时候感觉是什么呢

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就是哎呀大家一年聚一聚

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就刚开始的时候还挺好啊

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聚一聚没人探讨探讨啊

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过去啊

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这一年的辛苦

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后面呢其实大家就发现有孩子长大了呃

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然后呢孩子对这种家的概念不深

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然后就想着那小孩他既然无所谓

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那我们对吧

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也不能强求他嘛

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是他们就是啊

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基本上小孩回家人人手一部手机

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那小孩这样他们不熟

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就他们因为没有共同的成长经历啊

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也没有这种像我们小时候大家一块啊

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工种下地啊

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干活啊

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啊逮鱼摸虾呀

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这小孩见他是没有什么感情的

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后来发现也无所谓啊

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过年就大家见上一面啊

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吃顿饭拜拜了

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实际上我后来发现啊

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就是过年这个事呢

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其实随着这个年龄增加

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淡确实淡了

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但有的时候呢你说啊一年不见

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大家确确实实在一块呢

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也感觉那么温情

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有时候喝多了酒呢

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想起小时候来

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就那一刹那呢才能让人热热泪盈眶

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就想起小时候那种感受

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对你如果说你要喝酒啊

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纯粹是谈商业

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谈未来

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谈理性的东西

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其实也没有

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那种特别感觉

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但是他这个人呢慢慢的就愿意不愿意去喝酒

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谈那个过去的这种感受了

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为什么呢

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因为弹起来之后伤心的事最多

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所以这是我现在一个状态

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就是来给大家陌生人喝酒啊

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给会员兄弟喝酒啊

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让大家随便聊聊

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未来也不太愿意怀旧

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你看最近好多兄弟啊

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原来这些老同事啊

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然后老兄弟啊发短信啊

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留言啊

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或者什么时候回来啊

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我说我可能回去很少

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实际上主要原因是什么呢

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就是大家聊天

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很多时候呢一喝酒呢

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聊起来往事呢就感觉就很莫名其妙

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你知道吗

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就很容易喝多

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喝多了之后很难受

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然后第二天又后悔啊

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怎么喝那么多呢

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所以现在的话尽可能的就就健康一点啊

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其实我现在最大的爱好就是一个人啊

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有时候也喝点酒啊

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就一个人喝一点

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然后我感觉微醺哈

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喝完酒之后呢

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再泡个澡哈

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再思考一下

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就这种感觉特别特别舒服

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特别是思考的乐趣啊

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我现在真的体会到了哈

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我也觉得为什么

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这个你不要认为一个人很孤独啊

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真的不是真的是这样的

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就是你你的思考那种快乐的那种快感啊

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带来这种思想的这种快乐

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他远远比这种喝酒还要持续

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比如说你你一边思考一个逻辑

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哈哈一个点啊

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一个决策

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然后你忽然想明白了啊

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那种感觉真的太开心了

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因为想明白之后做起来很容易

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然后实施起来很简单嘛

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实际上还有一条呢就是思考呢会让人淡化欲望

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就我不知道大家有没有理解这个逻辑啊

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就是比如说你长时间的琢磨一件事

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然后琢磨到这里非常非常深

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然后琢磨到非常透彻之后呢

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你会发现其他的事一点都不重要了是吧

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你对这个外在的东西完全不在意是吧

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就像金钱呐

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名义啊啊名声啊

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虚荣啊啊面子呀

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把孩子呀啊父母啊

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所有的光环其实对你来讲都无所谓

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但是为什么我觉得一个人呢

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这个有有两个两面性吧

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啊比如说你要不成为哲学家啊

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你要不成为创业者

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你要不成为投资人

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但最后呢每一个企业家或者投资人呢

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你最后都会成为哲学家

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因为你因为你但凡想把这个投资也好

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企业也好

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人性也好做好

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你都要去思考

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你思考多了之后

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你发现哲学呢是解决所有问题的根源

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就是因为他这个事

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本质上他没有什么特别的意义是吧

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要一个人一样啊

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你你出生了啊

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你经历了很多辛苦啊

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你又成功了啊

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你又很有钱了

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你发现其实还是那样

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就当你做到最后

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你会发现其实没有什么值得这个啊

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特别特别的重要的东西啊

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你说你创业的目的是什么

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想成为有钱人

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能够得到自己想要的东西啊

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豪宅豪宅啊

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然后呢所有的啊好像是荣耀啊光环

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但你得到东西之后干嘛呢

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要逃离

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你一旦得到了

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就是你要逃离

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为什么呢

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因为那个东西都是太虚假了

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因为你想有钱

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你想成功不就是为了真实嘛

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你就希望你得到一个真实的世界啊

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真实的感受啊

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真实的尊重啊

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真实的尊重

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但是呢当你有钱之后

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你身边的人虚假居多

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这就是为什么权利是个毒药呢

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所有的你看一旦这个人掌握了权力

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还掌握了至高无上的这种啊

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所谓的这个命令之后呢

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他都变得变成恶龙了

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他变成恶龙之后呢

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他身边人开始说假话

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然后当他身边人说假话的时候

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他开始怀疑他开始杀戮啊

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就像这个啊这个赵匡胤被有释兵权啊

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到时候赵匡胤又被他啊弟给给杀了

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然后你再看这个历史上这些啊

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这个谋谋财害命啊

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篡位的最后呢都被他的别人给杀了

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就是你做的所有的这种坏的东西

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都会成为一个轮回

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这也是为什么我说西门庆啊

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包括这小说里面的这些人物呢

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他都比这种真实的人生过得还要精彩

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但是呢都被反噬了

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所以我最后发现我当你非常成功了之后

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你才追求真实的时候

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干嘛你不用从开始就非常真实呢

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就我现在的感觉啊

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我每次爬山啊

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然后徒步啊

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然后思考的时候

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我发现你这个人其实来讲他就是一个循环

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他非常有意思啊

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就是没有什么可在意的

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就要所有的外在的东西

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没有一个个没有任何一个值得说啊

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你留恋呀啊你深入呀

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真的其实我也是思考过

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就是我们国内的这些

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包括在美国见到这些人啊

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就是无论是成功的啊

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失败的

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他都是追求一个虚无缥缈的东西

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那没有一个人量化说你到底想要什么对吧

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反正我在美国我想了很多

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就是就开心

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嘿

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就是就是我在什么地方能找到那种快乐的感觉

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实际上这个东西呢就是你从动物身上

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动物身上特别容易长啊

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就是因为动物它特别容易满足

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但人呢其实也可以非常容易满足是吧

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就是说你在这个事上感觉到

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至高无上的快乐的时候

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像我一样啊

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就是我就是喜欢去不同的地方散步徒步啊

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比如说每天去一个新地方啊

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今天爬这个山

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明天去那个海边啊

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今天走这个路啊

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明天去另外一个地方

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就是你从一个不同的地方

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你去观察的时候

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你发现一草一木

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他甚至空气的味道都不一样

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这真的啊

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这这种感觉才是我认为最奇妙的啊

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啊当然你也看别人写的书

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哎你也可以喝不同的酒

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你也可以观察不同的人

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实际上中国教育的最大的问题在于说

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他真的是试图让所有人成为一样的人

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这个才是这些人压抑的根本原因

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不是中国跑中国真的很厉害啊

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如果你来到美国

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就发现中国最厉害的是什么呢

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就是能够做出来全球最好最便宜的东西

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真的东西很好

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物价真的很便宜啊

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标准化真的很厉害

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城市真的很漂亮

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但是呢他就因为一样

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导致这人呢内心里面有那种很难受

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就是不知道该怎么样表达那种难受

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他觉得人应该不一样

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但你不一样

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好像又不对

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因为你不一样

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你和这个时代好像潮流就格格不入嘛

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这是我这种人呢

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就是能够在中国那种统一化里面能活下来

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不容易的

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原因在于我父母其实很开明

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他对我没有任何的要求

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所以导致我们在这个小

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从小到大的成长过程里面啊

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初中高中大学没有被格式化

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没有被标准化

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所以我们反而每个人都成为自己了

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所以呢

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这也是为什么我在别的地方

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设计能力很强的原因啊

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所以每次在我给大家讲的时候

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就是我特别开心啊

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