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最近收到了很多同龄人咨询啊
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就是自己呢精疲力尽啊
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想移民
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或者说呢想换个环境呃
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我给大家讲一下
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就是当你处于这种非常的迷茫或者非常困惑啊
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非常的疲惫的状态的时候
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你该怎样思考
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怎么样决策来避免犯重大的错误
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因为我自己过去所有的错误都是因为焦虑
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然后郁闷压抑痛苦
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在这种情形下做的决策
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十有八九是不合适的
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他不一定是错
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他叫不合适
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你知道吗
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因为往往这个人他在这种非常不好的心情下呢
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他很多时候这个人是偏激的
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是没有什么太多的这种平心静气啊
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或者说没有太多的这种深思熟虑的
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那这个时候你做的任何决策呢
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他会有一个什么问题呢
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就是可能可能不科学
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可能啊会产生一种不好的后果啊
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这个后果呢就是你过了很长时间才发现
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你做错了对
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举个例子啊
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比如说我当时做工厂这个事
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我做过海南
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就我做到2018年的时候
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因为那时候规模很大嘛
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然后呢就是也是纳税大户
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然后天桥的产业园就给我了一个很大的厂房
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6000平
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然后呢确实很大
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当时我正好也做外贸嘛
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然后我想着啊有个很好很好的工厂
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然后来采访的客户觉得我们很有实力
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所以我们就啊就又开始搞
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跌下来之后呢
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后面发现呢你的订单不支撑这么大的工厂
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因为你养了100多个人
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然后呢怎么办呢
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就开始啊招了一队业务员
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开始参加展会啊
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开始接单
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正好赶上那个201617年没改电啊
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很多大单几千万的
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刚接几千万单手
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刚开始还挺兴奋的啊
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说这样的话
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这工厂终于可以饱和了
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但后来慢慢发现这个东西呢
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你稍有不慎就会套进去
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就是垫资
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就因为我们在过程里面找的客户呢
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很多都是啊靠关系啊
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就搞关系的那些客户嘛
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他们基本上价值观都不正啊
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你大你想嘛
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天天说RU我诈
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结果呢就摊上了么一茬
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然后几千万的货
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那就下去了
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就没要回来
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所以我说这个事的意思是什么
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就是你知道在做这个工程过程里面呢
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你是控制不了的
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所以那个事发生之后啊
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我就很快慢慢的把工厂收缩了
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又从原来6000平收到了1000多平啊
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只做零售哈
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就做海外
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还有这个我的健康
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所以那个过程呢几千万下去其实不是单纯钱
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是整个人的状态很差啊
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因为你在啊处理这些各种各样的
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杂七杂八的事的时候就消耗
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绝对是我在201718到22年那几年
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消化的非常严重
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其实这个也是我后面坚决的移民的根本原因呢
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就是我实在不想再被消耗了
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对实在不想再再跟那些人在一块待下去了
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但是呢我做错了一件事是什么呢
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就是我并没有说
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因为哈消耗呢我就做错了事
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我就开始砍
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所以你这时候你要怎么做呢
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当你处于困境的时候
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你先砍啊
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把那些更多的杂事琐事啊砍掉它
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然后把时间留给自己啊
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开始思考
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也就是说我真正的正确的都到20年之后做的
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20年之后做减法
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就是你不要相信任何的啊
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共情的时候也不要相信任何人
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可怜的话
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更不要相信任何人哈
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给你承诺的话
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你指向一个事情就是思考是吧
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就这个事我不知道怎么做哈
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我就先不做
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我就思考
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我停下来是吧
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一个人就爬山
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像我知道啊
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每天爬山到现在也是啊
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我我投资决策我想不明白
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我就开始爬山徒步啊
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但今天已经徒步了三个小时啊
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一直在外面走啊
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走的过程里面啊
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一边走一边想啊
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一边梳理好
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这时候呢如果说任何的乱七八糟的事呢
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我也是直接砍掉
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对我先不做啊
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我宁可错过机会啊
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也不算做错啊
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我宁可咱就就这样哈
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我宁可就拖着是吧
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我也不去行动
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所以这也是20年之后
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我做所有生意啊
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无一亏损啊
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都是非常盈利的
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那还有一个呢就是认识的人呢也无一
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好像之前似的啊
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把自己钓进去
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因为你也知道哈
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就是当你想做大的时候
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那很多人就过来了
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他知道你这种想法是吧啊
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他正好呢符合你这种想法
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不是符合你这个事的做法
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然后嘞你就认为你找到了救命稻草
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然后你招了很多人
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然后呢啊高薪啊
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听他的折腾
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你会损失越来越多的钱
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实际上我到今天想来我这个团队啊
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跟了我很多年的团队
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真的没有做错什么啊
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最多是慢一点
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但是呢我从外面找来的人
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无一例外全做错了
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原因厂他对你公司不了解
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所以实际上这些错误全是老板一个人犯的啊
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这也是我反思了很多年之后
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唉
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我想明白一件事
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就是就你不管说你今天的团队的人他再怎么样
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但他是最合适的啊
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他不一定最好的
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他也不一定对优秀的人绝对是最合适的
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它适合你
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但是你不要说我我我我我为了破局
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我找一个能破局的人过来
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那你纯粹纯粹是自找苦吃
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各位一定会失败的
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几乎没有成功的可能性啊
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这个除非说他有绝对的资源
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以及绝对的扭转哈局面的能力
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但那种他不会来找你了
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那这个呢是我自己的亲身体会啊
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那还有一点就是就移民的时候呢
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你要想好吧
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像今天我跟一个兄弟聊
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我说移民难
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你不要盲目做决策是吧
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你要做的事有几个啊
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第一个呢就是你先考察是吧
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你先考察怎么考察呢
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就是像我一样
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我是在二
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今年我想想啊
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2423对对对
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23年二三年
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当时就是决定在哪里安家这个问题哈
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比如说当时有几个选择啊
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一个是尔湾
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一个是拉古纳哈
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一个是妞泡啊
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一个是这个啊
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这个这当时还有个地方叫什么来着
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我想想啊
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就是帕拉金纳对帕拉金纳啊
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马里布哈
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包括这个很多地方都考察过
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但是为什么这位兄弟带妞泡他的
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我今天给他兄弟分享
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我说是因为人文是因为朝气
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是因为活力
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实际大家一想嘛哈就是我们不属于老钱啊
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我们属于这种
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也不属于新贵啊
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我们可以可以算是草根
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他这个草根出身的人呢
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实际上都是靠精打细算
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一点点摸爬滚打哈积累的一些身价
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然后呢并不想躺平
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实际上也不是说因为财富单单纯的问题啊
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就是就单纯的不想躺平哈
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也不如想赚更多的钱
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就是就觉得躺平这个事呢浪费时间是吧
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那第二个呢就是哼你也是要有朝气嘛
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因为你希望孩子啊不要躺平嘛
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所以你就希望去一个朝气蓬勃的地方
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然后嘞什么地方遭遇空岛呢
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用油泡的
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我对比拉蒙纳
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对比尔湾对比了很多地方
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因为马里布也好
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包括这个帕金纳也好呢
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老钱多老乡很多老社区啊
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你不要帕蒂娜
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就是芒格哈
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芒格他就家在那边
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那你可以想象一下
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芒格他们属于去世好几年了啊
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都百岁了
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所以你跟他们在一块
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第一个融不融入不进去啊
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第二个就是他们过去的生意模式
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你也没法借鉴
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但是为什么我说这个南京化海这边就很好啊
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就我今年做投资啊
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我就特别感受了一点啊
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我们小区里面有AMD的哈
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半导体的
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台湾的
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就大家能聊得来哈
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能聊来同龄人嘛哈都是啊八零后
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然后有探讨
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有共同话语哈
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有对投资行业
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然后各种分析不同角度很坦诚
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还有共同的经历和思考方式
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就是这个时候呢
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你只要把角度啊给你多多来一点啊信息
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你就知道该怎么做了对吧
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这就是我给大家讲的是
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你要找到一个匹配的哈
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能够让你呢能够上个台阶的啊
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能让你呢就是避免犯错的
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然后还有让你变得更专业的一个圈子
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而不是说单纯的说你是你就你就想当然哈
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或者说就就那样那样
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所以这个人是一个核心问题
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所以说那个兄弟呢我就跟他讲
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我说你你对比完哈
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你你可以去市里考察是吧
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我也可以把我身边的啊群里的兄弟吧
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都推荐给他
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因为我群里面好多资深的这个法律顾问
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还有移民公司嘛啊我我说你可以对比啊
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然后对比完之后呢
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你你大概有一个很清晰的框架
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实际上我看人呢是这样的啊
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首先讲诚信
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我我不去讲说这个他这个人的其他的怎么样
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首先讲诚信
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诚信呢他是一个商业基础
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就你不能骗人啊
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你可以说你没有能力啊
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你可以说你不够专业啊
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你可以说你啊你没有这个哈白白的程度
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但是你你不能骗人对
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如果你这个人骗人了
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那不好意思
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那你没有下意识了
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所以说对于美国的这个这个这个法律的底线
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就是诚实哈
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诚实正直
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那如果说不诚实不正直呢
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那你就很难寸步难行嘛
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因为你的信誉会染上的污点吧
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所以这个也是我看人也是这样的啊
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就如果他不承认不正直啊
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立马拜拜啊
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我不给他再多的这个第二次机会啊
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还有呢
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就是我也不会去给他产生任何的深度的交往
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对吧
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我更不会说给一个哈
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脑袋里面完全是没有这个概念的人
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就产生任何的交集是吧
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因为我们这个年龄呢少一点没问题
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但是千万不能多是吧
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少少了能有什么样
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对不对
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那我们这个哈该抓的机会也抓了啊
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你说再抓一个更好的机会
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可遇不可求对吧
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也不要有那种想法对吧
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那有就有了
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没有就没有了哈
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然后呢随缘安对吧
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这个也是我给大家讲的
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你的心态对吧
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就是你不要去过多的去渴求我所求的东西是吧
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你要相信这东西是你的话
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他自然而知你的不是你的话
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你强求也没有用啊
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但我自己很想投资
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我坦能告诉大家
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就是这个钱呢
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投资的钱呢更是这样的
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就是你懂
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所以前面就是你的好
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你不懂
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所以钱赚不到
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没有任何可惜
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就让你错过傻子的几十倍
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那东西本来就不属于你是吧
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你就不是个行业的
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你没有在行业下过功夫
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你凭什么也能赚到这个钱呢
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对不对
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闪迪的话
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我研究了很长时间
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我也只抓住了镁光和修复数据哈
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海力士
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其实当时那个2X海力士
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当时21的时候
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我也分享
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那问题我也没有抓
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为什么呢
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因为当时没有钱钱哈
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我当时确实想买的对
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我当时还想着要不要啊
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检测点其他的去换
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然后我想了想算了啊
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没必要是吧
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完全是没必要
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所以呢这个我是觉得个人的心态啊
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健康是吧
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然后呢这个诚实呢
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他是一个非常重要的一个品质
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而且他如果说你身边的人啊
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他是不诚实的话
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你毫不犹豫去抛弃掉它
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真的啊就到了40岁之后
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我们哈老老实实啊
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就按不按部就班啊
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然后一个人啊不会出现大的栽哈翻跟头
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但是如果说你识错人啊
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你不会识别人对吧
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你你不会不会排除人啊
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你不会啊去减少做减法
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那有可能啊
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任何一个啊这个不小心把你这个参功尽弃啊
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特别是在美国的国家也是一样的
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就是这个世界上差分为很多人
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你知道吗
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就是人也会变啊
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有的人变得越来越好啊
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比如像我啊
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反正我自己的道德底线只会越来越高
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没有必要去赚那个啊
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那些啊完全是不属于自己的财富吧
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但是呢有的人不一样啊
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有的人底线越来越差哈
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你就像贾跃亭啊
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他这个越来越没有底线
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但是呢他总能吸引一帮认识他的人
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所以说认同骗子的人
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你也要远离他哈
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认同这些没有诚信的人
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你要远离他哈
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认同这些啊
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道德底线越来越低的人
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你也远离他
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所以你把这些排除法全部烂熟于心
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原则原则的问题呢全部卡到脑海里啊
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这样的话你就很难去犯错了