摆脱农耕思维

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今天收到一个丹佛的山东老乡的留言啊

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说他姐姐在那边上学

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然后后面呢家里人想让他回国

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结果呢一直找不到工作

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然后可能有点小矛盾嘛

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把全家人拉黑了

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然后问我怎么样找到联系方式

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我就把丹佛那边的信息啊

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他姐姐单位的信息找到以后发给他了

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我不知道这位好这位朋友老乡有没有联系上啊

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希望早点联系上啊

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前两天还有一个兄弟呢

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就是啊父亲得了癌症吧

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也是啊

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我赶快找了一些联系方式给他

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你这些信息呢在网上都能查得到啊

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你可能在那边

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因为啊因为那些啊防火墙的原因啊

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啊你到时候有需要啊

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我去帮你找联系方式的

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这个都很简单对

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但是美国很大啊

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就是因为我在加州嘛

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在洛杉矶呃

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如果说跨一个市州啊

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这个是很难找到本人的

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等于必须要通过联系方式

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还有他身边的同学

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所以你家里有孩子啊

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在美国的话呢

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首先尽量的不要强迫他说真的啊

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就是比如他在美国能够留学

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首先家里面肯定很支持嘛

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一年一年10万8万的美金的学费

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加上生活费

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可能一年将近100万啊

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你上完本科研究生

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这56年下来可能最少要五六百万人民币啊

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实际上你说你花了五六百万人民币啊

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让孩子学完对吧

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你让他回去找一个5000块钱的工作

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我觉得是个人都接受不了啊

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这落差太大啊

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他也不是说这孩子不努力

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是因为他也会考虑回报嘛

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比如父母花那么多钱是吧

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他还想

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那我要是啊给父母这个回报的话

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那我我首先得挣回来对吧

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那一年赚个50万啊

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10年哈努瓦力啊

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剩个200万给父母

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那那他开心

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那如果说他一算哇

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回去之后找个5000块钱工作

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可能还要送外卖

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那我告诉你

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那小孩肯定不愿意回去的

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所以这个时候你就不能逼他啊

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你比如说你这时候你再给他讲啊是吧

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要求他呀啊甚至来讲你再给他一点压力啊

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说你我花了五六百万啊

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在你身上啊

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我我这个省省俭用供你上学啊

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我现在怎么怎么样

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我现在困难怎么怎么怎么多少啊

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啊你再加点严重的说啊

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还有负债之类的

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那孩子更受不了了

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更更不好意思回去了

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所以这个这个家长呢就是啊你姐姐拉黑你啊

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其实来讲肯定是压力的问题

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他不一定说是啊

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因为这个讨厌家里的说教啊

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那说教呢这是我们山东人特点啊

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啊包括这个有时候我跟我女儿也是啊

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就是有的时候啊

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我我也会给她提意见建议之类的

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她也不接受啊

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不接受我也能理解她

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是因为所以说很多时候啊

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你你你你希望孩子的好和他自己理解的好的话

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他不一定他也不是说他错了啊

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就是小孩呢他有自己的想法

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但他这个想法肯定是啊

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没有没有经过社会的毒打嘛

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这很好理解

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对不对

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那谁希望啊

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我们谁希望会经常挨毒打

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挨铁拳

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对不对

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像我似的是吧

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你铁拳挨多了

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然后伤害受多了

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你这个人那就对吧

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就就就有阴影嘛对吧

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所以说实际上呢

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这个人最好的方式是一直活在快乐的环境下啊

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就就就像狗一样

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你看我家这个狗它没有受过这个欺负啊

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伤害啊

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它就它就它就很乐观

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你知道吗

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就是你像我们老家的那些狗啊

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它就那老家的狗

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我跟你讲

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它是它最恐惧的

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你知道吗

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你可以在老家

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你发现很多狗它咬人

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我跟你讲啊

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但凡咬人的狗呢

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它实际上都受过伤害

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你自己想想是不是它防御啊

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他防御是太强了

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对不对

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就像我在美国啊

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我遛狗啊

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什么时候啊

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那些人见了我都是哈哈哈哈

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对不对

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他为啥他这些人都没受过伤害

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狗也没受过伤害

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所以在美国的狗很少有叫的对吧

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很少有咬人的啊

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很少有主动攻击的一些啊

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路上的行人啊

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车辆之类的

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对呀

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很友好

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因为他从小他就生活在这个友好的环境下

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他没有必要去做一些这个出格的事

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但是人也是一样的

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知道吗

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比如说你你从小到大

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你这个啊都很阳光健康啊

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天天这个如沐春风

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那人肯定脸上写的就是无忧无虑嘛

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那如果说你经常受打压打击哈

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经常被这个欺负

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你自己脸上写着肯定是哈担惊受怕

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对不对

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安全感不足

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就像我们做企业一样对吧

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我经常讲你比如说那我创业几年财务自由

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那为什么后面还是大家还这么努力啊

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还这么去啊

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去去去想着赚更多啊

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或者说没有安全感哈

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不就是因为穷怕了吗

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啊不就是因为是这个反复的这个受折磨吗

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哈不就是因为说总是他总是这个啊得而复失嘛

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哈哈所以你这种情况多了

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我告诉你四个人他都会他都会有这种心理啊

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害怕失去

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所以实际上就是你但凡是想好了哈

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就是教育孩子的时候

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你就一根筋到底对吧

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然后你不要想着说啊

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我我付出有回报啊

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特别是我给大家讲

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就是如果说你送孩子来出国

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各位你一定要做好心理准备啊

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他这个时代教育产出肯定是成不了正比了

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对特别是来美国留学的

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所以你一定要想好

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你一年花10万美金送来上学

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你就千万不要想着说哇

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你指望他5年十年把你这个哈

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把你这个投入产出给回来哈

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我告诉你不可能的

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知道吗

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真的美国本地的人他也做不到

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美国本地人

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你自己想嘛

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就是你就在加州啊

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就像我们这个我身边那些人

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你知道吗

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因为他们也是给孩子搞那个贷款

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你要奥巴马是都当上总统了

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这个好像是当上总统了

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才把贷足球贷款还完

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你知道吗

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就这是很正常的

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美国他对这种事他想的很明白

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对他不会说强迫说哇

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你这个孩子一定要考一个什么大学哈

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然后呢一定要怎么怎么样

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不会的

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因为他知道这个教育它和这个赚钱它是两码事

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那不是说你考上哈佛

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你就年入百万是吧

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就前两天我去斯坦福

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然后跟我小孩聊天

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我去查一下数据嘛

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就是考上特战福以后啊

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然后能成为医院富豪的也只有4%啊

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万分之四

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万分之什么1万里面还有四个啊

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那那那斯坦福有25万毕业生

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你就算这个比例嘛

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对不对

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也就几百个吧

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亿万富豪

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但是就因为这几百个亿万富豪给斯坦福捐了

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差不多四百四百五十亿美金

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就斯坦福现在有五四百五十亿美金

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市校友捐款啊

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像谷歌呀哈啊

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像英伟达里面

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很多这种创始人都是都是斯坦福的

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所以你就知道了

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就是这个就是在斯坦福

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这种顶尖的全球名校里面

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只有万分之四成为U万富豪

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那你要是转换成我们普通人万分之一都不到

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所以在中国的话估计万分之一都不到啊

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咱咱咱是说靠这个实力啊

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靠这个啊

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靠这个白手起家啊

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咱不是靠那些歪门邪道啊

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那这个事呢我就给大家讲的意思

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就是你对孩子的期望值不要太高是吧

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很多人还说权哥

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你看你看你这个对儿子女儿怎么样

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我跟你讲哈

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我是非常尊重他们的想法

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非常正统的想法

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因为他的很多的观点啊

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是他这个时代必然险程的啊

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所以说我也不强迫他们

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但是呢如果他有抑郁

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我会主动教他们

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他没有意愿的话

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我就啊我也不会强迫他回说啊

237
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就是你的意愿对吧

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你自己成长对吧

239
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如果说你受到挫折啊

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你可以来啊

241
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再来这个求救嘛

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这个也没问题对吧

243
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因为这个人和人的成长经历不一样

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你让他按照您的思考方式

245
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这是不对的啊

246
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特别是北方兄弟

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我跟你讲哈

248
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北方的父母跟你讲是最没见识的啊

249
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这个东西很多人说强哥

250
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你怎么老是讲北方不好

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不是是真的没有见识

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你就是个农民

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你知道吗

254
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我跟你讲北方人啊

255
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山东人演啥都不像

256
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演农民绝对像对吧

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你明天你看我这戴个帽子

258
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然后下地啊

259
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然后绝对一看就是农民

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他为啥

261
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因为你骨子里面是个农民意识

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农民思维

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脸上写着农民思维

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知道吗

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因为你就没有工业文明这一说

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你想想吧

267
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你山东人你有几个主动去广东的

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第二个有几个主动做品牌的

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第三个有几个主动投美股的

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第四第四个有几个主动去海外啊

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全球扩张的没有

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都是要不是被动的

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要不就是走投无路哈

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要不就是啊就是这个受别人影响

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没有一个主动的

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所以你你的思维里面他就是种地的啊

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农民思维对吧

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就是一老婆还是让炕头

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一亩三分地就骨子里面缺少那种闯荡的精神

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所以你这个时候你的观点给一个啊

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来过美国

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或者说见过全球哈

283
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在美国生活过的这个年轻人讲你的观点的时候

284
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他骨子里面是反对的

285
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就像我去谷歌的时候

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谷歌的那个老乡啊

287
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这帮老乡说

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他说但凡我给父母打电话

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情商沟通我就亏钱

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但凡是我这个独立决策不理他们

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我就赚钱

292
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他说了一个很简单的案例

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他在2019年全称英伟达

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如果他不卖

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拿到现在300倍

296
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但是因为他父母老是说美国要完蛋了哈

297
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美国要不行了

298
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然后他只能卖掉哈

299
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他当时他他父母还还希望他这个回回海南哈

300
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自贸区去创业去

301
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各位他他真去这个还真去这个华为

302
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还有这个腾讯面试了

303
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他说幸亏我没回去

304
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我要回去的话

305
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别说财务自由了

306
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那我现在早就破产了哈

307
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这是真实的啊

308
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这个兄弟可以作证

309
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是不是这个原话啊

310
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那这个兄弟这个他的经历说明什么呢

311
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说明北方的父母实际上懂有钱就是野的很少

312
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对

313
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真的有这种全球眼光的很少

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北方的父母呢普遍自私

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知道吗

316
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就是就老是有这种短浅的意识

317
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你就你就看吧

318
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全球全中国这个彩礼最多的地方哪里

319
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就是山东菏泽

320
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他但凡是能合得出来的人

321
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他都是一个短浅的意识

322
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你想想是不是彩礼

323
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什么彩礼不就是卖卖孩子吗

324
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不就是卖卖女儿嘛

325
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对不对

326
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所以它是最功利的一个地方啊

327
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一个菏泽

328
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一个济宁公立

329
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但那功利的人呢

330
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他嘴上不能说功利啊

331
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他是满嘴仁义道德啊

332
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就说哎呀我为你好啊是吧

333
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我这个怎么怎么样

334
00:09:19,889 --> 00:09:21,809
实际上这个时候我老婆探讨过很多次

335
00:09:21,809 --> 00:09:23,929
我说你要改变一个观点是什么呢

336
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就是你不要谈对别人好

337
00:09:25,750 --> 00:09:27,509
你能不能再对自己好一点哈

338
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比如说怎么对自己好呢

339
00:09:28,870 --> 00:09:32,700
能不能办个美国签证到美国自己去啊

340
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自己体验一下啊

341
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先对孩子提要求对吧

342
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比如说孩子反对你的时候啊

343
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你自己先去站到孩子的地上去看一看啊

344
00:09:40,379 --> 00:09:42,099
看看他说的有没有道理啊

345
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你能对自己好一点

346
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让自己体验完之后

347
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再一个还是探讨

348
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这个时候我觉得基本上问题也解决了

349
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因为99%都是你的错

350
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知道吗

351
00:09:49,458 --> 00:09:52,820
所以这个呢就是也是给北方兄弟反复讲啊

352
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因为我是经历了太多这种事情了啊

353
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就是我到现在我就很少呵

354
00:09:58,240 --> 00:10:01,349
给给这些呵呵农民思维的人聊天啊

355
00:10:01,349 --> 00:10:02,349
因为你跟他聊天

356
00:10:02,349 --> 00:10:03,149
他会带来一个结果

357
00:10:03,149 --> 00:10:04,668
就是说浪费你的时间

358
00:10:04,668 --> 00:10:05,668
他不会带来任何价值

359
00:10:05,668 --> 00:10:07,539
所以为什么我来到美国之后

360
00:10:07,539 --> 00:10:08,460
资产啊

361
00:10:08,460 --> 00:10:08,899
财富啊

362
00:10:08,899 --> 00:10:10,419
收益啊越来越好

363
00:10:10,419 --> 00:10:12,779
但是呢你但凡是给北方的人聊

364
00:10:12,779 --> 00:10:16,389
他就会说哎呀你这个还不是赚中国人的钱吗

365
00:10:16,389 --> 00:10:18,149
他妈的中国人有钱吗

366
00:10:18,149 --> 00:10:18,950
你自己想想

367
00:10:18,950 --> 00:10:20,070
有几个有钱的

368
00:10:20,070 --> 00:10:22,190
你你自己去看一下各位

369
00:10:22,190 --> 00:10:23,389
嘿嘿你

370
00:10:23,389 --> 00:10:26,629
你现在为什么连世界杯都中国人探讨了

371
00:10:26,629 --> 00:10:27,969
不是说世界杯不行了

372
00:10:27,969 --> 00:10:29,849
是世界杯很全球的

373
00:10:29,849 --> 00:10:30,769
除了中国以外

374
00:10:30,769 --> 00:10:32,589
都是探头热火朝天好不好

375
00:10:32,589 --> 00:10:34,568
所以说你千万不要说你不行了

376
00:10:34,568 --> 00:10:36,889
就就就认为说啊别人也不行了

377
00:10:36,889 --> 00:10:37,328
不是这样的

378
00:10:37,328 --> 00:10:38,928
各位这个世界它不是零和博弈

379
00:10:38,928 --> 00:10:39,428
知道吗

380
00:10:39,428 --> 00:10:41,528
他零和博弈只只存在这种农民思维

381
00:10:41,528 --> 00:10:44,200
比如说啊我那小时候的老家是吧

382
00:10:44,200 --> 00:10:48,080
一因为这个一亩三分地里面的这么啊几几厘米

383
00:10:48,080 --> 00:10:49,159
打得不可开交

384
00:10:49,159 --> 00:10:50,299
打得你死我活

385
00:10:50,299 --> 00:10:53,259
他只有这个没见过世面的人才在乎他的东西

386
00:10:53,259 --> 00:10:54,740
实际上真正见过世面的人

387
00:10:54,740 --> 00:10:55,899
谁不会选好的

388
00:10:55,899 --> 00:10:56,919
比如你在美国

389
00:10:56,919 --> 00:11:00,039
我们这哈全球的公司哪个不翻倍呀

390
00:11:00,039 --> 00:11:01,899
哈哈哪个不翻几倍呀

391
00:11:02,820 --> 00:11:05,360
他实际上他不是能力问题

392
00:11:05,360 --> 00:11:08,308
是你的选择之出就注定了一个结果啊

393
00:11:08,308 --> 00:11:09,828
就像有时候我给我们会员兄弟讲

394
00:11:09,828 --> 00:11:11,840
我说你在问一个问题的时候

395
00:11:11,840 --> 00:11:13,039
你在买之前问

396
00:11:13,039 --> 00:11:14,759
你下个月买了之后你再问

397
00:11:14,759 --> 00:11:17,299
就像你啊吃了这个毒药啊

398
00:11:17,299 --> 00:11:18,019
马上死了

399
00:11:18,019 --> 00:11:19,059
那你问我怎么办

400
00:11:19,059 --> 00:11:20,460
那你吃了毒药马上死了

401
00:11:20,460 --> 00:11:21,059
你只有两个办法

402
00:11:21,059 --> 00:11:23,840
第一个呢就是接受坦诚的面对死亡对吧

403
00:11:23,840 --> 00:11:24,919
那这个你肯定不接受

404
00:11:24,919 --> 00:11:25,639
那第二什么呢

405
00:11:25,639 --> 00:11:27,320
就是呵斩钉得体啊

406
00:11:27,320 --> 00:11:27,940
断臂求生

407
00:11:27,940 --> 00:11:28,609
对不对

408
00:11:28,609 --> 00:11:30,969
那那那那那该不要的直接砍掉

409
00:11:30,969 --> 00:11:32,448
你没有什么好的选择

410
00:11:32,448 --> 00:11:34,710
所以说这就是大家一定要想明白啊

411
00:11:34,710 --> 00:11:36,659
就是我自己创业这么多年

412
00:11:36,659 --> 00:11:38,480
我还是见了

413
00:11:38,480 --> 00:11:40,440
毕竟在北方这么多的员工啊

414
00:11:40,440 --> 00:11:41,200
招聘啊

415
00:11:41,200 --> 00:11:41,740
朋友啊

416
00:11:41,740 --> 00:11:43,620
我很了解这些北方人劣根性

417
00:11:43,620 --> 00:11:45,500
那骨子里面小农意识哈

418
00:11:45,500 --> 00:11:47,899
让他自己呢啊啊这个叫什么

419
00:11:47,899 --> 00:11:49,200
来作茧自缚吧

420
00:11:49,200 --> 00:11:51,100
就是自己把自己陷在一个笼子里面

421
00:11:51,100 --> 00:11:52,000
然后还想自救

422
00:11:52,000 --> 00:11:52,740
不可能的

423
00:11:52,740 --> 00:11:53,580
各位不可能的

424
00:11:53,580 --> 00:11:54,799
就你的思维的牢笼

425
00:11:54,799 --> 00:11:55,679
你打不开

426
00:11:55,679 --> 00:11:59,009
你是很难去解释一件事情怎么怎么发生对吧

427
00:11:59,009 --> 00:12:01,690
我昨天还看了一个啊一个济南的留言啊

428
00:12:01,690 --> 00:12:03,370
说哎呀这个人怎么怎么样

429
00:12:03,370 --> 00:12:04,090
就评价我嘛

430
00:12:04,090 --> 00:12:04,649
怎么怎么样

431
00:12:04,649 --> 00:12:07,649
他说评价我的原因呢是说因为当时什么啊

432
00:12:07,649 --> 00:12:08,408
看到贸易战的时候

433
00:12:08,408 --> 00:12:09,369
我的立场的问题

434
00:12:09,369 --> 00:12:13,659
哎呦各位你就想你今天为什么赚不到钱

435
00:12:13,659 --> 00:12:14,940
又想到一条为什么呢

436
00:12:14,940 --> 00:12:17,059
价格战价格战怎么产生的

437
00:12:17,059 --> 00:12:19,100
过剩过剩怎么产生的

438
00:12:19,100 --> 00:12:19,860
对不对

439
00:12:19,860 --> 00:12:21,000
你好好想想

440
00:12:21,000 --> 00:12:21,679
对不对

441
00:12:21,679 --> 00:12:24,350
你你过剩导致的结果是什么

442
00:12:24,350 --> 00:12:25,370
就大量的浪费

443
00:12:25,370 --> 00:12:26,269
很多人理解不了

444
00:12:26,269 --> 00:12:28,070
就是你看是说啊你很辛苦

445
00:12:28,070 --> 00:12:28,690
你很玩命

446
00:12:28,690 --> 00:12:29,669
还要亏钱

447
00:12:29,669 --> 00:12:31,269
各位那是你在浪费资源

448
00:12:31,269 --> 00:12:32,139
知道吗

449
00:12:32,139 --> 00:12:33,200
你理解不了吧

450
00:12:33,200 --> 00:12:35,100
比如说你自己种地

451
00:12:35,100 --> 00:12:36,139
种了一亩三分地

452
00:12:36,139 --> 00:12:37,580
然后这个时候呢对吧

453
00:12:37,580 --> 00:12:39,580
你你给你你家里面啊

454
00:12:39,580 --> 00:12:40,690
你给地浇水

455
00:12:40,690 --> 00:12:42,169
这时候这个池塘那个水呢

456
00:12:42,169 --> 00:12:43,090
总共咱随便说啊

457
00:12:43,090 --> 00:12:45,009
这10号水还有还有1/10

458
00:12:45,009 --> 00:12:46,970
但现在你还拼命的往自己店里灌溉

459
00:12:46,970 --> 00:12:48,830
然后你在地里的麦子已经被淹了

460
00:12:48,830 --> 00:12:49,610
你还在灌溉

461
00:12:49,610 --> 00:12:50,690
这是内卷的原因

462
00:12:50,690 --> 00:12:52,720
你在做损人不利己的事

463
00:12:52,720 --> 00:12:55,639
你想想是不是每一个人都是内卷的

464
00:12:55,639 --> 00:12:58,230
就是啊这个祸根是吧

465
00:12:58,230 --> 00:12:58,830
是肇事者

466
00:12:58,830 --> 00:13:00,309
每个人都是对吧

467
00:13:00,309 --> 00:13:01,730
我是最早停下来的

468
00:13:01,730 --> 00:13:02,570
201819年

469
00:13:02,570 --> 00:13:03,330
我停下来了

470
00:13:03,330 --> 00:13:05,009
我说我不再参与内卷了对吧

471
00:13:05,009 --> 00:13:05,889
我不想干了

472
00:13:05,889 --> 00:13:06,490
那为啥呢

473
00:13:06,490 --> 00:13:07,490
因为我没有价值嘛

474
00:13:07,490 --> 00:13:09,179
那这个市场不缺我一个

475
00:13:09,179 --> 00:13:09,940
我当时说的很直白

476
00:13:09,940 --> 00:13:10,419
我团队讲

477
00:13:10,419 --> 00:13:11,980
我说我说我当时做VIVO

478
00:13:11,980 --> 00:13:14,600
我说VIVOVIVO品牌需要我VIVO铁路吗

479
00:13:14,600 --> 00:13:15,200
我做前台

480
00:13:15,200 --> 00:13:15,720
我做小电台

481
00:13:15,720 --> 00:13:17,120
需要我们小天才会当家吗

482
00:13:17,120 --> 00:13:18,320
我我做这个会当夹

483
00:13:18,320 --> 00:13:20,799
我说电视过需一定需要一个回当家打价格战吗

484
00:13:20,799 --> 00:13:23,100
我都不需要我这个市场不需要打价格战的

485
00:13:23,100 --> 00:13:24,220
需要的是创新的对吧

486
00:13:24,220 --> 00:13:24,940
所以说我的锅

487
00:13:24,940 --> 00:13:25,860
我的波朗

488
00:13:25,860 --> 00:13:27,620
我所有东西都是高举高打啊

489
00:13:27,620 --> 00:13:28,580
我做差异化啊

490
00:13:28,580 --> 00:13:30,000
我给你做不一样的人群

491
00:13:30,000 --> 00:13:31,200
做不一样的场景啊

492
00:13:31,200 --> 00:13:32,159
做不一样的渠道

493
00:13:32,159 --> 00:13:33,320
我往海外走对吧

494
00:13:33,320 --> 00:13:34,519
我往这IP方向走

495
00:13:34,519 --> 00:13:37,600
所以这个才是我这些年一直在做的事

496
00:13:37,600 --> 00:13:38,740
我从来不去做

497
00:13:38,740 --> 00:13:40,100
别包括我做投资也一样啊

498
00:13:40,100 --> 00:13:41,019
我只想压着投资

499
00:13:41,019 --> 00:13:43,500
我只是基于行业和公司的价值去做评判

500
00:13:43,500 --> 00:13:45,039
我从来不会给他们卷啊

501
00:13:45,039 --> 00:13:46,120
我看好哪个行业

502
00:13:46,120 --> 00:13:47,120
AI怎么怎么样

503
00:13:47,120 --> 00:13:47,580
对不对

504
00:13:47,580 --> 00:13:48,419
很多人说权哥啊

505
00:13:48,419 --> 00:13:49,809
你说存储怎么怎么样

506
00:13:49,809 --> 00:13:51,470
各位我存储涨了四倍了

507
00:13:51,470 --> 00:13:52,649
我存储占到四倍了

508
00:13:52,649 --> 00:13:53,970
你让我给你推荐我

509
00:13:53,970 --> 00:13:55,289
我我是于心不忍啊

510
00:13:55,289 --> 00:13:55,840
对不对

511
00:13:55,840 --> 00:13:57,159
那我不知道存储好吗

512
00:13:57,159 --> 00:13:57,879
我去年10月份

513
00:13:57,879 --> 00:13:58,980
11月份我讲了多少次

514
00:13:58,980 --> 00:13:59,879
我赚了多少钱

515
00:13:59,879 --> 00:14:00,279
对不对

516
00:14:00,279 --> 00:14:02,460
我说你可以在下跌股里面慢慢put

517
00:14:02,460 --> 00:14:04,200
然后呢赚点稳定的收益

518
00:14:04,200 --> 00:14:05,000
你也没必要说

519
00:14:05,000 --> 00:14:07,879
前两天闪迪美光到底三十二十%对吧

520
00:14:07,879 --> 00:14:09,799
那你万一买到最高点30%回撤

521
00:14:09,799 --> 00:14:10,559
你能受得了

522
00:14:10,559 --> 00:14:11,879
你百分百会涨仓的

523
00:14:11,879 --> 00:14:15,230
所以他很多人他脑子里面就是个农民思维

524
00:14:15,230 --> 00:14:17,669
然后他有农民思维想去评价人家自由市场

525
00:14:17,669 --> 00:14:19,789
自由工业化市场怎么可能呢

526
00:14:19,789 --> 00:14:21,009
所以我讲这么多的意思

527
00:14:21,009 --> 00:14:22,850
就是大家对自己好一点

528
00:14:22,850 --> 00:14:25,529
得让自己呢出来打开视野啊

529
00:14:25,529 --> 00:14:26,979
能看看世界对吧

530
00:14:26,979 --> 00:14:28,859
这是你对孩子最大的福报对吧

531
00:14:28,859 --> 00:14:29,339
你相信我

532
00:14:29,339 --> 00:14:30,860
你相信我绝对没错的啊

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