【全哥爱分享】最新视频上线，求关注！

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昨天在雪球上有个粉丝兄弟留言

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他说权哥看了你的视频很久了

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也非常欣赏你的教育投资理念

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但是呢我的孩子啊在衡水上中学厌学

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然后呢想涨工立

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现在呢他就很痛苦

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一个是怕涨功率之后啊

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小孩就成黄毛了

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那第二个呢他每个月要出差

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只有七天的时间陪孩子

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然后怕孩子考不上好大学

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问我怎么办

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非常痛苦

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非常纠结

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小孩呢和父母呢基本上不怎么沟通

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然后一放假呢还能玩游戏

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然后我就给他回了一下

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我说其实啊哈我们没有办法让小孩变好

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但是我们可以阻止它变差

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各位这个也是我跟我老婆讲的

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因为这个人啊那个基因它很重要

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你想一条行吗

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咱们就看国内那些有出息的

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有成就的

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这些人的父母叫段永平吧

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他父母是江西的一个师范大学的老师嘛

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他母亲是八九十年代北京师范大学的哈

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这也是高材生啊

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其实你说它不受影响吗

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不可能的

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从小在这种啊书香世家啊这种环境下长大

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这个人他自然而然他就进球进对

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就这个哈

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就是这个遗传占了个人成为六七十%啊

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我只能讲我说我家庭里没有好处

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我父母因为他也没有什么文化

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但是他有一条他很有自知之明

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他不管

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所以这个也是给所有的父母讲一个逻辑

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就是如果你不知道怎么教育

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你

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就别管他

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不管他不就四风之外

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不是的

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你相信他

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各位你去想一个问题啊

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比如说你没有能力让它变好

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但你有没有可能性防止它变差呢

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你想怎么样变差

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小孩变差的点是什么

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你看看国内现在那些小孩

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然后挂壁的

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什么叫挂壁呢

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就是一帮人在大街上哈

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啥也不干

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在那里啥也不干啊

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瘦的跟个柴火似的

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又是纹身啊

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又是抽烟啊

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又是奇形怪状

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各位这些不就是我们我们八零后在大街上

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在香港

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特别他为什么成为下马图

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为什么会成为这些状态呢

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就因为家长管的多

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管的多了之后呢

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小孩呢就是不听给家长对着干

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而家长也生气了啊

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自生自灭吧

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放一起

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随波逐离吧

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变成了谁的挂壁少年

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但是这些少年他真的是人品不好吗

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他真的是骨子有患吗

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真不是很多时候都让父母错误的理念给搞坏了

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让他走上了一条对立的路

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所以呢你想让孩子好

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你首先不要对立啊

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你站在他的一边思考对吧

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你相信她

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你肯定相信各位

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你看我女儿也学也慢

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我跟他聊了一宿

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爬山爬了一上午

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就问他说你真的不想上学吗

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他说我真的不想上我

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你要想好啊

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你不上可以

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所以当时我还是非常痛苦的

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为什么

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因为我这个人很要强嘛

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我可不像我这小孩啊

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成为一个问题少年啊

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或者问题少年

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我肯定不希望啊

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我觉得我的记忆还可以啊

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啊最起码能独立奋斗

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上进心啊

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然后没有明确的争取时间好习惯

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那我坏情况真的不多

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我以前有坏习惯

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比如说我抽烟

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我现在不抽了

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那酒我现在喝的少了是吧

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然后呢就是然后天天这个出差

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我也出太少了

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实际上努力的改变嘛

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但是我在国内的时候

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小孩根本就不理我的

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就一个桌上吃饭都很难

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其实我也很清楚

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因为你但凡有点时间吃饭

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你都想给孩子讲一下你的人生感悟

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但是小孩跟你对对面的时候

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他不爱听啊

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所以我来到美国之后

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实际上我也没怎么管教过哈

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给大家

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反正你吃你吃你吃你的聊聊天哈

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我也不提任何的建议

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但是这个过程里面呢

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小牌他认为说你相信他吧对吧

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因为你不管他

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你不相信他了吗

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你不说他

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你不就他那个支持他的立场了吗

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当大家立场离这的时候

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很多时候呢大家可以聊

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然后你的建议呢不要给你

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就反正慢慢的聊天过程里面

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然后自己去悟啊

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比如说我是在美国怎么样啊

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立足的啊

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小孩对父母的改变很多时候是因为对比出来的

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所以他看到了同学的父母啊

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他忽然发现哎呀我的父母还挺厉害的

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真的这样吗

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各位就说这个人是什么概念

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就是你再牛逼

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在海点里面哼也蛮身缺氧

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他为什么呢

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因为小孩他不知道我们人呢愤怒的那种

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努力程度

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或者说先进程度

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他不知道他没经历过

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因为他从小长到环境就是是吧

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就是有求必应啊

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然后基本上能满足的成功满足是吧

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不想让他受我们这个苦

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但是实际上呢他慢慢长大了才发现了

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实际上父母是非常非常不容易的

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而就像我跟我父母一样

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好种地

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然后呢后面供我们上学

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虽然说后面供不起

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但是有一条他能攻就很难了

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因为他没有能力去

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所以说白了创造一个很大的企业哈

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我父亲也是是自己想法创业

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但是都失败了啊

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搞这个专场啊

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他不是不想搞

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在那个环境下

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他能他能搞

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他能搞这个勇气

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就已经超过99%人了

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99%人没有勇气的

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所以你你只有穿过夜之后

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你才知道其对一个在那个环境下的人来讲

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相当的难呀是吧

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后面我还想我说他父母如果说去啊去难的话

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不需不去都买

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那有可能比现在好多了

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但是话说回来

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他们为什么去东北呢

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因为那是能让家人吃饱的地方

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这种东西可能会挨饿

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这个真的东北有地啊

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有粮食呀

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你他们当时的想法是能让大家活下来

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吃饱饭

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别饿死啊

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这是他的最高目标

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所以从这个角度来看

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父母还是非常非常伟大的

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所以为什么

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我现在我觉得我的父母还是很牛逼的啊

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但实际上美国父母都很牛逼是吧

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特别是现在的这种国内的啊事业啊

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内部还倒闭哈

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一阵一阵的这种

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那这种情况下

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如果说还是能够理解到你的良苦用心

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他能体验到遥控器

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实际上他会重新认识你的

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所以我们现在做家长呢

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首先呢是他看到你的遥控器

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但你不能给他说是吧

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然后呢你找一个心平气和的机会好让他看到

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哪怕你是送外卖的话

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说回来那跟着你送一天

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不送你天啊

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感受一下对吧

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那这个送一天的前提是什么

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让他愿意能坐下来聊哈

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让他感受感受完之后呢

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他就知道了

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其实外卖这个事情

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他是六七十七八十%的失业人的必经之路

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因为你的技能很难复制这个时代

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这就是现实问题

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当孩子他能理解到父母的现实的时候

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他有可能会有所反思

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但是有可能呢他还会固执己见

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但是固执己见也没有关系

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为什么呢

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这个时代标准化的卡的时候

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其实已经四零的话

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又说回来

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你考的怎么样

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你考的话98521

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你能保证你一辈子你有个特别好的工作吗

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不一定啊

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各位AI替代的就是那些重复的程序员的工作

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各位我们过去梦寐以求的高薪

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还让别人替代了

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因为AI首先解决的是高收入的

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这帮人费用太高了

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就像这个亚马逊谷歌和甲骨文材料一样

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拆这个全是五六十万年薪的

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但真正便宜的一个月三五千

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像那些那些保那些卫生

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打扫卫生的

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像宝妈那些那些厨师

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他肯定不会踩的呀

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因为他作用很低

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但是他又很实用

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所以呢你想让孩子真正幸福

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学一个技能

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有可能比卡保守好的成绩还要重要

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你可以对应他的状况能力

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因为任何一个学渣或者说是吧

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没有所谓的在这种考试上没有天赋的人

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他都有一个天生的特长

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要么体育啊

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要有艺术

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要么就是其他的

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要么女儿绘画音乐都很好

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说话就说他即使他成绩不好

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我们也不用担心他

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他肯定是对吧

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自己能能有赚钱能力吧

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但是呢话又说回来

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第二个就是你说他今天学习好吗

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学习很好

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到了美国之后能不能考A是吧

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GPU都4.3

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然后呢学习呢越来越好

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而且是越来越自信了

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他为啥呀

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因为他他提到认同

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知道他首先觉得这个东西学的是他自己的

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他认为他学了之后有用

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他认为他是值得这么去学的

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其实那老花的刺猬一直很强的

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你你尊重他的同时呢

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你要他说

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OK那你你不要把责任给父母

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那这个也是我跟我老跟你讲

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我说你千万不要说帮孩子承担他该承担的责任

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你要让他知道学习不好就逃不及

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而不是逃不了你

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你千万不要太没面子

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跟他讲啊

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你要好好学啊

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给父母长脸呀

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你要好好学啊

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你让父母抬起头来

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千万不要这种话

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你要给他讲说你学了所有东西是为了将来你的

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你想这不赚钱对吧

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你学习顺序是吧

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你想成为这位科学家

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你学会物理化学是吧

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你要学会这个文学艺术家

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你要学会这个文学是吧

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你要学这个其他的是吧

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这种明星啊

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体育明星啊

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你就建立一个体育爱好

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这些东西让他坚持

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他一旦有了这种明确的自我意识的时候呢

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其实呢他就不可能浪费时间了

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各位这小孩比我们那时候聪明多了

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我们那时候懂啥呀

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我想想我们那小时候从老大毛都不懂

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那到了摸电脑的时候都已经快20岁了

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上了大学

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那我学计算机的

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在陆军学院学计算机

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学了两年

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只会开关机

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啥都不懂

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最后还把这个对吧

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毕业之后跑业务去了

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你说你是一个学这些所谓的什么英语

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计算机哈

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人工智能啊

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互联网电商

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最后呢都干销售去了

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你说有啥用处呢

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一个都没有

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那3年四年大学时间可能还不如三四天

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你毕了业之后学的快呢

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所以实际上我给大家讲

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就是你要想开一点

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我再强调一句话

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就是父母呢其实没有能力让孩子变好

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各位但是绝对有能力让孩子不要变差

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所以你想明白这个逻辑呢

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就从纠正他的习惯上开始就行了

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至于他学成什么样

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考成什么样

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那个东西真的是拼哈哈

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凭他个人的意愿

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