人到中年发现使命

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我觉得一个人最重要的日子有两个

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第一个呢就是诞生的那一天

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从此以后你有了生命

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第二个呢找到了自己的使命

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实际上我在22年我当时闲下来的时候啊

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当时也是有恐慌嘛

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就觉得忙碌习惯了啊

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突然闲下来不适应

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后来呢我看了一本书

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就人类星光闪耀时

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他讲了一句话

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当时把我戳中了啊

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他说人到中年最幸运的是什么呢

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莫过于找到了自己的使命

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我当时在想啊

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我说我的使命是什么呢

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刚开始创业的时候呢

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人嘛就想着多赚点钱是吧

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终于不用那么穷了啊

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小时候呢吃不上饭啊

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让人看不起是吧

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然后呢整个人呐就活的很憋屈

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到哪里呢都为了几百块钱啊

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出卖时间

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出卖军演

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但是忽然有一天我做了投资

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我发现这个事情呢确实适合我

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做管理呢确实不太适合我

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因为我是有厌蠢症的啊

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我对价值观不一致的人

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我总是很排斥

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然后大家说话呢两句不合是吧

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就把人呢就养成臭狗屎了

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那这个呢是我个人的一个特点

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所以我也知道

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所以我很少啊去刻意的去维护一个人是吧

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维护关系

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我总是把自己的喜好啊都写在脸上

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行与行不行拉倒

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所以我这个性格呢就注定了呢就适合做独行侠

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那投资啊和IP啊

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就非常符合我的性格

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所以你看我现在也很开心啊

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我但凡是有愉快的时候呢

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回到海边啊

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转一转看一看

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然后再出发

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这个过程呢就是自我疗愈的过程

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而且呢你可以移情是吧

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可以把你的精力啊

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注意力啊转移过来是吧

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而且呢找到自己喜欢的事之后呢

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乐此不疲

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所以实际上呢我觉得很少有人真正找到自己啊

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这个呢也是我有很多兄弟讲嘛

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说人呢还是要活的自我一点

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而不是自私啊

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自我一点就是你首先发现自己

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然后你才能立他

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你从心里面

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如果你是一个有能量的人啊

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有志趣的人

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你立他很容易

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但如果你没有呢

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你根本没有能量

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就变成了一个啊看似对别人好

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实欲无能为力

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这个呢也是很多所举行的心态啊

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我就给他讲

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跟很多人讲

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我说你不用考虑这么多是吧

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你做好自己的同时

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你是一定能够做好别人的

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但如果说你做不好自己的

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你是不可能能帮助别人

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这个也是我讲投资我感触最深的啊

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就大部分投资人赚不到钱

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一个最重要原因是什么呢

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就是他找不到自己

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他找到自己擅长

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他总是建议思迁啊

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每天打一枪

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换一个地方

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在任何地方都停不下来啊

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你看我我就喜欢什么呢

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就是爬山看海溜达嘛

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但是呢这个过程呢你总会发现一些惊喜哈

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比如说诶发现一个海虹

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各位你看这是海边啊

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发现一个

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这不叫海皇

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这叫这叫海星啊

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看这个多大

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看这个海星

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嘿嘿这玩意挺贵的哈

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还挺好吃对啊

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你就是在这赶海过程里面

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你通过一边发现一些你自己喜欢的东西啊

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然后呢找到一些乐趣

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嘿然后呢嘿你还可以是吧

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让自己呢就不断的不断的变得更开心一点哈

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你看这个这个它是它是允许摘的啊

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啊我来捞上来啊

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兄弟们哈

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看多了看哇哇这么大

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它粘粘上去了

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哇哇哎呀哦哎呀

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哎呀哈哎所以很有意思啊

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你在这个赶海过程里面非常多的乐趣对

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而且呢有你的开心呢

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你可以去做更多开心的事

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各位所以我跟你讲啊

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在国内特别在北方这个父母啊

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也不要管太多

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不要操太多心

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你做好自己哈

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你顺便的能帮就帮

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不能帮拉倒对

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你看我现在也是哎呀

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很多时候呢我在看这些投资人的时候

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我心想啊

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我说亏钱正常的

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那如果说你的心态不好

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你永远赚不到钱

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各位做投资这个事啊

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非常简单

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就是等着千万不要到处出击

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对你等的过程里面

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你就发现机会了

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但你到处出击呢

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你反而呢很难找到一个好机会

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那这个呢是投资啊

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大钱呢等来的啊

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他不是他不是你这个追求来的啊

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这还有一个对

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你看我经常讲我是钓鱼

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有人钓

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你看你在海边

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你说你哇这么大

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你看这国内可拿的小这么大的哇

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好嘞嘿嘿

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它滚着这么大的

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你那海胆全是个海胆

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你看这么大

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嘿嘿嘿

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哇哇哎呀

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这家伙真是哎呀咋这么结实

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一个都好几斤啊

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依然哎呀哎呀好嘛对

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这一个都两三斤啊

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看哇

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很有意思啊

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海胆你看这底下就是海胆多大

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你看这海胆哇

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你看你看海胆哇

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哇看这个海胆很大的

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海胆很大

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个看哇看到估计在国内不便宜啊

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哈哈哈好嘛

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这个这个这个很大

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这个看这个看这个很大哇

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这次赶海啊

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哇塞哇

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小的就不要小的

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装个大的行啊

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兄弟你看这个东西好玩吧

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但是海胆带不了了

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海胆还带不了

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放进去吧

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放进去吧

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走吧

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这个也不带

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带不了

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拿两个海星就行了

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哈哈我每次讲这个钓鱼

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有的钓的时候很多人不理解

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多简单呀

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是不是哎呀

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赶赶海

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没有海鲜吃是吧

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还开心

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我忘记了烦恼啊哈哈

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兄弟们啊

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今天搞了三个大海星

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看这三个就三四斤啊

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你看好嘛

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这里海胆啊

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我要你要捡的话

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那捡多了见多了

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看好了

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我们今天到此结束吧

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好吧

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你看哇塞三个大海星

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兄弟们哈哈钓鱼有地方钓啊

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开心啊

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